we love each other but she says she doesn't really enjoy the sex cause am huge. she'd rather give me head till i cum in her mouth. how can i deal with this please? she is outspoken and happy about that because she told me point black that she does not enjoy it due to my joystick being too huge. i love this girl but this issue is gradually killing "us". sometimes she sheds tears

Jennydoris:





One must not be married to learn what it takes to be a good wife or husband. Well I have attended many singles and married forum. I have come to learn so many things about been single and what it means to be married. And am enjoying every part of. I mustn't get there before I start learning rather I have to get prepared before that time comes. If you're in Lagos precisely in Festac I will like you to attend our singles and married forum @Holy Family Catholic Church 22 Road, Every Monday By 7pm. I believe just one or two attendance will change some of your perspectives to singles and married life. Thanks anyway as I believe I have answered your question.

thanks MISS

flow folks

omomehn!
We can be smart and funny and super cool around
people who don't matter to us, but when someone
who makes our heart beat faster comes within a
one mile radius of us, most of us feel anything but
cool…. Our face turn red, our words don't come
out at all as we intend, and our typically bubbly
personality turns into a dull fizz.
So what do you do? How do you control what you
feel you have no control over? Well, the answer's
not to put an extra coat of deodorant on (though
that couldn't hurt matters). Instead, investigate
ways to let your mind take over when your body is
failing you.
Here’s the scenario:
You see someone across the room and you know
instantly - she's the hottest person your eyes have
ever come across, and you must meet her. So you
gather your courage, casually walk on over,
and...s-s-s-st-st-a-m-m-e-r. Your face flushes,
your pulse quickens and the thought of actually
getting a single word out seems totally impossible.
You, my friend, are shy - and you’re not alone.
No matter how smart or sexy or confident we are,
it’s likely that we’ve all experienced shyness at
some point in our lives. The real problem arises
when our shyness is so debilitating that we can’t
overcome it and it actually stops us from moving
forward. If that’s you - I’ve got two words for you:
”fake it!” (That, and pick up my book Date Out Of
Your League for advice and tips on how to acquire
confidence.)
That’s right, I want you to fake it until you make it.
How? By having pre-established ideas for how to
approach that girl of your dreams. No spontaneity
required, but they’ll never know (because you’ll
have practiced and practiced until you have it down
pat).
The longstanding saying is true: cheaters never
win. But believe me, fakers can succeed! To
overcome shyness, sometimes you have to fake it
until you make it. What do I mean by that? Come
up with an image of the coolest, sexiest person in
your mind, and ask yourself: How would they
approach the object of your affection? What would
they say? How would they act? Now follow suit and
go through the motion.
What? Do you think movie stars are naturally so
mesmerizingly sexy and sauve since the minute
they came out of the womb? No! It’s all an act—a
very expensive act at that. Hollywood pays big
bucks to make these onscreen hunks the object of
women’s desires. It requires thousands of dollars
of scripting, hair and make-up, designer clothes
and publicists. It can costs Tinsel town millions of
dollars to make someone “sexy”—but you don’t
need millions of dollars. You simply need to role-
play.
In other words, you know you're funny and smart
and charming, but until you can actually be that
person in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend-to-be
(hey, I'm being optimistic), put on an act. Just
think of it as a temporary tool to help you get your
foot in the door.
Want specifics?
My A number 1 tip for overcoming shyness and
striking up a conversation with a woman: ask her
opinion. That’s right – become an advice seeker.
Women love it when you're interested in her – and
specifically, in what she thinks. To do this well it
pays to stay up to date on the news -- and even
the tabloid gossip. Most women love gossip, and if
you know a little -- but not too much to be
suspiciously soap-opera audience material --
she'll love talking to you. The key is to decide
what kind of image you want to project, then study
up on the topics that support that image. In fact, if
you really want to play it safe -- carry a “prop”,
and keep in mind:
-- Time Magazine projects a different image than
someone reading Details or Esquire magazine.
-- Wall Street Journal says you’re a guy on his
way up the ladder – and The Robb Report , way up
the ladder.
-- People magazine or a tabloid will invite talk
about gossip and celebrities, like, should Britney
lose her kids?
-- Ayn Rand is going to attract the poet,
philosopher type of woman.
-- A political autobiography will say you’re
worldly, smart and current.
Better yet, carry two entirely different types of
magazines or books and ask her, “I'm torn --
which do you think I should start reading? This
one or this one?”
Here’s another scenario, using the same advice
seeking technique…. Let’s pretend you’re in a
clothing store and you see the cutest sales clerk.
Here’s the perfect opportunity to use this
technique. Ask her opinion on what you should get
your mother or sister for their birthday. This
allows you to strike up a conversation without
obviously hitting on her, while simultaneously,
indirectly, complimenting her… by letting it be
known that you think she has good taste and you
trust her opinion!
Remember, within the dynamics of dating, you are
the salesman and women are your customers. It is
up to you to sell the product with such confidence
that there's no way they wouldn't buy it

as for those advising us, are u married yet? then why are u spewing trash?

mimiejacobz: I tink romance section shld b the joke section cos its more fun hia,so op ur judgements r wrng or mayb dts ur own reason for coming hia

wrong

mako007: abi? btwn u fine o, jst viewed ur pics on my pc

busted! u are a flirt brah

LogoDWhiz: Have u eaten?

lmao

rozzay: Wat is wrong in been a flirt. Abeg open anoda thread niccur

aiit bish

kika23:
I am

say that again and risk being banned. u are a flirt!

dagentility: Op ur assumption is on what bases.

hian! y'all should quit questioning me already. y'all got me feeling like i'm defending a thesis. back to ur question ma'am, there is no assumption here. this is reality!!!

MrCork:
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. . Brother. .. Serrriously.... but don't they hav sweet English names like lucky,Wendy,billy, bingo or franco in that nigeria place?....what kinda name is omegamegaju?...r u a mechanic? .... U people mennnn!!

of course we have nice names and omomehn is the nicest to me. bingo sounds nice, adding it to ur names wont be a bad idea u know. do this for me bro

chidekings:

ok bro,u dont lie,Are u God the second

nah, buh am His son and as such...lemme pause here before i'd say something i'd regret

MizMyColi: In this case, silence is golden.

golden ko silveren ni. infact the official soundtrack of this section should be i'm a flirt by R.KELLY.

chidekings: op ur clearly lying,most people frequenting romance section are either among the following:
Lonely
Shy
Boyfrendless or girlfrendless as the case may be
Or people trying to live the life they cant live in real life

you only ended up buttressing my point. these groups of people you mentioned are wanna be flirts. they lack the necessary opportunities niccur. for the record, i don't lie.

kika23:
P!!!!! What are you tryna say?

that u are not an exception

how can i MR BIGGS a girl

KiddaBlingzz: Hehehe

preach on pastor OP

no shit! we are all flirts am just the first to admit it. i know some hypocritical e-gangbangers would come for me soon.

kika23:
Ionno mhen..... I come here because it's a funny section. It doesn't make me a flirt....

if this came from Tallesty i woulda maybe believed it coz he usually sounds religious.

Input:
...or lonely people looking for hookups

guy u be correct guy. born again no dey here.

krall: Gerrout!!!!!

park well

kika23: P how can you say that?

isn't it true?

u think am lying? search your heart! temigracie knows what am talking about

HELP

flying private when u can take a night bus

really?:if he really is, let him give all money he made off the track to charity

dytbabe:

Ode

. dont quote me again please. God bless u