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Love should not be one-sided. Love should be an exchange of loyalty, sincerity and charity. If you seem to be the only one giving these qualities to your relationship, take some time to consider who you are with. Though it can be difficult to see warning signs when you are head of heels in love, the cost of not doing so is devastating.
When you are dating, try to separate your head from your heart. In this ‘honeymoon’ stage of the relationship, we tend to think that everything our love does is exciting and romantic. But this part of the courtship period should be used to analyze similarities and differences between you. Try to see your relationship at face value, without all the romance. Dating needs to be a time to share experiences and maybe get a glimpse at what your future would be like together. If you are paying attention to more than the b*tterflies in your stomach, you might see that you aren’t getting his full attention or devotion. Now is the time to see if this relationship would be worth it or not.
Pay attention and see if you see these five things in your relationship:
1. You don’t share goals
Even though both of you have independent lives and personalities, there should be some goals you share as a couple. If the someone in your life isn’t sharing his achievements, applauding yours, looking to participate in any sort of goal you and him can reach together be warned; he’s not that interested.
2. You are your own support system
If he really loves you, he will be there with you as you make decisions about your future. He should be someone who is your partner through joy and pain, seeking to find ways to help and support you. Love is all about give and take. Be sure that the person you are with is giving, not just taking.
3. Things are too independent
There needs to be a balance in all things, especially in a relationship. While you need to spend time doing your own thing, if your partner is constantly choosing other activities over you, please reconsider. Television, sports, and video games are fine hobbies to have, but they shouldn’t be where he spends all of his time.
4. You both are on different wavelengths
Having your own thoughts and opinions are a part of being your own person, but there should be some shared qualities between you and your partner. If the two of you are pulling in different directions, that will cause conflict and disagreement in your relationship. While some disagreement can be good in a relationship, if he is unwilling to compromise in what he thinks is right, that will spell trouble for later on.
5. There are affection and intimacy issues
Even if your partner is very affectionate, make sure he respects you. If your relationship is purely based on physical attraction, then he’s not really into getting to know you and having a relationship. If there is a lack of respect in your relationship, move on. You deserve someone who respects you and wants you by his side.
Seeing these attitudes in your man should signal you to take a minute to reconsider your relationship. It is not worth fighting for love that isn’t there. One day, he might realize how he feels about you, but he may not. It would be worth it to wait for love that is honest and sincere, instead of trying to be with someone who isn’t into you.

Thousands of women are diagnosed with chest cancer each year. For women, only lung cancer has a higher death rate than chest cancer. While this type of cancer can be deadly, there are warning signs that can help you catch it early.
It isn’t exactly known why chest cancer develops, but there are somefactors that seem to increase your chances of developing chest cancer. Your age (and gender) increase your risk; While men can be diagnosed with chest cancer, it is one hundred times mores common in women. The highest rate of invasive chest cancer are found in women 55 and older.
There also seems to be a higher risk if your close blood relatives had or have chest cancer. Also, the risk of chest cancer increases with higher amounts of alcohol use and obesity after menopause.
Knowing the risks and the symptoms of chest cancer can significantly increase your chances of catching the illness early. Luckily, there are some things you can look for. While finding a lump in your chest is a common symptom, there are others signs to look for.
If you notice any of these symptoms, contact your doctor immediately:
1. chest sizes
If the size of one chest enlarges significantly in a short amount of time, this could be a warning sign of chest cancer. BR*ASTS are normally different sizes, but noticing a drastic increase in size or an abnormal change in shape could be something to be concerned about.
2. Swelling
Even if there is no lump present, swelling on your chest (even in a small area) is not a good sign. Swelling can also accompany fever-like symptoms; if this is the case, your BR*ASTS will feel warm, may become inflamed, become red or purple and will swell. Immediately inform your doctor if you experience these symptoms.
3. Abnormal nipples
Other than chest milk, any other discharge is not normal. Decreased nipple sensitivity is also something to be aware of. Additionally, if your nipple retracts (pulls inward,) or is discolored, be sure to call your doctor.
4. Redness or itchiness
Having a bumpy “orange peel” texture on your chest or nipple area could very well be a symptom of chest cancer. If you experience severe itching on your chest and dermatologist visits (and creams) don’t soothe your symptoms, call your doctor.
5. Noticing a lump
There are benign lumps that form in the chest that may not be cancerous. However, if you notice a ma$$ (that you haven’t noticed before, or that feels harder than the surrounding lumps) schedule a chest examination. Be sure to notice any sort of abnormal ma$$ near your armpit; though it is not in your chest, it could still be chest cancer.
6. chest Pain
This can be caused by a variety of other things that aren’t cancer. Fluctuating hormones, some fertility treatments, stress and wearing a br@ that doesn’t fit right can all cause chest pain. If your pain isn’t caused by this list or accompanies other symptoms, contact your doctor.
Some women feel pain in their back or chest instead of their chest. If this pain does not go away with physical therapy or stretching, inform your doctor.
Not all of these symptoms are symptoms of chest cancer. If you get other treatments (like a cream or antibiotic) for these symptoms, but you do not notice a difference within a few days, be sure to call your doctor and be a$$ertive about tests for chest cancer.
Mammograms have significantly increased the detection rate for chest cancer. Regularly schedule these appointments if you are above the age of 40, or if you have a family history of chest cancer. However, there are things a mammogram cannot detect. Having dense BR*ASTS make cancer harder to detect even with a mammogram and helps the cancer cells spread more rapidly. Talk to your doctor for additional tests if you fit this description.
Be diligent with your own chest examinations and be aware of what chest cancer symptoms look and feel like. If you are at all concerned, make an appointment with your doctor.

