TheBillyonaire:


Does it occur to you that your present mindset as indicated in your post is the default programming of the mind of all masculine males by default?

Males are wired to mate and see mating as supremely ultimate and the funny thing is that we are ready to mate with every beautiful female whether married or unmarried, whether virgins or someone's girlfriend, whether someone's sister or auntie.

We are the reason that we accuse women of infidelity, because we are the ones fuccking them, so while you are gallivanting outwardly to fucck people's virgins, sisters, aunties, wives and daughters, etc; do not refuse to forget that other masculine males are also gallivanting inwardly to fuccks yours truly.

It is fair in war and in peace. I think the best thing to do is rise above the organic instinct of the programmers and focus on just two women. A wife and a side chic. And I do not think AY did anything wrong, I think he is a product of his God as that God wanted him to be. And I see no reason why he should cry. Now he can live the bachelor life and sow his wild oats as long as his waist can handle the wiggle.

Lol 😂
My oga, I don’t nak married women oo, and I avoid people’s gf. I don’t want to get shot.
But many girls are single out there and looking for guys doing well and looking good. They may even know you are married or have a gf yet won’t mind. They are enough to go round and enjoy the moment.

chachanga:


Do you know how many of our women have destroyed their "kind and good" hardworking long-term partners for smooth-talking 6-pack 9-incher American Niggas they met at the gym, at the office etc and destroyed our brothers to do so?

Don't be so naive.

Hahah.
Especially half caste niggers. One has to be careful of girls that watch too much Korean movies or love movies sef

TheBillyonaire:
@ labake1

Ignore those who are insulting you for wonderful opinion. They are infantile. But there are a few facts to know about the nature of masculine human beings, since your post is about men and not Ayo AY alone.

What we call the XY chromosomes dominant in the male genetics and the Adrenaline components as well as other masculine hormones generates sensations and thrusts that is totally absent and unknown of, in the female biologics.

There is also something we as humans have missed. The XX and XY chromosomes are not actually letters, these are sequenced chemicals are shaped like X and Y based on specific frequencies of consciously programmed sounds with specific instructions sent to the senses both the 5 basic senses and the extra-sensories. And by sense, we actually mean sensors. So assumption is that there is are creators that programmed the human hormone systems and the specific instruction in masculines was mostly 'reproduce' in men and all masuline animals, that is why goats, cats, sheep and all other animals can Bleep their sisters, mothers, and any female at sight. As human males, we are trying very well to control this urge and it is very serious. I am serious.

The instruction code, from my research is totally serious and it takes mentally strong personae to resist the instruct set that alerts men to mate at the sight of a mature female. And it has been programmed so dangerously precise that if you resist the instruction to mate for decades, then men develop a form of cancer in their sex organs which is a direct consequence of not ejaculating the sperm when the instruction packet was sent.

What I am stating in essence, from my findings, is that the designers of humans, actually programmed men to mate or die. This is not about morality, so I can not question the designers of humans, but I can only tell them that this is a great curse to men cos sex is getting expensive and too regulated.

My assumption is that a man needs 4 wives or a wife and 3 concubines to really thrive but it is too tough on us men. I personally do not have the desire for such things, but I know these are facts. Sometimes women think sex is fun, hell no, most times we are fulfilling pressure instructions to mate.

My guy, you said it all

I have concluded that I’d do only traditional wedding for now, the African way. And I’d have children and raise a family with the woman. But this kpkekus, I must devour as many as I can till I leave this planet. I plan to even travel to different countries to be harvesting as many as I can.
I will take care of my family and wife, and will always use protection so I don’t catch infections or get other kids outside my family, but this kpekus, I must conquer!

labake1:
In as much as I tried not to concerned myself on this matter. I made a post about Hakim's, Banky W and Davido cheating saga and I was trolled by NL redpillers and NL small boys. I can't help but to say my mind because I will always stand against men that cheat on their wife.

So, what do men want?

If men cheats, they will always blamed the wife.
If there are cases of domestic violence, they will blamed the wife.
If she did not get pregnant on time, they will blamed his wife.
If her child possesses bad attitude, they will blamed the wife.
If after marriage things fell apart, they will blamed the wife.
If she becomes more successful than her husband after marriage, they will always blamed the wife.

After going through his ex-wife page and reading the comments, I can only deduce that the African society doesn't respect women enough. So my fellow gender, never accepts less. If it won't work, walk away. Your man can't be fooling himself around and you will be at home taking the blames. Please, your mental health is important. Mind you, I don't support divorce but if it doesn't worth it, walka


Looking at these women, I don't see a flaw abi na beauty or good physique they no get.

