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TonyeBarcanista:

I never condemned the baby mama but my point is that the Doc is better than the Baby mama all things being equal EXCEPT if she is ugly, has promiscuous past or she has bad conduct.

Bros, fasting and praying, going to mountains for your sake better pass make person dash you money.

The Bible says, "We wrestle against principalities and powers" not flesh and blood.

One reason I don't joke with my mom (and dad) is that they don't cease to pray and fast for my sake. See you won't know the effect of the spiritual warfare until they stop.

The op should listen to his parents

Nawa ooo. I can't marry a woman solely bcus man parents want me to

TonyeBarcanista:
You have a Medical Doctor Bae that is praying and fasting for the betterment of your life yet you want to end up with a single mother? You think someone is a baby mama for no just cause?

My brother, you better listen to your parents else you may end up biting your fingers...

I believe they are right on this one...

Are u suggesting that I should marry her because of her career not minding if I really love her?

Ifakiland:
You're 36 and u can't make your own life partner decisions?? I think I pity ur future wife at this point...dat girl Wuld suffer...cos she will always wait for validation from ur parents before she forks you.
U think liyke a teenager by the way.

Your assumption is wrong bro. I o Lt need there blessing on my marriage. Have be told them on a number of occasions s that they can't find me a wife. They are not ready to be a part of the process of getting me married with the one I love

Lonestar124:
What an elder saw sitting down a child on top mountain can't see....Dear I will advice you to accept your parent presentation. Even our saviour Jesus Christ in the temple doing his father's work was subjective to honour his parent words.

Obey your parent so you will live long.........I won't assumptively write on the erotic relationship between pastor son and a single mother member.

You mean, I should accept my parents presentation at the detriment of my happiness?

yanabasee:



You have to sit them down...and draw the curtains to what you want and let them know that your decisions speaks final...with no insults....


If they refused to buy your decisions.... don't chicken out...just impregnate your girl.... You can always opt for "marriage blessings"

Have done alot of talking. They are bent on me leaving the one I truly love. They are liking me to Samson. Z
My babe don't want to have a child with me out of wedlock. She had a terrible experience in the past that led to her been a single mother. So I understand her perfectly

yanabasee:



You have to sit them down...and draw the curtains to what you want and let them know that your decisions speaks final...with no insults....


If they refused to buy your decisions.... don't chicken out...just impregnate your girl.... You can always opt for "marriage blessings"

Have done alot of talking. They are bent on me leaving the one I truly love. They are liking me to Samson. Z
My babe don't want to have a child with me out of wedlock. She had a terrible experience in the past that led to her been a single mother. So I u destand her perfectly

Amirullaha:

What of the lady in question? What is she saying about it

She wants me and going on several fasting and prayers just for me to have a change of heart.

blackpanthar:
Your PARENTS want what is best for you... they probably see what you do not see... anyway... the ROOT of your problem is basic but deep.

MOST PASTOR'S kids are really not spiritually inclined and from your post it is clear you are not a SPIRI-KOKO
but wait o.... DO YOU PRAY AT ALL AND GET REAL ANSWERS FROM YOUR GOD?

DO you have a working relationship with God or na ANYWHERE BELLE FACE you dey do?

Because you can pray and their hearts can change... and if you claim you have been praying and nothing is changing then it means you actually were not serious before you started dating.... at 36- you are not LATE... its a LADY at 36 that can be late but NOT guys.

anyway... You should go to the G.O or elders in the HEADQUATER church of your church and confide in one of them as a PAL... and they will see to it that you are not cursed.

NOW BACK TO REALITY.... the doctrines of your church must be faulty for you to be threatened like this... and you should have PLANNED YOUR ESCAPE LONG AGO.... LEAVE THE CHURCH... OR RELOCATE TO ANOTHER STATE... or COUNTRY.

You can not be 36 and still be controlled by parents.... it is just not right. Because if you marry their choice and she begins to misbehave... THEY WILL QUOTE SCRIPTURES TO HELP YOU MANAGE HER.... and you are left with the stigma for life..... if you want to divorce they will curse u without warning for wanting to DENT the fAMILY name.... then you will regret not choosing from your heart.

Get your Spiritual Life together, Be able to defend WHY their choice for u is not the kind of LADY you want... PLAN your exit sharply from the church and LEAVE the city or country... then MARRY YOUR TRUE LOVE.

I know these choices are not easy but guess what..... if you OBEY them just to please them... then they will push u to get her pregnant and determine the amount of kids you should have.

be wise o

Other senior pastors are seeing me as a prodigal son.

yanabasee:
You're lucky they didn't tell you that God spoke to them about it.....


But come to think of it..... Why would a 36yr old dude be giving his parents the opportunity to decide his future for him??

What sort of nonsense is this??

They are saying God told them already. They are not ready to be involved in any marriage ceremony if it is not there church and " God ordained" lady. I wish to pay my wife's dowry and marry her properly.

Amirullaha:
Hmmm...

Tho I'm not a christian; I'll advice you to talk to some elders in the church(that your parents respect alot) about the whole issue maybe they could talk them to see from your point of view...
You can alternatively talk to the other lady maybe if she could help you out by tell them she's not interested in marrying you...
Be prayerful and don't run away; You are 36!!!

Non of the elders are seeing from my point of view. All they saying is that I should submit to the will of God in time.

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