₦airaland Forum

Please marry from your tribe. I am saying this based on experience. First of all, you know marriages are done at the woman's place. That is the first challenge, that means you will have to mobilize your family and well wishers attending the marriage to the venue. Think of the transport cost. After this comes the challenge of transport cost to visit and attend any social functions involving your wives family members. Another one is which language is your children going to speak as a local language beside english. remember, your wife will always want your children to speak her own mother tongue, that means your own identity will be lost as a man. Men, always think before you leap into marriage, because your whole life depends on it.