Take away the spontaneous $ex that happens once in a while and are mostly far between, women tend to have a lot of pre-$ex rituals they undergo to prime their minds and bodies up for lovemaking. The spontaneity that comes with ripping off her clothes with pa$$ion and zeal is one everyone wants to experience without being bothered about certain things but it doesn’t always happen. Women oftentimes enjoy doing certain things that have become norms before $ex which a lot of them would fail to admit to you.
Dress Up In A $exy Lingerie They Hardly Ever Use
Women tend to have that one $exy lingerie they have hidden in their wardrobes which only comes out for the special $ex occasion. Though it does come with the occasional struggle of the right time to put it on.
Shave Off The Pubic Hair
There’s a chance your woman wants to be well and cleanly shaved both under her armpits and down there. She definitely wants to prepare a smooth ground for you.
Clean And Tidy Up Her Room In A Hurry
Because there’s a little bit of spontaneity in the air, she might be in a hurry to make her room appear clean and tidy. A cursory look at her wardrobe might make you see the mess she quickly cleaned up. And of course, the bed would be left at its best.
Inspect Herself Down There
She surely know that her vulva and clitoris would look the same as it has always been but she still doesn’t want to be caught by surprise since you’d be going down there. She wants to be sure no unpleasant surprises come up.
Getting Her Lower Extremity Smelling Nice And Fresh
When you go down on her, you’d probably love her for smelling all nice and fresh. Thank her for prepping herself up for $ex as she most likely used deodorants, sprays and douches to keep herself clean and fresh. She actually put in a bit of effort despite how sensitive those parts her to make you and of course, herself happy.
Prepare a $ex Playlist
Because a lot of women are romantic and they wouldn’t want their moans and groans to be heard by neighbours, she’d probably prepare a $exual playlist to increase the intensity of your make out.
Talk To Herself In Front Of The Mirror
Whether she’s peeing in the bathroom or brushing her teeth before you come over, she would stare at the mirror to rea$$ure herself she’s doing the right thing.
Empty Her Bladder
She’d definitely want to get all the fluids in her bladder out in order to avoid any accidental squirting.
Check To Ensure Her Pills Are In Place
No matter how meticulous she is, if she’s having unprotected $ex with you, she’d probably make sure that her pills are in place and up to date. Either she does this or she ensures she falls within the right time of her menstrual cycle.

ADVANTAGES OF NOT HAVING A
LOVER:
1. You can sleep well.
2. You can save time and money.
3. No worries about how you look.
4. No miss calls in the midnight.
5. No need to recharge more than twice a day.
6. You can talk to all boys/girls.
7. You can eat well
8. No scoldings from parents/
guardians.
9. Can eat in any restaurant.
10. You can visit any body.
11. can pick any call, any time without being
questioned.
12. Don't worry about missed
calls.
13. You will have 100% rest of
mind.
14. you will live a long life.
NOTE:- LOVE is a beautiful things,
fall in love with one who takes
you as a priority not to one that takes you as an
option.
Any man/ woman that doesn't give you LOVE, CARE
and ATTENTION is not worth to be with.
TRUE or FALSE ??...

I have experienced it before but i choose to walk away. let us hear yours.

