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Thanks everyone for your comments, @Kimoni, thanks for the candid advise, @TV01 will love to share notes with your wife. Honestly, my hubby is not as bad at it sounds, maybe it's just me trying to be overly worried about the issue. because he ends up bathing and washing away his spittle from the bath. And he's really not so careless in a lot of other things, except this particular bathroom habit of his. On the contrary, he's quite a decent and well-trained young man from a good family. And he's also of good general hygiene like hand-washing and wardrobe cleanliness. Infact it was him who introduced the footmat in front of the bath. I even threw away two of his bathroom slippers which works better that than the new one I bought, without his consent. Maybe i'll have to buy a more absorbent footmat. I guess I will just handle the situation more gently and with love and I believe with time he will get over the habit. And he does not do this everyday, just sometimes. *lso he does not pee on the bathroom floor as I said, just some pee on the toilet seat but this too he wipes with a tissue. He's also not a bad influence on our daughter, rather he's a caring and doting dad who enjoys spending quality time with his family. Infact he was there in the delivery room with me in the US when we traveled to have our daughter. Maybe I need to appreciate more what I have.

Thank you all for your suggestions @ bebrief people can change after marriage or better still people can pretend a lot. thou, that's by the way I will take the advise of well meaning people here and will be hoping for a change for the better. @ melodies I will be less confrontational for the sake of peace afterall it's a man's world!

For some of you who have made useful contributions I appriciate that and will take ur advise am not a saint I have my own habits which he pointsout frm time to time n I try to make amends I usally dnt nag him unless I knew am trying to improve him which I think that is what it's supposed to be!

Then the spitting issue am not a crazy person that will quarrel with someone spitting while taking a bath. It's usually while he pooing he jus keeps spitting into the bath area sometime pee's on the bathroom floor sometimes there by leaving d bathroom in d room always smelling. It hurts me cuz I knw it can be better I have been as rational as possible. I get him water to flush most times I flush for him I clean up the toilet he messes up with tissues buh I guess I complained cuz I want him to atleast be a good example to our baby.

Thank you all for ur various opinions, they are all appreciate buh I think some people ain't understanding the real situation.. what we have is a bedroom with a bath innit, I have no ish with him wearing a bathroom slpps in d bath that's what it is for. the problem is after wards. There is a mat jus by d bathroom door of d bathroom which doesnt work for him. He ends up spilling water in d room. I usually clean up after him as often as everyday then considering we also have a 6mnths baby who is at the verge of crawling. I have explained the reasons why he needs to take charge of the situation. i have been gentle, I have been nice abt this I have even constantly cleaned up after him Buh my issues is that he doesn't make efforts as this didn't start today. I have suggested he should leave d slpps by d door as soon as he comes buh it hasn't worked.

Hello house, please I will like your input on this issue I had with hubby. This morning he was in the bathroom making use of the toilet. Suddenly I heard him spitting on the shower (tiled) floor (a habit he has and does even when I jus wash the bathroom) and I find it disgusting. He also does get into the bathroom with a bathroom slippers therafter matching water around the room. Though he makes use of the footmat in front of the bathroom though that's not very effective. Each time I try to let him know it's not hygienically okay to do that he always picks offense with me. I called out to him this morning while he was in the toilet and here is our conversation....
Me.. sweethert are you spitting on the shower floor? asking twice then I started to say: u shouldn't be doing that, I find it disgustin and besides I will end up hiding ur bathroom slippers so you walk barefoot around the house that way u understand how it feel (though I also wear bathroom slippers in the living room, kitchen and bedrooms when I feel the house is sandy as there are also other people in the house who contribute to that)
Him.. in btw my comment he is saying it's not appropriate to be addressing him while he is in the toilet

NB; this issues has been discoursed at various times in the past, please tell me my offense?