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Be like contesting and being a president can mostly prolong lifespan

Only the poor and irrelevant people will be angry about these benefits,

This is why it's recommended that you go to school and go for a good profession and strive hard to be a better person in life

Rather than sitting behind your phone and lamenting that you are hungry that they are giving some people big benefits

If you are a useless person to yourself and society and the type that always say "school la scam" you will only be rewarded with crumbs

Humans always at war with each other, I don't know why they need to be spending so much on war equipment.

LagosOrigin:
Keep your OpenAi to your miserable self, we no use.

Speak only for yourself, you don't represent the majority

natedensel:
My mum died not long ago, and my dad has a hand in her demise because her marriage was a turbulent one and she died of HBP, now shortly after she died, my dad came along with one woman who is very bold and shameless, first off she already has children from another fling not marriage, and now she comes and sleeps over, infact she's not discreet about it she's bold, brazen and doesn't feel ashamed of what she's doing.

Recently she has gotten more relaxed , she used to mind her business, she comes and do her thing and leaves, now she overstays, and she's now meddling in our family affairs, trying to mom me and my siblings now, then turning our dad away from us, now my dad sponsors her and her child from another relationship but neglects us like he did our mom.

I could easily make life miserable for her but I am not interested because I'm moving out as soon as possible, but what about my siblings, she has taken over everything and now she's my father's voice.

Your dad is a finished man

Tie na water for his own house

At that young age, they will say government have failed him

bestman09:
Korope buses!
Crumbs from our stolen wealth. Like husband like wife like children! Insatiable lots

Your stolen wealth,


How much have you contributed in taxes to the government?

breadtoaster:
Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?

I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.

My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.

So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.

Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.

Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics?
How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?

Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.

For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.

We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.

He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.

At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.

After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.

I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.

It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.

He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.

I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.

I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.

I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.

Sorry. You only just need to get laid, i can see that you are being sexually starved by him, enough strokes from him to you, you will feel alive in your marriage again

Nothing like diminished, he is still their originator and we can conclude that he was the aura behind those governors defecting to APC and he will always remain a big player to Tinubu government.

Well. Deborah understood how she has been spending her life so seeing the letter really made her remorseful

In the group, someone would post customs news in hausa language and we all thought that only hausas dominated the Nigeria customs service and no one complained, we were only asking for interpretation

Sorry bro, the market will recover

AI are meant to improve your productivity and not to make you sound dumb.


So Stop misusing AI

KnowledgePower7:
it is too deep and controversial. Not something I can post on public forum

From our conversation

1. Yahweh is a lower entity who thinks he is the only one supreme God.
2. The real story of garden if Eden, is totally different from what we have been told for years
3. Yahweh was the one that tempted Jesus in the wilderness.

Everything provided with proof and receipts

I understand why such material shouldn't be made public.

Just know you are worshipping in church is not God. It is a lower entity called Yahweh

So all those people who said the saw God in old testament only saw lower entity and thought that was God.


If I go on and on many Christian will go mad

Lol, chstgpt can only feed you the kind of prompt you inputted to him and based on what you are saying right now, it means that you are getting the free version of chstgpt which it's result can be inaccurate most times.


All the results you get from your prompt are subjected from datas used in training the AI, so people like you are the one training and feeding AI with datas and they are also subjected to errors too


So stop using AI to make decisions delicate to your life

Ibo women are fund of torturing any child that is not theirs

Mental illness

Ibo branch of the obidients movement in Lagos state

Understandable

Brendaniel:
Like the one Tinubu and his cohorts were doing to Jonathan and got away with it?

You can see that if Peter Obi you have bet your life with becomes the president, screenshot of him criticizing insecurity will be flying around,

Why can't he post the friend's picture instead?

Picture or we don't believe it and we can't pity you

Nobody will beg them later to start hastening the installation of iyaloja in their states

Iyalaya won.


We are waiting to see their worst

If i start number from number 1, i always skip the rest of the numbers to the final number not included

dailyflavour:
Yes, I'm a chef. And I didn't attend any catering school, I started as a Cummis chef in one of the 5 start hotel in Lagos about 6 years ago

No wonder , those food are hotel standards food