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Ask your ancestors the age difference during their time
Just 9 yrs difference and you are here talking, you never serious

My fiancée is over 10yrs younger than me

jbreezy:
So I'm currently liking this girl, and with all things being equal, I am ready to marry her. But my fear is the age difference, I will be 33 next year while she is currently 24. She likes me too, but I'm still playing safe as I am still skeptical. Should I go on or just cut off the relationship before it becomes serious.

Focus on your life bro, he is passed his time
Just take care of him but don't brake the bank for him only your mum should enjoy you

Nne di mpa

amazinghands:
I relocated to the United States about eight years ago. My relationship with my dad has been strained and continues to deteriorate.

Background:
I grew up in a lower-middle-class family with both my mom and dad working hard. Everything changed when my dad started earning significant money. His newfound wealth led to a lifestyle filled with parties, women, and alcohol (to be fair, he earned his money, so he had the right to spend it as he pleased). He built a hotel and was barely home afterward.

2010:
While I was in college, I wanted to leave Nigeria due to the incessant ASUU strikes. I told my dad I wanted to study abroad. Initially, he agreed and gave me the funds to start the process. I was admitted to a school in Ukraine and secured a visa, but he later said he couldn’t afford to send me abroad. This decision felt contradictory, as his lifestyle said otherwise. (To be fair, it’s his money, and he has the right to decide how to spend it.)

2016:
I got admitted to a master’s program in the U.S. and approached my dad for help again. He told me to "cut my coat according to my size" and said he couldn’t sell any of his properties for the sake of a child studying abroad. (Again, to be fair, he was right—he had already paid for my college tuition in Nigeria.) Around the same time, he married another wife.

On the other hand, my mom sold her only piece of land and some jewelry to give me half of my first semester's tuition. After involving family members, my dad reluctantly gave me ₦400,000, stating that was all he could afford. I thanked him for the support.

Fast Forward to Today:
I struggled and worked odd jobs to make ends meet, determined never to ask him for help again. Over time, I’ve become financially stable, secured a good job, and am now a permanent resident. I give my dad a monthly allowance and occasionally send more during festive seasons. My mom, on the other hand, gets spoiled with gifts, extra money, and I’ve even invited her to visit and spend time with me in the U.S.

Now, my dad is broke and has suggested I buy him a car and increase what I do for him, despite the fact that my parents are separated and he currently lives with his second wife. I’ve told myself I won’t go above and beyond for him, especially since he chose to prioritize his lifestyle and the new wife (who came with a stepson). I find it hard to reconcile his past decisions with his current expectations.

Am I in the wrong here?

Even though I am from the East, i can never support this, all those behind these UGM should be apprehended ASAP

Stop saying no strong contender
Lookman is and the only strong contender

timilehin007:
a walkover...no strong contender... