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Thanks, I so much appreciate this advice. It's really soul lifting to hear good advice like yours. Thanks again.

greatnaija01:
I must commend you sir, firstly for your courage and resilience against the challenges of life.

YOU ARE NOT LATE MY BROTHER, PLS NOTE THAT.

Now as regarding your issue... It is simple o.

First get into a REAL RELATIONSHIP (no time for games). The Lady needs to be working class or a thriving business owner who is submissive to you and ready to support you.

Next, understand that the 4.8 you have is PARTLY for BUSINESS and for wedding. so HALF IT. Let 2million be kept for the wedding. Whomever you will marry can add to it. YES.... at that age Ladies are more mature and understand that it is 50/50.

2 million is enough for a good wedding... YOU ARE NOT TRYING TO IMPRESS ANYONE OR CALL IN BLOGGERS AND PAPPARAZZI or feed 5000 like Jesus. See, 2million is even more than enough.

Next... KINDLY consider agricultural businesses and investments.... Also Kindly learn how to import and buy and sell online and offline. 800k is more than enough for BOTH businesses I just mentioned. GOATTI gives 30% every 6months. AGROPARK gives 70-80% on a plot for farming under 10 months. You can move your 4.8 to 6million with these and others based on your research and wise judgement.

Another thing sir is to BUY an ORIGINAL plot of Land from the remaining 2million, which is less than a million. NOT ON THE ISLAND O.
LAND IS ALWAYS AN ASSET and will always increase in its worth.

Uber/Taxify business can also help you sir, you can get a good car for less than 800k and begin doing it and being your own boss. There is no shame in such BUSINESS. This gives you 30K WEEKLY

Keke business is also lucrative, it gives you 25k weekly if you have a driver on higher purchase. A keke is currently 660-720k. TVC is the best brand.

You are a STRONG MAN and I salute you. Kindly NOTE that you have everything it takes for wealth, it is just a matter of time. 34 YEARS is not OLD.... you are still a youth. Kindly follow the little common sense I have shared and be happy the rest of your life.
NEVER WAIT FOR EMPLOYMENT... SELF EMPLOYMENT WITH WISE INVESTMENTS is what thrives these days o.

I wish you all the best.

Nairaland family,

I created this account today so I can say my mind; I need your advice here.

I'm just few months shy of 34 years.

The issue now is that my mum is asking me to get married, (she's about conducting church deliverance service for me even).

Unfortunately, no job yet; I'm only hustling. Doing a few legal businesses to keep me forging ahead.

Now, I only have about 4.8 million naira; NOTHING ELSE!

I raised the money by working my ass off; doing only LEGAL businesses (graphics, web, writing), etc.

Now, the challenge is, business is not consistent because it's 99.9% online based.

But, I also wish to settle down now, in fact, before 35 years (when I was younger, I was hoping I would be married by 29). Alas! Life is not a bed of roses.

Also, I wish to further my education.

So, I need your precious advice:

If you want to advise me as your family member, close to 35 years of age, struggling, no job, but hardworking; do you think I should settle down whilst still looking for greener pastures?

Note: I don't have a fiancee or gf right now.

P. S. If you have any REASONABLE job offer for me, I will gladly take it as I am open for negotiations.

I can do any LEGAL biz or job, locally or internationally; including waiter, morgue attendant, etc, once the pay is 'comparatively' equal to the risk of the job.

Please, save a brother.