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For all those in a long-distance relationship, this article will be a most useful tool to help your relationship blossom.
Some people believe that being faithful is difficult especially when two lovers are so far apart. They feel maintaining communication might become increasingly difficult and as the relationship lasts longer, insecurities might arise because one person is not around to see what the other is doing.
But the truth is long distance relationships can work. Although dating is hard and takes a lot of commitment from both parties, there are ways you can keep your long distance relation going. Below you will find tips on how to strengthen your bond with your partner:
1. Avoid too much communication Generally, the standards as to what is considered too much communication varies from couple to couple. There are two extremities: the couple that communicates too much and the couple who doesn’t communicate enough.
You don’t need to compensate for the distance by strangling each other with possessiveness. There are couples who can last without speaking for three days and remain married for thirty years and there are some who speak every hour and break up after two months.
Sometimes when you are calling for too long, there are some jealous questions your partner might want to ask, maybe because your partner hears the voice of a guy around you or that of a female as the case may be, essentially.
The best thing to do is to just go with the flow and do what is normal for your relationship, avoiding too much communication. Some people even spend the whole time quarreling with their partners on phone about past events than discussing relevant and present issues. Remember too much of everything is bad.
2. Keep your outing with friends on a low Some partners are the jealous and overprotective types. They won’t want to hear that you’re hanging out with a friend, be it male or female. Some male partners get jealous when you hang out with your female friend or a with male friend except if the female friend is someone they have met before.
They might have the feeling that the female friend is teaching you some bad things like cheating, partying, clubbing etc. Your partner might even get angrier when he gets to know that you are handing out with a male friend. You know your partner more than I do, you know what can upset him, so be wise it is not every place you visit you’ll tell him or her to avoid, jealousy and anger.
3. Do things together. Doing things together can mean a variety of things. In this technologically- driven society, you may want to consider playing online video games together when you are less busy. You can as well see a movie of YouTube together, then analyse the movie. Also you can read the same e-books, Skype, video call over the distance. Even though you’re living apart from each other, that doesn’t mean you can’t share bonding experiences.
4. Send love messages and gifts on special days. You should see sending of messages and buying of gifts as very important. It might not be every time but only depends on how buoyant you are and you shouldn’t complain of not having money because you can save up for this. There are some very special days you shouldn’t forget to send a special message and gift to your partner.
These days, you can just order from an e-commerce site, and your order will get delivered to your partner. Nothing is too little. You only need to know those important days in the life of your partners so as to send them good wishes and gifts. However, it’s not only on special days you can send gifts, you can do so even when your partner least expect.
5. Visit each other Your relationship must be a two- way street. Obviously, you can’t go without seeing each other for the rest of your lives. So visits will be necessary. Besides, you guys will have all that much more fun once you see each other again. Scheduling time to visit your spouse is very important if your relationship must work well.
Even in your very busy schedule, you must map out time to visit each other. Visiting each other should also not be one- sided. Visits are not only for the ladies, guys should also find time to pay their partners a visit.
6. Be honest It can be easy to lie in a long distant relationship because you feel after all. He or she isn’t there to prove you wrong. But no good relationship can be built on lies. Therefore, the best thing you can do for your relationship is to be honest with one another.It is better not to talk at all than to tell lies, because lies will not always save you

lwkmd.... lol this frodd is such a talent

lol... who in Gods sake is this biggie ooo his proverbs are something else

this Elo talks some how i dont know how to describe it but its annoying

this Elo talks some how i dont know how to describe it but its annoying

koyyes:
Why wasn't frodd present when they were shopping

This boy is very difficult o.

Thank goodness he has aunty Esther to cane him with her mouth when he messes up.

will you keep quiet... i bet u dont watch the show, because if u do u wont say such nonsense, is that the only thing that happened?...... mtcheeeeew

lonelydora:
Why do these "PepperDem" housemates always fight over food? Yesterday, it was Frodd and Cindy over a bottle of Cashew nuts. The other day it was Esther fighting over egg, ordinary egg ooo.

Biggie please, ensure enough is in that house, Biko.

Tufiakwa to these HMs!

this one doesnt watch the show oo... lol
its the same cindy cashew that brought about this one too.

okokkk:


Uche Ogah's ascendance to power is testament of the efficacious nature of sycophancy and desperation. His innocent and unassuming outlook are obvious mistakes of creation. Don't fall for it!