Men, what do you want?
What can a wife do to stop her husband from cheating?

Interesting thing is that most women that leave their husband for cheating end up becoming someone’s husband side chick. Who are we deceiving?

labake1:
In as much as I tried not to concerned myself on this matter. I made a post about Hakim's, Banky W and Davido cheating saga and I was trolled by NL redpillers and NL small boys. I can't help but to say my mind because I will always stand against men that cheat on their wife.

So, what do men want?

If men cheats, they will always blamed the wife.
If there are cases of domestic violence, they will blamed the wife.
If she did not get pregnant on time, they will blamed his wife.
If her child possesses bad attitude, they will blamed the wife.
If after marriage things fell apart, they will blamed the wife.
If she becomes more successful than her husband after marriage, they will always blamed the wife.

After going through his ex-wife page and reading the comments, I can only deduce that the African society doesn't respect women enough. So my fellow gender, never accepts less. If it won't work, walk away. Your man can't be fooling himself around and you will be at home taking the blames. Please, your mental health is important. Mind you, I don't support divorce but if it doesn't worth it, walka


Looking at these women, I don't see a flaw abi na beauty or good physique they no get.

Men, what do you want?
What can a wife do to stop her husband from cheating?

I blame western influence.
If not woman will open mouth and say man dey cheat.
When man dey hustle, build his world, where were the girls, you will never see a girl go for a guy that’s unachieved or has achievements below them. They will always date higher.
The man will foot the bills, build his life and empire, then marry woman.
When the man now play one away match, you go talk say he dey cheat. Cheating only applies to women. Men don’t cheat, they catch fun!
I don’t blame you, I blame the men behaving like idiots that will kneel down to propose and be promising a woman the world.
Why don’t you go and tell Ronaldo that’s he’s cheating, or tell Ned Nwoko that he is cheating

Don’t promise any woman “The world” rather promised her “A world” and you can have many worlds

nifemi01:
@op and Mod that moved this to frontpage, do you both understand the meaning of the words 'Dept held'?
English is disturbing op, everyone one the coutry listed own the purported amount listed as US treasury bond so he/she assumes they owe US money.
Those are country US is indebted to and not the other way round.

The thing shock me

1Sharon:



As a poster here has already said, I'm starting to think the guy in your story is actually you.

You go explain tire.

The profile of the person I described is in their 50s, I’m barely clocking 30 ma 😂

orohbiro:
If you are to choose with the option of whom to smash who are u taking

There’s no way I’m choosing the older woman, even though they are both old, I’d choose the younger woman, the white one!

1Sharon:


Yeyn yen yen..

Fortunately, nothing fails like curses.

Lol, now it sounds like a curse. I thought the guys deserved what they got, all I said it’s karma if you think good men deserve to be treated with cruelty

Good looking man

Minsk24:
The conspiracies regarding this solar eclipse is just so disgusting and shows how brainless lots of people are ...the eclipse will come and go, life will continue as normal, the foolish ones will find a flimsy reason to justify their foolishness and the perpetrators of these theories will wait for another event to brainwash the foolish ones ..
A person with brain is believing that cern, will open doorway to other dimension and let entities into the earth,
People believe the world will come to an end today
People believe so many stupid things ..
People with no working brain, no knowledge of what cern is all about..yet they are quick to consume nonsense and believe it ..
I weep for some humans. ..

Ecplise is still on going oo, maybe it will still come to pass 😂

1Sharon:



you cannot hold someone against their will like they're a child !

You guys only remember africaness when it suits you, it's not african to take up your husbands surname after, but I don't see you guys complaining. Abeg.

This is a case of a woman who was raised and sponsored abroad by her husband, paid everything and taking care of her. He didn’t hit her, he was provoked to act…. Most times it’s even the men that suffer the emotional abuse until a man begin to go crazy….
She knows she did the guy dirty, because I know she doesn’t sleep well at night without being tortured by guilt. Well she was pushed by her useless friends and now she’s all to herself suffering depression quietly.

Lol, you know until this happens to someone very close to you, maybe your loving dear brother… that’s when you will feel the pain.
I know no amount of argument can convince you otherwise. Experience they say is the best teacher. You may still have sons as children someday. You will learn. Mark this down.

