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Who is it bad for? How does it effect you or change the price of bread? Should you not stop being judgmental. If I offer a girl money for sex we both benefit so what's your problem

Yes! you are her cash cow.

OP don't come and act holier than thou, no disrespect but everyone loves money from your whole family tree generation to your forefathers.

TheLordIsGr8:
Same here. I never had any interest in dating all through university. It was too much of a burden for a care-free guy like me.

Fast forward to NYSC and beyond. Now I think I might be needing a wife sometime soon. So I wanna date.

The moment I look at a woman I decide if I can live with her for the next 20 years, at least. If yes, then I can approach. If no, then I don't even think about dating. I don't want date for the sake of dating. Even when my guys are having girls left, right and center.

But I've been burned time and again.... lol. And I'm seriously reconsidering my position on the issue of dating. I'm beginning to think that sometimes you just have to laugh just for the sake of laughing, not because you heard something funny.


Enjoy your wife. You deserve it.

hahaha! Thanks.

piroux:
Hi, i'v been in a state for the past couple of months and i am wondering if others have ever been through it.

I was a 20 year old in my final year and there was this wonderful guy who was crazy about me. He was nice, sweet, caring, selfless and Godly but.... at the time, i thought i was too young and wasnt ready for a serious relationship and he was.
He was a few years older, also in his final year and was very serious about me. I didnt want to be married too young to my first boyfriend so i lied to him about having another boyfriend which i didnt have. He was hurt but he let things be, i later confessed to him when we graduated but he didnt trust me anymore and i let things be. Years have passed and i have met cuter, richer, more intelligent guys but no one has cared about me as selflessly as he did. Now, i find myself thinking what if?
Who knows, i might not be happier or as fulfilled but a part of me wishes i had given him a chance, you know? So share your own stories....

Mase iyonu! You'll find someone or something, plenty fish for sea o

piroux:
Hi, i'v been in a state for the past couple of months and i am wondering if others have ever been through it.

I was a 20 year old in my final year and there was this wonderful guy who was crazy about me. He was nice, sweet, caring, selfless and Godly but.... at the time, i thought i was too young and wasnt ready for a serious relationship and he was.
He was a few years older, also in his final year and was very serious about me. I didnt want to be married too young to my first boyfriend so i lied to him about having another boyfriend which i didnt have. He was hurt but he let things be, i later confessed to him when we graduated but he didnt trust me anymore and i let things be. Years have passed and i have met cuter, richer, more intelligent guys but no one has cared about me as selflessly as he did. Now, i find myself thinking what if?
Who knows, i might not be happier or as fulfilled but a part of me wishes i had given him a chance, you know? So share your own stories....

I was once in a similar position only difference being I was the sweet guy, I don't remember dating a girl just for fun I aways wanted a serious relationship but all my girlfriends ended up dumping me for other guys but just when I thought love wasn't meant for me God blessed me with a good woman not only that but money fall too :-) so my point is everyone has regrets but sometimes things workout for the best don't look back and wait on God

Papiikush:
One simple way to live a life without worry in Nigeria.

HAVE MONEY!

Fück what everyone else thinks.

there's a quote that says "Anybody who thinks money will
make you happy, hasn't got money." —
David Geffen. Money will not magically take away ones worries or stress, a poor man has less stress than me actually. All that shines is not gold my guy I'm speaking from my own life experience

Your observation is narrow minded
1. What worries people most is money so one would have to eliminate that factor to being his/her worry free journey, only 1% of the world is wealthy and even they worry about tax, bond, shares and someone scamming them or someone committing a crime on them or their loved ones so eliminating money alone won't help. So you'll have to live as a monk hundreds of kilometers away from normal civilization. Basically you'll have to live with animals as it would be the most logical place for you to live ( near food ) so you'll hunt for a living,


P. S don't get eaten

His actually right, scientifically speaking sperm can male spoil so its advisable for a male to masturbate or self-service regularly to produce new sperm and it also can decrease the chances of Prostate Cancer and stress. So with that said girls encourage your boyfriends to masturbate

Its healthy,

All this for a girl?

Well done man :-) you are living every mens dream, bottoms up!

jagugu88li:
Its a pity we will never know. The downfall here is the parent's house. Rape could be theatre play.........They say rape, lets take it

I hear you and your right :-) its nice to get a response from someone as mature as yourself

I think this was consensual sex but they were caught so she screamed rape, that's just my opinion. No sane man would rape a girl in her own house and risk going to jail, its likely they were sex-buddies

I only have a single comment to add, and I think I speck for all men when I say DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX should be at number one.

Nma27:
Nasty

That's the same answer I get when I show girls the python in my pants hahahaha don't take me seriously I was just joking, I had nothing better to do.

adajoe555:
wow so cute. HML
Dear boyfriend Prepare your mind soon oh

Land him slap if he doesn't

Olushauneddy:
By d time she sees another man who's gonna be twice as tall as this one, more romantic, richer & handsome. She would have completely forgotten she made this public confession.

lol why are you so negative man?

NaturaEssie:
lol my dear,they do come o,just that me,i have studies to face.