When he first stepped into the political scene in 2013, he brought hope. He revived the belief in the Abia project. In Aba then, we used to sing, "Ogah fuo ,anyi e fuo" meaning "If Ogah goes missing, we are all doomed". That was the extent of hope he offered. But all that meant nothing to Ogah who only wanted power for power's sake.

His message was of liberation. We wanted our evil godfathers out of the way. He knew this, so, he preached same. We thought Ogah was the new order. We all followed him sheepishly till he led us to Orji Uzor Kalu.

Today, that epic betrayal has been rewarded by the cowliphate, and for the cowliphate.

just look at the rubbish u just took your time to write...
may God deliver Nigeria before he delivers you

see Frodd is a nice person, he has his issues, very defensive and atimes he does it too much, because he is very emotional.... but mehn he is talented, smart, good looking, damn so funny on is day, a good guy...
every girl should pray for a guy like frodd, he loves u not withstanding how u reciprocate thats love to me....
#period

physiomos:
Frood you ain't getting anything from me this week
Cindy and Tacha you have my vote.

lol, we dont want your 30 naira.....
oya team frodd ho many likes can we get for him

Stephlena:
excuse me.. khaffy.
Cyndy.
Tacha.
Seyi.
Elo.
Enkay..she said that on stage.
Diane.
Mike.
Joe.
Mercy.
Ike, called him an emotional asshole
Sirdee said if frood had won the HOH,he would have challenged it!
omashola.
even Esther nwakpuda.. forcing his naked butts on her bed.

sure say u well so oya wait let me list Tasha's own Ebuka Biggie Frodd Esther isilomo Avala Jeff Ella Thelma Mercy Diane Joe Omashola Venita Mike... just to mention but a few madam so clean ur eyes first

Stephlena:
Even as a proper nwa-aba..this frood no just follow at all..he's that type of a nagging man, they torture you and still claim to be a victim.

Just as Ike said,he's an emotional asshole.

Only him versus the whole house.. it's always him!

I'm beginning to see reasons with that Nwakpuda Esther!

Aunty u have come again, abi Tasha too use to have issues with the whole house and you will still side her
u just follow what u hear people say,how is kaffi, cindy, elo, tasha the whole house.....
#JudgeJury

Tetehjewels:
Regardless, 2 were ordered and not 3 and since Cindy already stated that she specifically ordered for one then there should have been an agreement before sharing which was what Cindy wanted but frodd wanted to take the whole bottle despite not ordering for any

Frodd was wrong

he was wrong to an extent because he refused to come meet them to reslove the issue, but see that Tasha girl was there and Frodd to me felt since Tasha was there she instigated the calling and he didn't want to go near her

fergieboy:
it was just 2

Even kaffy was calling him to come let them sort it out in the kitchen and Frood walk out with the nut to the garden.. Even Cindy wanted to share the nut with him

that's just the bad part, but i think he really refused to go there because Tasha was there and he suspected Tasha instigated the calling him

Tetehjewels:
The extra was for Elo who also ordered for same

thats not true, Elo didn't order he only took one because the pringles didn't reach him, Cindy was the only one that ordered

Tetehjewels:
Biggie brought 2 and not 3

so? atleast an extra was there

JaruJaru890:
how?
He didnt go to shop. Cindy ordered for cashew. It came and he took it. So wrong of him

is that what happened, cindy ordered for cashews they brought about 3 he took one, y must u want that one he took other people took too, so y call only him because u saw him

Threebear:
Frog is so irritating !

then u are disgusting, u people will just be judging one sided, was that the only cashew there, so y tackle me because u saw me with one and u didn't see others

no body should call frodd names abeg.... Cindy ordered for cashews, biggy brought 3 ,Frodd took one, just because you were fortunate to see him with one u now start calling him,the people that took the other 2, u wont bother just because you saw Frodd with one, his team was the one that won for the week,he kept on telling her that biggy brought 3,other people had, y are u calling only me
tho he had his own issues too, but he isnt all wrong

Ekinematics:
If you are a Tacharian kindly pay no attention to this attention seeker. Just skip this post like you never saw it.
Give them haters no attention.

your problem is you dont think and reason in a fresh and odd way you think and reason like Isilomo (Tasha kind)
get off my mention before i Avala u

please o, out of curiosity i really want to know.... what does tacha possess, that should make her win this show?
as for Frodd nigga is real, very funny when he wants to and nigga can act i must say etc
Mike with is class and mature mind has a lot
Mercy with her controversial party antics of one person grabbing her as* per party and she is real too
Ike is really smart in a streetwise way, if u look well u will see how wise truly
Omashola Nigga is loud and real, funny too and an entertainer
Also that Cindy girl, u guys should watch out for that one despite the inside village attitude atimes she has
just to mention but a few,
but for Tasha biko i just want to know what, is it wisdom, smartness, strength, perseverance, realness,humility,....just what exactly? that makes this country people like her?