Macdeey:

One of the practice that is making the Banks Hoard dollers .
Thus Dollar availability becomes impossible 😞😞😞

A whole lot of people do this.
Ending this will shatter a lot of people hoarding naira

DenreleDave:
when details follow, i will understand

But as for now, i dont understand

People use dollars as collaterals to borrow money in bank.
For instance, someone wants to borrow 50 million naira, then the person will keep the equivalent maybe 40k dollars.
The 40k dollars will be kept in a restricted account, and the person will be offered the 50 million naira loan.
Na one way some people use to benefit over exchange rate be that.
It’s a great move to stop it and stop the further weakening of our dear Naira

All animals are equal but some animals are more equal than the others.

I won’t be surprised if this guy end up becoming a senator

Gen Z don enter army

Proserpina:
The only part of your post that makes sense and I agree with. If you can't deal please let her go. Nobody should be subjected to any form of abuse physical or verbal.

And that is why they continue to be with you and do not blink to throw you out of your homes when they get the chance to.

Women aren't the ones crying all over the internet don't you think they got that sorted out long ago? Lol

And what makes you think I'm a guy?

Let me use my uncles case as an example.
This is a man that we know him as mister Gentle. The call him fridge. You know why, because if you put water in his mouth, you go meet am there. He’s that calm.
Do you think we are referring to Lagos agberos and street yahoo boys. These men that suffer this fate are mostly the calm ones, the ones who want to build and raise a good family.
In Nigeria, his newly married wife was the “our wife” type. She does the cooking, homely, respectful and all. Now when baba moved to US, he arranged for her to come. The first few months was okay, and gradually she began to derail. That’s why I said you only see imported Nigerian girls doing that, they get intoxicated by the system. We are not whites, we are Africans and it’s African for a woman to do cooking, kitchen stuffs, be submissive and everyone is fine. The Asians are even more controlling and when their wives arrive, they continue.
But the Nigerian babe began to form, no please go and do your cooking, no body is tied to the kitchen. From small small nagging to little quarrels. Then later she began to dress American standard wearing revealing clothes. Uncle go dey tell am, you can’t wear that outside, she will say, this is America, you think you are in Nigeria? I have my rights and can wear anything I want.
Babe stopped doing kitchen stuffs, she will tell the husband to go cook if he’s hungry, and any small thing. Next na this is America, you think you are in Nigeria?
The day the problem started, she dressed up the American way as usual and was going out, no food to eat at home. Uncle could not take it and locked the door and said she’s not going anywhere, she started raising alarm, she dialed 911 and told them that her husband has imprisoned her at home and she’s suffering emotional and psychological trauma. Well the evidence was there, she was locked in, they saw the way the man was so angry and shouting at her.
That was the beginning of his downfall.
And other similar stuffs happened after that again and before you know it, he was sent homeless and began to live in one room in a cheap area.
Hope you get it, there are no 100% good men, we agree and at the same time, there are no 100% good women. And your gender from Nigeria are notorious for doing this. The worse thing is that he lost his job because of the whole issue.


But karma is a bitch, the lady is still in the US and she’s afraid of returning to Nigeria because people are waiting for her. She lost someone close to her some months ago, she did not still show up.
She knows what’s coming for her if she enters Naija, she is practically imprisoned in her own world

1Sharon:
Why are they called victims for seeking revenge? Do you say the same thing to men that were victims of paternity fraud?

Most Nigerians believe in violence to solve problems. I think it's hypocrital for these women to complain about being beaten by their husbands when they do the same thing to their kids or house girls.

Infact..make everybody just gerrout

No responsible man will beat a woman not to talk of in western countries. You think we are referring to Lagos agberos ? These are young and middle age men that have built careers over the years and never ever been fingerprinted even for driving under influence. And you believe they will just suddenly turn to panel beaters? I’m not saying there are no crazy guys out there, but you can’t say that all the cases of reported abuse are true. Many of them are extremely exaggerated, simple normal husband and wife quarrel for house, she don call police and begin dey cry say he’s abusing her. That’s how it starts

Truths9ja:
Tantalizers, Chicken Republic, Mega chicken , Yakoyo, Bukateria, Sweet Sensation, Tastee Fried Chicken, Mr Biggs, Chicken Republic etcetera are all founded and own by Yorubas.
The food chain in Nigeria is actually controlled by the Yorubas.

Yorubas the silent business machines

Bolaji38:


I swear, those ones go Rob you.

If na only rob, that one no better ni?
These ones go drug am, give am std and strangle am then shoot am

Badmashiii:


Exactly. No threat of losing your home or anything.