1. Lube is your friend.
Lube. For the love of god, don’t be afraid to buy lube. It will make that one position soooooo much better.
2. Always be honest with your intentions before you bang.
Never lie to get $ex. If you want a casual thing, be honest and say so. Maybe they say yes, maybe they say no. Don’t make someone believe or tell them you like them more than you do. It’s just wrong and you will feel like crap too when you break their heart.
3. Sometimes…it won’t be great.
Not everyone you have $ex with will be good at handling your pen*s. Some will scr*pe it with their teeth, chafe it with insanely bad hand jobs, or make it bend at weird angles when you’re doing the deed. Speak up, or you’ll have a sore pen*s.
4. Baby oil does not belong near your genitals.
Never use baby lotion as lube. It will feel good at first but holy moly it will burn after!!!!
5. She should finish first, tbh.
It’s not about you, take care of her first and you’ll get yours…
6. Masturbate all the damn time.
MASTURBATE! As much as humanly possible. Not only do you get to know your body on a whole new level, you may be saving yourself from a one-night stand that you’d regret.
7. $ex doesn’t look or feel like it does on screen, so don’t judge yourself against that standard.
Movie $ex (or p*rn $ex) and real $ex have very little in common. Most of what you see on screen is either not very plausible in real life or not very enjoyable.
8. It’s OK to be into some weird stuff. You do you.
Don’t be ashamed of what turns you on or gets you off and to ask for it. You deserve to enjoy yourself just as much as the other person.
9. Take the time to figure out where everything is.
The vagina hole is lower than you think it is.
10. Queefs, cramps, weird. smells…yeah, it all happens. Go with it.
Don’t get mortified; it’s not worth it. Sometimes embarra$$ing or silly things happen. Enjoy the ridiculousness of it. Usually the other person wants to laugh about it WITH you because they think it’s cute and they like you even more for it.
11. Maybe don’t expect earth-shattering orgasms right out of the gate.
You won’t orgasm your first time… probably not on your second, third, fourth, or fifth either.
12. Your number means nothing.
To not sweat ‘the number.’ I was taught to hold a lot of pride in staying abstinent. The first time I had $ex I was r*ped, and if I continued to put my virginty or the number of guys I’ve slept with on that high of a pedestal getting over being r*ped would be impossible. Be responsible, wear protection, have fun, and above all remember that you are more than who you lost your virg*n*ty to or the number of men you’ve slept with.
13. Peeing after $ex is IMPORTANT for anyone with a vagina.
Always pee after. ALWAYS. UTIs are not fun.
14. So is general down-there cleanliness.
Oh gosh, wash yourself. I could have saved myself from countless UTIs had we washed up before/after down there.
15. Btw, you look F**king hot.
Don’t be so shy or too conscious about your body. You’re beautiful and he is dying to see your nak*d body. Enjoy yourself! He thinks you look hot, that’s why he is there
nak*d with you. OWN IT!!!!
16. Orgasms aren’t the gold standard of satisfaction.
Just because the other person didn’t orgasm, doesn’t mean
they didn’t have fun.
17. Drunk $ex isn’t usually good $ex.
Don’t $ex while under the influence! It’s sloppy and all over the place and in the end isn’t even that much fun if it isn’t with someone you care about.
18. Condoms. ALL OF THE CONDOMS.
Use a condom!! Every time!!!!!!! The ribbed ones are quite nice.
19. Seriously, always have multiple condoms.
Change condoms between anal and vaginal $ex… Don’t use the same one especially when you go back from anal to vaginal $ex.
20. Your body should be treated with respect.
If he doesn’t like/insults your vulva, get out of there.
21. Wish they would move a little to the left? Say that.
It’s OK and it can even be fun and $exy to tell/help someone figure out what your body likes. You can’t just
expect people to be able to know what is an effective way to touch you, because every body is different.
22. Consent is nonnegotiable.
You know all that stuff about consent? Yeah, well, it’s real, not just a funny meme.
23. Don’t want to do something? That’s fine, just say so.
Blow jobs are not mandatory! You are under NO obligation to give them. Be in control of your $exual experience!
24. You might be having $ex with the wrong $ex.
You’re a lesbian. Stop sleeping with guys, it won’t get better.
25. Fake orgasms help no one.
Stop. Faking. Orgasms.
26. Losing your virg*n*ty is not a race.
Don’t be stressed out if you’re ‘older’ and haven’t had $ex yet. Focus on being your best self and you’ll attract the people you really want to be with.

