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Three (3) Sex myths Women need to stop believing about men.

These sex myths women believe, could be causing more harm than good. There have been a lot of wrong preconceived notions women have about sex when it comes to men. This might sound like harmless beliefs, but often times, these wrong ideas will negatively impact their sex life and their relationship.

SEX COMES BEFORE EMOTIONAL CONNECTION.
Men are also human beings. They feel emotion and crave the connection with someone else. If he is a man in love, he will not only be counting the hours to the next time you both have sex, he will also feel more secure in the relationship if he feels his emotional needs are met. This is why those women who choose to have sex with men to get the men fall for them often get a rude awakening. A man's heart is not connected to his penis. If he loves you, it is because he loves, not because you give the best sex ever.
A man can also feel emotionally connected to a woman he is not having sex with. So no, it is not always about sex.

HE ONLY FOCUS ON HIS PLEASURE
A man main focus during sex is not simply his pleasure, but hers too. In fact, most men cannot enjoy it if they do not get feelings that she enjoys it too. This is why he worries about whether or not you orgasm. So you just lying there without giving him any positive encouragement because you assume he is only interested in cumming and getting up is unfair. He wants to feel passion from her and also wants to know you desire him. Never forget to show him that.

THEY CANNOT GET ENOUGH
While there is some truth to the fact that men crave sex more often than women(because men have a higher testosterone level),this does not mean he wants to have it every single hour of everyday. Any man who goes around all the time looking for who to screw next is a man with a problem.
Do not focus all your energy on giving him all the sex in the world, to the detriment of actually doing other thing to make your relationship last because you think he's obsessed with sex.
In fact there are a lot of things that might affect his sex drive so it is very possible that at times your man would rather not have sex.

Remember flee from all forms of sexual immorality

ashjamu:
Great bt weird yea I am weird n u?

Really? Great

ashjamu:
Jan 15

How do you feel born on Jan 15th. Nice meeting you

fulanimafia:
Blame game from Madam best economy on paper.

If not for the timid, ineffectual, incompetent and clueless president, how can ordinary governors hold a President and commander in chief to ransom, was he such a dullard to not know the effect of wasting oil savings when oil prices were high, especially when NOI herself had warned that the oil prices would soon crash and Nigeria would be broke? Is that not why Nigerians are suffering today?

Governors fault indeed. It's like saying El Rufai or Fayose can force Buhari to share the money saved from the TSA. Impossible.

Thank God we got rid of you and Don Clueless Ineffectuanto.

Excess Crude Account: NEC advises FG, state government to settle out of court.http://www.channelstv.com/2012/09/20/dnuzUnBIV4w.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dnuzUnBIV4w

fulanimafia:
Blame game from Madam best economy on paper.

If not for the timid, ineffectual, incompetent and clueless president, how can ordinary governors hold a President and commander in chief to ransom, was he such a dullard to not know the effect of wasting oil savings when oil prices were high, especially when NOI herself had warned that the oil prices would soon crash and Nigeria would be broke? Is that not why Nigerians are suffering today?

Governors fault indeed. It's like saying El Rufai or Fayose can force Buhari to share the money saved from the TSA. Impossible.

Thank God we got rid of you and Don Clueless Ineffectuanto.

Excess Crude Account: NEC advises FG, state government to settle out of court.http://www.channelstv.com/2012/09/20/excess-crude-account-nec-advises-fg-state-government-to-settle-out-of-court/

MrMcJay:
During the 1995 Coup plot of Abacha's regime, Obasanjo was abroad when he got info that he was to be arrested in connection with the coup and he spurned it saying 'they hadn't given birth to the person that would arrest him.' Immediately he landed at the airport in Lagos, he was arrested. This same Obasanjo burst into tears when Col Ibrahim Yakassai brought an injection needle for OBJ, this same OBJ making mouth burst into tears.

The above is for all those that think Buhari can not arrest Jonathan. There is nothing GEJ is that OBJ wasn't as at the time he was arrested.

When government cook your beans and e don done, nothing can stop you from eating it. Ask Kanu and Diya.

That was military errar, and in democracy things are different

Islie:
http://www.reportsafrique.com/jonathan-may-be-arrested-before-may-29-efcc/

Obasanjo with EFCC, I remember when this commission was established during OBASANJO administration and then he used them against anyone not supporting his view. Now calling them names.
Is OBASANJO a saint? Is His hands free, What of ONE BILLION DOLLAR ($1b) POWER PROJECT during his tenure that never saw light of the day. Most of the so called sites were just cleared and nothing more. Or can he account for the sale of government houses and properties during his tenure both in Abuja and Lagos? He should go and sleep or use his time for better things. Why meddling with this administration when himself couldn't do something to ameliorate the condition of this nation

Validated:
When you build a refinery about 3000 km from source of crude, you expect the cost of refining to be low? How feasible? The problem of Nigeria remains insincerity. Deregulate the sector and let prove hands manage everything. Allow resources control and the problem of vandalism would be curbed. Let the refineries die so that private owners would build them where they would be profitable. As long as this nation remains lopsided as it is today, there is no magician that save the situation If you like preach vision 2040, it will remain a mirage!