My guy travel to Nigeria in December. He went to meet one lady his people are working for him. This is a young guy doing very well in the US. When he got home, he saw some signs that made him notice that the babe na gold digger and just looking for opportunity to japa. Na so he do reverse and refused to continue with the traditional wedding. He has concluded to go with the option of marrying but not making it official. Cohabit and raise children but never making it official

Proserpina:
Cheers to that. 🍻

The question is why does it happen mostly to black ladies especially the ones from Nigeria.
You won’t see Asian girls including Indians do this, they stick together and keep their values.
Even the whites are not this barbaric.
But you see Naija girls, maybe because of the harsh situations they have face in Nigeria has made them so callous.

Proserpina:
Dude are you sure this happened to your uncle and not you? You are so damn emotional about this! Lol.
If your uncle is a kind and good man, so sorry about what he went through. If not I hope he does better.

I believe the new deal here on Nl is you guys expecting women/ladies here to have the same opinion with you because I don't understand why this accusations of Nl female monikers supporting evil is everywhere. I mean I see this "you are supporting evil because she's a lady" everywhere. You guys practically defend the indefensible and comment same pattern but when women do it, you get uncomfortable? Lol

I'm not even supporting anyone or anything here. All I know is if you are a good and kind husband, your wife will not throw you out it's very simple.

Im still single, never been married and I go shine my eyes wella.
No woman will come and scatter all my efforts over the years.

Proserpina:
All the males in my family are kind good and cultured can that be said for the males in your family? Although I really doubt that judging by how quick you are to reference my family in a completely unrelated discuss. Yours border on uncultured,rude and mannerless which is not surprising based on how you have been hyperventilating on this thread. Yes... You have every right to be anxious, even the women based at home will kick you out

The whole excess of marriage is on kindness and goodness so why not?

And you think all the men that suffered this ill fate were all bad?
I can say of my uncle, a kind easy going man, and the woman he married was a beast. He married a beautiful lady and was deceived by her innocent face…. Before you support evil because you are a lady, I just want you to remember that karma is a bitch, it will knock you when you least expect, you will feel same pain when you see your brothers or sons fall victim

Let us know when they divorce

Proserpina:
If you are kind and good nobody will kick you out of your home.

Be a kind person, it's very simple.

Hope you tell this to all the males in your family

And hope you lecture your unborn sons about being kind to women so they don’t lose their homes

jaszplus12:
I just think the joke is on the women. You take her abroad, she begins to give you attitude, you charge up and prep for the showdown knowing full well she's going to throw you out.
You lose kids and fortune, but not your spirit, pick up the pieces and move on....
Guess what? Now she's in money! She has your kids, plus child support! BUT, ONE THING! She loses dignity and now men will only use her to pass time, she's definitely going to seek gratification that's where her mental torture will start...she becomes a field mattress, no permanent boyfriend, her children see her being used and dumped, she can only try to explain but not for all time, chores will double, she's alone caring for the children, school runs, emotional support, work, and all...
Her friends and advisers no longer have the solution to her crisis!
The children will surely want their dad someday, no matter how long it takes and how much poison she's injected into their minds!

Poor rejected man will start afresh, seeking gratification isn't going to be a big deal, less physical trauma of house chores, nagging and children issues to deal with, just get another job and run yourself a little, few years hence results will begin to manifest....
Unless you bury yourself in self pity and unnecessary depression....or...

Unless you were deliberately wicked to her then karma will visit you...

My humble opinion...
Let the women continue..
.

That’s when the man is still young and energetic. Sometimes this women wait till the man reach like 50 or 60plus before striking their deadly venom

helinues:
Na irresponsible man dey live for a lady/woman's house without having his own private room

These are men who owned their own houses, had a good life until they decided to import their Nigerian wives into their lives and ended up losing almost everything they have worked for

CountinBlessins:
We really need to learn to be patriotic and favour our Nigerian companies and goods . If you like patronize these foreign companies for over 20.yeaes they don't respect you or see you more than just a Nigerian. They will favour and respect their own citizens more than you.

Learn to patronize and support Nigerian companies

I agree with you. But safety first… I don’t know why I still fear airlines managed by Nigerians

When others write your history for you, they will make you look like demons and make themselves heroes.
Na dem tak say mungo park discover river whey our ancestors don dey use since beginning of time.

Bolaji38:
The type of prostitution that goes on in this street even in the early morning will burst your brain. Nigerian girls Dey learn work where Arizona Dey.
Watch and see for yourself and drop comments below.

https://youtube.com/shorts/UL-XwuXJttE?si=zQnEv86iDIBF15Yv

You go carry homeless junkies thinking na olosho you dey carry. I pity you

Sanwo olu needs to do dna test for this girl. Who she resemble gan gan