1. Reconnect with a text.
Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder—but other times, it causes that heart to seek out another man. So, don’t call first. “Try sending a sweet text, not one that will make her think you’re looking for a booty call,” says dating expert Julie Spira.
“Think about something that you shared together that might warm her heart.” Example: Was listening to the radio and heard that Coldplay song.
Brought back memories of the concert together. Hope you’re doing great? If she responds, she may be open to rekindling the spark.
2. Take it slow.
You romanced her once already, but that doesn’t mean you get to go
from zero to 60 without even getting behind the wheel. So propose getting together—not moving in together. Says Seattle-resident Adria, who took her ex back after a nasty breakup: “He apologized out of the blue after three months of no contact and was very respectful of me. He wasn’t pushy about getting back together, which would have been a red flag in my eyes.”
3. Call her, maybe. So far, so good? Great.
Suggest a casual date by phone. No texts. No emails. Let her hear your voice and register some sincere effort on your part. “See if she’d like to join you at an art gallery opening, see a movie, or a hike on a sunny day,” says Spira. “It will give you the chance to get together in a relaxed environment, without too much pressure.” But remember, accepting your invite is just that—and not a sure sign she wants to get back together. If she turns you down, give her space. “Don’t beg, cry, or stalk her,” Spira says. “If it’s meant to be, she’ll come around on her own time-table.”

4. Tell her you miss her.
If she accepts your date invite, ease in. Ask what she’s been up to, how work is going, if her dog is still peeing on the couch—whatever. Then, say you want her back. Vulnerability will up your odds of a second chance; just don’t rip the Band-Aids off every old wound. “Open your heart and see how she reacts,” Spira says. “You don’t need to talk about everything that went wrong in the relationship. She knows, you know—keep the conversation light.”
5. Own up.
If she seems open, and you want to step up for another at-bat, acknowledge your shortcomings. “If you did something hurtful, make a real apology,” Frances says.
“It might be wise to see a therapist to clarify what you did and why, and how best to sort of the problem.” Then, no matter what she did, you need to take responsibility for you—and change. If you weren’t willing to extend an effort to get to know her friends before, tell her you’d be game for drinks as a group. (Yeah, that’s right. Swallow your pride.)
6. Avoid rehashing the past.
After you’ve acknowledged the problem, look ahead.
“Don’t go down memory lane and hash out all the things you thought were wrong with the relationship,” Spira says.
Focus on the positive qualities that brought you together in the first place, like that same crazy sense of humor, or the way your laid-back personality complements her type-A tendencies.
7. Use the friend group.
While you want a new beginning, you should still tap back into those old loving feelings. And an easy way to recreate happy times is to meet up in a safe, familiar environment—like an outing with your mutual friend group. Just make sure you can easily break off from the pack to talk.
Alisha, from San Antonio, TX, had an ex take that approach—and it worked. “We were telling stories, joking and laughing together. It was comfortable, fun. Then my ex pulled me aside and asked me if we could give things another try. We talked a lot about our futures, and I felt things could really work.”

8. Don’t compare notes.
Look, forget that relationship-station hiatus even existed. You both up and went on with your lives while you were apart—but that doesn’t mean you need to talk about what went down.
“She doesn’t need to hear about the bad dates you went on,” says Spira,” or about your conquests either.”
Would you want to hear about the guys who took your place? Didn’t think so.
9. Tap your romantic side.
While chivalrous acts aren’t the most important thing, they are important. Chocolates, cards and flowers (sent to her office so all her co-workers can get green with envy) are time-honored clichés for a reason: they kind of work. But here’s how to make it a legit, not cheesy, gesture.
“Write a love letter,” says Frances. “Tell her why you love her and what it is about her that makes her completely special. It’s OK to rip off lyrics or poetry. Send the letter with flowers. Good, old-fashioned courtship works.”
10. Buy a ring.
Relax. This advice isn’t for everyone, obviously. But if you’re absolutely positive about this girl, the ultimate bold move has had unparalleled success, says Frances.
“Most of the time, the split is about commitment issues, so you’ve got to be coming back with terms she’ll be happy with.” And even if you’re not ready for the ring? You can learn something here: You have got to step it up and have a plan for the relationship. Period. No woman will rekindle a romance that’s not moving her forward…at least a little bit.

