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EmpresFIDEL:
please friends i really need your advice. I have been dating him for 5yrs now, we love each other so much . but our genotype is giving us serious issue, we are both As and we don't consider brake up as an option. the pressure on my boyfriend from family and friends is making him want to dissolve the relationship when he still love me deep down and I love him too.. we are just too confuse. I don't want to lose him.

You don't need to break up..

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1. PGD ( Prenatal pregnancy test)CVS

The foetus is tested about 10 weeks and if it's SS( you can decide to keep it or do as you wish) it's don at the sickle cell centre at idi-araba @ 280k as at Febuary this year, you can go there to find out more.

2. IVF + PGD

This is more expensive as it's an IVF procedure plus test done on the fertlized egg before implantation and might cost upward 2m depending on the centre you decide to do it.

Basically..you eggs are retrieved during ovulation and the husbands sperm is used to fertilize the eggs , afterwards the eggs are tested ( bare in mind during IVF , more than 10 eggs can be retrieved). After ferlization and eggs tested..you can discard the SS ones and request the AS or AA ones to be implanted back into you ( you can decide to have twins this way) and or freeze the remaining eggs( if you are lucky to have many that are AS or AA) so next time..you only come for implantation

Mind you this procedure cost alot( budget 2m and above for this)

And if you do none of the above and have a SS child

Then you next option is bone marrow transfer ( this is still but a procedure already done at uniben and sickle cell centre @ idi araba planning to start soon)

Above are your options medically.

If you both love each other as you proclaimed..those above are the available options now and will involve sacrifice.

All the the best and Good luck

IsaAbubakar:
you're just selfish

Is it your problem?

jookco:
It's 2018 Bro, at ten months pregnancy they have a technology that can test if the child will be ss and terminate the pregnancy and you try another time, you can have 4 good children out of five only one will test positive of ss and you can terminate it before the baby grow in the belly. Go google it bro and leave your brother alone. One things they will not escape having all AS Children.

You mean 10 weeks

[quote author=juola post=67004014][/quote]Me sef be AS...right now, if I meet a AS lady that I like and she likes me and don't mind this processes. I am good to go.

baqina:
Hhhhmmm... Surprised at some of the comments.... The OP is being selfish and wicked. One thing about us Nigerians is that, we are too aggressive.We get angry and aggressive unnecessarily and we think our opinions count in other people's life... Everybody has his/her own life to live.

Getting married to AS is not a death sentence, there are so many improvements in medicine that has reduced the fear.... Marriage is not about giving birth only.....

So many AA couples are childless and malaria killed millions of babies every year before age 5...

Visit sickle cell Foundation in Lagos, they will suggest so many options ur brother can take... PNS is not up to N300,000 at SCF......

It's 270,000 as at February sef

DopeAngel:
Serious Advice Needed Pls- How Can I Resolve This Impending Doom In My Family

Please nairalanders i kindly need your advice on this family issue. my elder bro met this girl sometime last two years after having too many disappointments in relationship. he said he wants to finally settle down that he is tired of waiting and disappointments.

Now the serious problem is both of them are genotype AS, but my brother does not care, he still wants to go ahead with the marriage. He is saying he has faith and hope in God that nothing will happen. even my parents are not helping matters, my parents are strong church elders and they are even saying my brother should pray that God can change things.

I am so pained with my parents stand on this issue knowing the severe consequence that follows. i was hoping they would outrightly dissolve the relationship but no they are hoping on God. What pains me the most is that the girl herself is a nurse, she knows better than everybody but yet she is not considering that.

Right now i hate the girl because she is coming to ruin the life of bro's unborn children

Tell your brother to read about CVS and IVF + PGD. These are medical ways to avert having a SS child. And if you are in Lagos...go to the Sickle cell centre, opposite luth at idi Araba. They do the CVS testing at the place.

But first read about it and have an understanding. There is no need to dissolve the marriage and they can marry and not have a SS child. There are medical ways to it now.

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