Menance:
I love Ebuka's pepper.. This guy is a very gooooooooooooood host.

he is just there, isnt so so good, i think the dressing does alot good for him have you seen IK present before?

Amya:
She's always thrived in activities that involve careful planning and presentation and she's always failed in those impulse based activities. That's just how she is. That doesn't translate to dumbness. For joining in having meaningful discussions with other HMs, it's already been covered that she isn't book smart.

she always thrive in what? planning and presentation?
c'mon stop that joke o, that is completely not true.

Frank65:
If u are using arena games to judge smartness, then u are obviously very dumb

please president of smart people, as regards to this game called big brother what will you use to judge smartness?
someone has failed consistently in all task and u want to bring out smartness from that one... shaking my head for you, you and tasha needs help from that place in Yaba

Amya:
Tacha could be a lot things, but one thing she definitely isn't is dumb. Her intelligence is not the apparent pretentious kind (e.g Jackye), and she's not book smart either. People would likely conclude that she's dumb, but she isn't, She's very intelligent, and that intelligence put her on this show.

Tacha is just a regular girl, average in looks and very forgettable but having a goal in mind (probably fame and money), she set out to pursue it. She devised ways to put herself out there and trend. First there was the fake proposal video that went viral, then there was the Davido tattoo and the fake kidnap. All of these trended. When she felt she had adequate attention she devised ways to keep that attention (this is where the mini erotica and twerks come in) plus generating controversies to keep her name in people's mouth.

I have had reasons to click her page couple of times before the show began, and I know how hard it is for things to get my attention.

You see that bbn audition mocking video? I very much believe she's also the mastermind behind that, going by her previous antecedents. She knows that video trending was her only shot of getting in and she put the plans in motion. Like this is what they'll probably be taught studying advanced MBA in harvard. Like this girl got big brains that work.

Tacha is not on my lineup of faves going by her crass behaviour the first weeks into the show. I desperately wanted to root for her but she spoilt it by her arrogance and rudeness. You know what they say about first impressions...
She's the only that I think got into the show by sheer will and calculations and not by connections.

While I might not approve of her methologies of going after what she wants, who am I to judge? In this dog eat dog world, you gotta do what you gotta do to survive. I won't deny that she's a go getter, with the biggest brass balls I've ever seen. I know she'll definitely go far after the show because her hunger and drive for success got her here In first place.

I want my faves to win the show, but if Tacha wins I won't be sad either but will be filled with pure undiluted admiration. "like she really did it!"

you have strength to beat around the bush and sugar coat obvious Dumbness, if this girl is not dumb to you, then i wonder who is... someone that has carry last for all the friday night games, some of her contributions to meaningful conversations are just unbelievable, obviously unwise...

oshe11:
Can't wait for Frodd to leave On Sunday

what is this one saying, go and carry him out na

slimiyke:
Do you really know what presentation is all about? You're not called to recite a written script rather your body language should be of the demonstration.....that makes it more interesting

this thing you said now isn't it what she did... her body language was the best for all the presenters...so what are you saying

sanusi44z:
What da Bleep is Ciny saying

are you drunk, what are you saying.

kosky:
Oh shut up and get off my mention! Silly thing.

sorry ma,

kosky:
Team Ike please gather here. Is there a WhatsApp group I can join?

whatsapp group kwa?
if the Ike win, dem go share the 30 million give u?
i see, are u in need of a job? let me give you my number and help out, because you just sounded jobless o... na my mind i talk o

Dansuqi:
You cant even be creative.please go and sit down

lol... creative director i am sorry...

Dansuqi:
Mike boxers fall on you

Tasha's pant land on you damn i can only imagine the smell it will be bad, sorry bro