#1 Keep in touch. Find time to call or text even just to say “hi,” or thank him for the mind-blowing $ex you had last night. Drop some n*ughty words to $ex it up a little to diffuse the freaky, clingy factor that can instantly turn most guys off.
Asking him about his day lets him know that you thought about him and that you are interested in how he is, even if you’re not together. Just be careful to not be too chummy, especially early in the relationship because the last thing you want is to force it.

#2 Ask for advice. Men have an innate need to rescue the damsel in distress, and asking for help from him from time to time feeds that need. So whether it is as simple as asking him if you should buy new rims for your car or getting his opinion about career decisions, asking him for advice will take your relationship deeper than just the physical.
This shows that what he thinks matters to you and that you respect his opinions. This also hints that he has a place in your life, and not just in your bedroom.
#3 Touch and cuddle. When you are just in the throes of a $exual relationship, you may not touch him or let yourself be touched outside the bedroom. This time, take this physical relationship a tad deeper by touching and cuddling—of course, in a subtle way.
When you see him, make that peck in the cheek last a few seconds longer, hold his arms or squeeze his hand when he cracks a joke, make that embrace linger just a little, and just take every chance to touch him. Make it a point to encourage some cuddling, so that he knows that you’re not just in the bedroom for fun and games.
#4 Ask him about his day. Another subtle sign to let him know you care is by asking him how he is or how his day at the office went. Listen and be genuinely interested. If he’s had a bad day, try to rea$$ure him or cheer him on, if not with some amazing $ex then with tickets to his favorite ball game.
By being supportive, you’re subtly showing him that you are in fact worth keeping. If you can be a friend to him even without the fringe benefits, the transition to being a girlfriend will go more smoothly.
#5 Bring out the fun and the easygoing you. Don’t be afraid to be silly. Better yet, don’t be afraid to be yourself. Make some room for laughter in your rather vague *for now* relationship. Exude confidence, and show that you are comfortable enough to give him insight into who you really are as a person. Besides, every guy loves a girl who makes him laugh and makes him feel special.
Being goofy around each other is a good step towards a more honest and much deeper relationship. Nevertheless, make the effort to look your best and be your best. After all, if you just make him laugh without making him hot for you, you might end up being left in the friend zone.
#6 Mark your territory. Leave some toiletries and other small belongings in his apartment. This is not only convenient for you in the long run, it also gives him a subtle reminder of you around his place. Do the same thing to your own place, where you can leave some space in your closet for his own stuff.
This is a way of showing him that you are part of his life and that he is part of yours too. Little by little, this cements a long-term VIP status by occupying a very important and private space in his life—his place—and later on, his heart.
#7 Get to know his friends. For some men, the best way to their heart is through their friends. Show that you can play it cool and that you can handle hanging out with his crew without losing your feminine side. By spending time with him and his friends, you learn a lot more about your guy while proving to him that you can handle yourself around all that testosterone.
This also communicates to him that you are independent enough to handle yourself around unfamiliar people and make everyone have a great time. Who knows—if you pull this off, his friends may be talking about you for weeks and even root for you.

#8 Play hard to get. Now that you know you want to be serious, make him play the part too. Don’t be available at his convenience, and don’t let him take you for granted. You have to make him work for it and respect you as a woman and as an individual before you decide to turn the relationship into something more.
Let him know that you are interested in more than just a booty call. Prove that putting the two of you together in one room doesn’t necessarily have to end up in $ex *although you absolutely don’t mind a happy ending either*. More importantly, don’t fall into his mind games and put him in his place when he is slipping into his “you’re just a fling” behavior.
#9 Don’t hook up with other guys. If you are seeing other guys and you have decided on that one guy you want to be in a serious relationship with, make a clean break from the rest of the pack by letting them know that you are no longer available.
“I am seeing someone else, and I am serious about this guy,” may be one way of putting it, so you tie all loose ends before even remotely thinking about the possibility of tying the knot with your special someone.
#10 Come on, tell him. If he can’t muster the words, maybe it’s time for you to say them first. Say, “I love you,” and it may just be worth it. Nothing beats the direct, fuss-free approach, and at this point, it may just be the push he needs. Be honest with him, and tell him you want to take your relationship to the next level.
If you’re bold and you don’t want to beat around the bush, you can tell him, “I think we should move on and stop seeing each other. You’re great, but I’m now looking for something more serious.” If he’s not on the same page as you, then you’re clearly not meant to be together. Pushing things further after this will just leave you in a one-sided relationship that does absolutely nothing for both parties.

