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okay well she had a couple of best friends that are males
i came along
i wasnt comfortable
i approached her
she listened and appreciated what i had to say
said she would try,
i havent seen too much to convince me to lose the jealous-ness-ness-ness etc etc
i was best friends with my ex but it was natural for me to distant myself from her so that the gf would have solid trust in me. i feel as if she should be able to do this with her guy mates considering she used to be crazy about one of them who is only friends with her cause he thinks that he can get her to cheat on me with himself. whenever he is mentioned, its often degrading this fella yet i dont understand why she bothers with him then especially when he says something to her that any decent person knows that you just dont say that to a woman.

i speak to her about it often cause im all about truth and honesty, yet i get the same story. its a serious relationship.


is my insecurity something i just need to learn to adapt or is she in the'wrong' (feel free to use that term on whatever degree of strength you feel)

should she lessen her relationships with these guys?
would it be wise to break up?
stay together and work on it more?
bust a cap in her ass?
is she doing nothing wrong and i need to adapt?

im aware that there may be a lack of info, so let me know if more info is needed to make a fair judgement/opinion

have a good one.