Don't worry I'm here now :-)

NaturaEssie:
I'm 20 and i've never had a bf,i pray for something like you.

What? I find that hard to believe that a beautiful woman like yourself is single, what is wrong with these boys?

Hmmm... maybe I should visit Nigeria too, maybe they can epp me too hahahahaha!

This is soft-porn

rosieluv:

I hope you don't mind me quoting a conversation I wasn't even a part of but I was wondering where you were as I wasn't seeing anything from you, its nice to hear from you again :-)

SPEEDEPITOME:
I guess you didn't read the part where I wrote that other things should follow. I'm not in any way trying to downplay the place of money in relationships as you have pointed out.
My point is: if a girl is not into you, no matter how much you spend, she'll either leave you or stay and cheat on you.

Okay I hear you ife

SPEEDEPITOME:
I guess you didn't read the part where I wrote that other things should follow. I'm not in any way trying to downplay the place of money in relationships as you have pointed out.
My point is: if a girl is not into you, no matter how much you spend, she'll either leave you or stay and cheat on you.

Are you in a relationship now?

So if we're in a relationship and I take you out to a restaurant will you pay for yourself? Or if I take you to a hotel will you pay your own way or will you expect me to pay as the man?
This is an unwritten rule in every relationship the lion must hunt for his woman and family.

Would you date a poor man?
1. Love won't buy you a house
2. Love won't pay the bills
My point is sometimes love isn't enough, if I can afford your lifestyle and you like me than why can't I be your man?

Ayiibobo:
. Bro don't speak speak for 'some' 'people',..and don't come here and be forming boss,because some people critized the fact that she went on a 80k date doesn't mean we are not rich,me inclusive,..if u work hard for ur money u can't spend 80k on a date for one useless girl,..no reasonable man will do that,unless u are into illegal hustle,I'm not judging cos a man gat to do wat needs to be done to put food on his table,..I can only spend up to or more than that if my dudes are around,and it's not every day,80k on a date?,Neva,it's not about been poor,but about been responsible

I hear you man :-)

Humility017:
the likes of you will spend such money wit no tangible asset on ground not even a land...
I have seen folks use latest phones...like iPhone 7 and Samsung S8+ and more but wit no piece of land.....still paying house rent...
wisdom is not in excessive spending but investment even dangote won't spend such huge on a date....

There are high risk investments that make $7-8 million a week, I don't have experience enough to take such risks but my daily small amounts accumulate very well for me so I'm good my guy :-)

fastgyal:
I'm writing this from my own personal experience. Dear girls, don't just fall 'head over heels' for a guy without knowing the nature of his job or any of his close relatives.

There's this guy who's been inviting me over for quite sometime, we met at an event and exchanged contacts. I did that because he assisted me with something at that event. He calls me for about an hour or two every night. That was early this year.

When I asked about his nature of job, he said he was a contractor, he couldn't tell me which firm he works with. He stays at home 24/7 from Monday through Friday, weekends inclusive.

I finally agreed to go out with him sometime in February. This guy owns a Bentley and a Range Rover. Each time I try to bring up the issue of his job, he waives it off. The way he spent money on me and my friend that day was lavish and suspicious. I wasn't comfortable at all. He paid for my Uber ride to and fro. Spent about 80K at the exquisite restaurant just for food and drinks. We were three;Him, my friend And I. He uses two iPhones, one infinix hot4 and a smaller phone. I felt so much discomfort with him that day. Thank God my spirit never accepted him. that evening, he had a minor issue with his friend. I was listening to their conversation and I found out my guess was right. I had to cut up all ties with him after that day. abeg I can't be spending money whose source I know nothing about.

The second was a guy I loved, I won't lie. I met him at the mall and there was this kind of attraction. We flowed freely, got talking and all that. I won't say everything I witnessed at his place for personal reasons. I asked what he's been doing since he graduated, he said business. What kind of business? He replied; 'online business'

The day I visited him, his friends came over and for more than one hr, they were glued to their laptops, doing 'heaven knows what' and making calls to dupe victims. I also saw about 7 master keys for cars. I had no access to his FB account then. only whatsapp and IG.

When I checked his pictures on FB, I was trembling with all the things I saw. he's in a gang, probably a cult. Always wearing shirts with that devilish logo of a skull printed in it. Wearing all Black and all that.

And girls, please don't open your legs for any guy you've just met until you're very sure he's clean. I really loved this last one but although its hard to let go, I just have to.
I'm not saying I'm a virgin, but I just don't open my legs for any one because he throws money at my face whatsoever. I'm being very plain here so girls can learn.

Let this get to front page please mods.

I really think some people are judging fastgyal ( mostly guys ), 80K is like R32000± so for ordinary people that amount is ludicrous to spend on one date but for some of us its a norm. My bank alert beeps every day not just at month end so I can afford to spend large sums of money on a date as I know I will have it in my account again by the end of the week so I believe fastgyal

Sex and support

fastgyal:
You sound like a poor man. sorry about your predicament

Hahahaha! true, he does.