#1 Not citing that you are in a relationship
If you are indeed in a serious relationship, one “cheat*ng behavior” you may accidentally stumble into is not mentioning that fact, especially to new people. Failing to mention that you are in a serious relationship can be off-putting to your partner, as it causes insecurities to rise, and may lead them to believe that you left out this crucial information on purpose.
#2 Watching p*rn
This spicy subject seems to vary from couple to couple, but the fact is that some do, in fact, view watching p*rn or masturbating to the fantasy of a crush or another person, to fall into the cheat*ng realm.
Part of being exclusive with someone is the mutual understanding that your bodies are each other’s temple. There is something enchanting about knowing that you are the person who can turn your partner on the most and get their motor running. However, this enchantment can shatter somewhat when one of the partners pleasures themselves to another nak*d person, or views some… strange fantasies online.
It may be a little uncomfortable at first, but try and slip p*rn into a conversation somewhere down the line and see where your partner stands on the issue. It may seem like a taboo subject to bring up, so try and be tactful. While you may not want to give up your private screenings, if you love your partner and they consider it cheat*ng, just weigh the options: masturbating in the dark to your computer screen, or having pa$$ionate $ex with a real person.
#3 Flirting
There are probably few people who would view flirting with someone else as a form of cheat*ng, but it’s still good to watch your mouth *literally* with this one. While flirting may be harmless on your end, it may be misleading to the person you’re flirting with, and could cause trouble in the future.
#4 Social media romances
Just because the person you’re talking to is online doesn’t mean that you’re not pursuing a relationship with them. Here are some examples of risky online behavior that may be considered cheat*ng by some: flirty conversations with someone who is not your mate, sharing of nak*d or suggestive photos, carrying on seemingly innocent conversations online and then hiding it from your partner, hiding a social media friendship, Skype $ex, obsessively following someone via social media *always liking their photos and complimenting them, etc.*, and online $ex chats or video chats.
There’s a simple rule for your social media behavior: would you be comfortable if your partner saw what you were doing? Would you be okay with your partner behaving in the same way towards someone else? If the answers to both questions are no, you should probably rethink your actions.
#5 Receiving inappropriate texts from the opposite $ex
Are you getting tit-pics from someone who isn’t your mate? Or adversely, d*ck-pics from someone who isn’t your man? If so, this could be considered cheat*ng by your mate, especially if you don’t correct the situation or inform your partner of the inappropriate text.
#6 Financial cheat*ng
According to a Forbes infographic regarding a Today.com survey, 70% of women and 63% of men agree that financial honesty with your partner is just as important as being honest about shagging someone else. Sound crazy? It might sound ridiculous, but 34% of surveyed participants admitted to keeping financial secrets from their mates; even lying about purchases to avoid getting in “trouble” with their ball and chain.
#7 Hiding texts
Are you sharing some spicy or otherwise scintillating information via text with your opposite $ex friend, and then deleting the messages afterwards? If so, you may be displaying some shady cheat*ng behavior. Maybe not the full Monty, but you’re no angel, either. If you are purposely deleting texts so that your partner doesn’t find them and freak, you may want to take a step back and ask yourself why.
#8 Getting closer to someone than you are to your mate
Have you stopped confiding in your partner? Some spouses may find this to fall under mild “cheat*ng-like” behavior. If you are sharing secrets, worries, woes, and laughter with someone else more than you are with your mate, you may be unknowingly putting your lover-boy eggs in a whole new basket.

7 Psychology Facts On Life.
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1. Psychology says, sometimes people who are thousands of miles away can make you feel better than the ones right
beside you.
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2. Psychology says, laughter increases both physical and emotional pain tolerance. Overall, laughing more literally makes you a stronger person.
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3. Psychology says, happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself to other people.
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4. Psychology says, life becomes more meaningful when you realize the simple fact that you'll never get the same moment twice.
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5. Psychology says, the person who tries to keep everyone happy often ends up feeling the loneliest..
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6. Psychology says, after being disappointed so many times, you begin to lose hope in everything.
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7. Psychology says, the more you ignore your feelings, the more painful your emotions become.

Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made. So think deep, choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely to avoid Prison break!!

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THESE 30 RULES FOR GODLY WOMEN-
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him; it is a matter if time before another woman takes over the duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long (even the anointed ones) (SS 7v12)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.(Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)

A ball always bounces to 3/5 of the height from which it falls. If it falls from a height of 1metre, how high will it rise after the second bounce?