Am not against deregulation, even LAGOS to MAIDUGURI is 1532km which is the farthest distance in this country but has privatization of PHCN improved electricity in this country? Who are the prove hands, is it individuals business men and their interest is enriching themselves? Have you considered while Trains which would have been used to convey this crude oil to where refineries are not working. How do those countries where we import from make theirs work. Let me tell you this Exportation of Crude oil and importation of refined products are done by private individuals in this country, those involve never wanted anything to work so that they can be enriching themselves

obontami:
Are u saying if u have the opportunity to screw bryan okwara or ramsey nouah u won't fccck them ??


I hate it when people are utter hypocrisy words

Will you receive an AWARD for that?

mimopel:
Happy sunday friends and families

Happy new month

Pls I want us to share our views on what we think about pornography....if it's good for Christian couples to watch pornography maybe because of inexperience or sth or its not good to watch...

I think pornography is practical wrong for Christian couples whether inexperience or not I believe sex is an expression of love and u make love to Ur spouse base on how u feel u want to express ur sexual burning desire. I think pornography is not ideal, to me I don't see the holy spirit encouraging that, but I could be wrong so please I need your sincere thought on dis...Pls not of a carnal mindset...but on the spiritual foresight with biblical backings if any thnx
posted it here because romance section have full traffic Dan religion let's air out view thnx

Why should you choose to watch some people's unclothedness in order to have experience.

stonemasonn:
Yes sex is overrated, but the lack of adequate sex can be bad as well.

This should be for married and not for unmarried individual who engaged in illicit sex

dis is not fb

dis OP should be banned!

Why? If you were aborted (Not meant to Abuse you), will you be who you are today.
The consequences of sexual immorality today have truncated a lot of destinies

cruzita:
A man will have as many girlfriend as he like,promise them unforeseen love,sleep with them and discard them like tissue paper.but when he wants to get married ,he will like to marry a virgin,good girl and hardworking girl.my question is
WHO WILL MARRY THE ONES U SPOILT
WHO WILL MARRY THE ONES U DISFLOWERED .
ANSWER SINCERELY

No one forces anyone to do against his or her wish. If a man demand for sex in the name of love or marriage. As a lady ,why not stand your ground and tell the man to wait until the d-day. If a man really loves or needs you, he should respect your view. I was once in a state in this country, where they tagged any man that does not have time for lady or not engaging in things with lady as " Not a real man".

If govt really wants to be sincere and alleviate the suffering of its citizens, Refineries should be built and makes them work. Why should Nigeria be importing refined petroleum product when we all know its cheaper to refine than to import.
The funniest aspect of it is that before any administration comes to power they saw the PROBLEMS and PROMISE to proffer SOLUTIONS but immediately they got there, they starts shifting error to any past administration instead of providing solutions.

This also apply to Power sector.

neocortex:
Here we go again, do you still engage in any of those characters ? Yes or No

If you can't get anything from what I said so far, you are not in right position to ask if yes or no, I will only tell the words and stop responding to your message. Those that do such things cannot inherit the kingdom of God. Read Galatians 5:19

neocortex:
Why are you beating about the bush , the question requires a yes or no answer
I know you are definitely engaging in one of those acts which means you are not
a christian but your self-declared righteousness will not let you see that but you
are quick to label others as non-christians because they are "sinners".

I never labelled anyone as a sinner, but let me tell you, if you have Christ living in you, those characters will not be found in your life because you live by keeping his words, so why calling yourself a Christian when you don't have the attributes of Christ. I show you what the Scripture says but I guess if you are a Christian that study the Bible daily, you will know who a Christian is. Do you know why the Disciples first called Christians? You cannot be doing those things and claim to be a Christian,

neocortex:
Are you saying you are not or never engage in any of those acts since you "became" a christian ?

