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fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

my current girlfriend thought I was part of the illuminati when we started dating because I mostly stay at home too but I eventually told her I am a forex trader and I invest in a few businesses, but I definitely think these guys were shady.

Lol if I were you I'd Bleep the shit out of her but than there's a possibility she might grow attached to you and catch feelings as most women do after sex, its sucks that she's married because you might break up a whole family with that said my answer is NO! Do not sleep with her rather cut her out of your life if she can't accept your decision... Karma is a bitch remember that

:-( Ahh... Man that ain't cool sorry

I don't know if there's a secret or formula to success but I know its possible for anyone to become a success I've seen it in other peoples lives and I've seen it in my own, I didn't grow up poor but I grew up among middle class population in Soweto/SA but some years were really bad I remember a year I had only one pair of shoes to go to school with while my friends had about 14 - 15 of them and it hurt but I had to remind myself that I represented not only my parents but my community too than I remember my graduation and they called my name and I stood up looking sumptuous I was a finished product and this is my point sometimes people won't know your hustle, your pain, your grind all they see is the finished product.
So if your in a similar situation let those who are laughing at you continue to laugh, those who mock let them continue fore one day the sun shall shine on you and hopefully you'll be prepared that one day is all you need, that one day will determine who you will become, that one day will determine if you will become the next millionaire or the next statistic.

;DGive me her cellphone number, I will buy her a flight ticket immediately! I go tell her its my birthday the following day but if she buy me useless gifts I go send her bak hahahahaha!

If a man has money even if his as ugly as me women will find something cute on you, no need for 6 pack. BEER BELLIES ROCK!