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By all means marry. If you succeed, you will be happy but if you fail, you will become a philosopher.

It may be fungal infection. I once suffered from a similar thing in 2016 in Aba during my NYSC. I had to return back to my home state after all hospital medications couldn't solve the problem. My uncle recommended a leaf called African Peach also known as Nauclea latifolia 💚💚 🌱 It is called Egbo egbesi in Yoruba, Ubulu inu in Ibo and Tabasiya in Hausa. 🎋 Other names: Pin cushion tree. Pluck the leaves, soak them in water after washing and squeezing. Leave it for like 45 minutes to one hour. You can now start drinking it. One glass 3 times daily. You can equally bath with it morning and evening. It was very effective in my case. You may want to give it a try too. May the good Lord heal you IJN.

Don't you believe in miracles? All things are possible to him that believeth. This is the time to stand by your wife in faith & claim God's promises. Couples with worse cases have testified of how they came out of it triumphantly. You can also do the same. May the Almighty God strengthen you bro.

You are doing a great job with the education of your cousin's daughter. Meanwhile, don't allow your wife to truncate the poor girl's education. Also, don't allow the girl's involvement with the domestic chores at home spoil your boy. It should always be shared among them otherwise, your son may become a liability. It may not be easy, try to convince your wife to leave the girl in the current current; but if you can't achieve this, it's better to take her to a government school than to send her back to the village.
Life is very funny a times, the poor girl you are seeing today may be the savior of your wife or even the entire family tomorrow. You are doing a great job. It's not easy at all. More grace my brother.

This is a great piece. We all know what to do in order to change levels but are most times scared of the unknown. We therefore stay in our comfort zone. Thank you for this, it's indeed, inspiring.

I think you should have attempted to go through her phone in case of suspicious chats with the so called clothes seller. Secondly, be deliberate about monitoring her so as to know if she does visit the guy. Meanwhile, now that it's obvious she's lying, then her hands are not entirely clean regarding the issue at hand. Involve her family members (especially her parents if they are alive and or her mature siblings) as soon as you can. They are not 3rd party.