Romans 12: I beseech you therefore brethren, By the mercy of God, that ye present your body a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
Matthew 6: 33 Seek ye first God's kingdom and HIS righteousness.
2 Corinthians 5:I7 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
1 John 5:18We know that whosoever is born of God sinneth not; but he that is begotten of God keepeth himself, and that wicked one toucheth him not.
Romans 6:1 What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound?
From the day you decided to follow Jesus, you decided to leave behind your old way of life. And allow God to be in total control of your life. Is the way you live your life, react to things, that tell people who you are. As a Christian, we should be heavenly conscious. And our lives should preach the gospel our our Lord Jesus Christ.

neocortex:
Who are you to decide who is a christian and who is not ?
I won't be surprised if you have a lot of skeletons in your cupboard
because hypocrites claims righteousness the most.

A Christian is someone that has accepted Jesus Christ as his or her personal saviour, keeping the words of GOD, living a holy and righteous life. Not just church goer. You cannot be a fornicator, adulterer, lier, idolater, murderer, thief, you cannot be keeping malice,And say you are a CHRISTIAN because you find yourself in the church

folks4luv:
have you being abused and deceived by a man who came to u in d name of The Lord? if u v not been, am sure u cant understand what must have gone through her mind that drove her to that decision.

For one not to be deceived, you must be a lover of God and make His words your daily communion. When we stop seeking men and start seeking God, read His words and keep them, no one will be able to lie to us because you will know the truth.
Matthew 7 :15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.
Matthew 7 :21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.John 8:32And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
Matthew 11:28James Bible
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest

naughtynaughty:
Hello all,
I was jxt wondering.. How do single ladies get hooked up in Nigeria?
When I say get hooked up I mean in a crios relatnshp, not those ones dt d guy is jxt there to eat some bo.oty..I mean a crios one dt leads to serious relationship nd finally, marriage? Those ones our parents practised in d 60's. Criosly how??


I mean, u think yhr fine, hot, nd well mannerd, got gud brains, can keep conversations on bt its hard fr u finding mr right. Whr r all d mr rights in Nigeria? Abi they r all taken ni? Whr r d good guys


Wen I was in 100lvl I alws picture 500lvl as dat level whr evritin in jxt perfect, u knw..like u nd ur fiancee driving around in his ride nd doin 5 nd 6 evriwhr. Maybe by den ure alrdy engaged wit one fine ring.

Am der nau nd Mr right is stil nt here..nawa ooo.
Whr r all the Mr right guys nah.. Oga o!
My prince charming, whr @tho?

Jxt thinkin out Loud


Cc seun lalasticlala pls help fish those mr rights out

Real relationships are built on lasting values. Most extra nice men are not rich

wolfgangg:
you might try but how sure are you others will reciprocate?

Live by example. No one can be forced to follow suit.

vicstar:
good but nothing new

if we make it part of our lives, things will work fine

Greene66:
Yes!

The bible never stated that we should not have sex before we get married. The Muslim book never said the same thing. Same goes with the Jewish Books (My religion precisely) and also the Hindu and Buddhist.

Of all these religion, there is no clear statement that is against premarital sex.

As such, In my opinion, premarital sex is not a crime as it's definitely not illegal neither is it a Sin!

So guys, enjoy yourselves.

P.s Adultery is a Sin and it's even illegal in some parts of U.S. I'm not sure about nigeria sha. But it should be in the north. So don't be adulterous

1 Corinthians 6 :18 - Flee FORNICATION. Every sin a man doeth is without the body, but he that commiteth fornication sinneth against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6 :13b- Now the body is not for fornication but for the Lord. Check the word FORNICATION from your dict.

wolfgangg:
Does love exist in this world?? Even your family members can't love you truly like you'll expect them to... Only God loves truly!!

We all need to practice it to make it visible

ettaetta:
And that kind of love doesnt exist https://m.youtube.com/watch?sns=tw&v=0iq_pkXsMv8

It has to start with everyone of us.

LOVE is kind, love does not envy, love does not vaunt itself, love is not selfish, love does not puff up, love bears all thing, love seek the welfare of other,.
When you love, you are not easily provoked, with love you don't think evil, love endures all things.
Love covers someone weakness and seek to build up.
Why are we experiencing heart break, why do we fall out of love, why does your partner cheat on you. It's because you are not together due to love but because of what to benefit or what we call love is simply LUST, so after achieving your aim, then you let go. When you truly love, you will never pick offense against your partner, but if you do, you will still forgive, and also with love, listening hear and readiness to accept corrections will be part of us.

Respect is a basic human need. It is a requirement in any functional relationship. So be the type of person that you want to meet or have.
In a romantic relationship, couples don't just respect each other - they should cherish and revere one another.
They should show respect through daily actions, such as:
1. Being sensitive to each other's feelings
2. Listen attentively
3. Regarding the other person's needs and wants as equally important as one's own.
4. Being considerate even when stressed or tired.
Successfull couples combine respect with romance during their courtship and continue to do this even long after marriage.