The Labour market that's meant to be a favor market is now all about who knows who, your competency doesn't give u a job even if your Cv speak in tongues

My dear I will advise, u suspend your wedding, get out of his house and seek God to change your man.from the way u narrated your story, he started hitting you during the short time u started planning your wedding it might be spiritual so pray for him and he should go for deliverance but still live apart. Am a victim I know what it's like to get hit, mine was 4yrs and I scaled through may God help u in Jesus name .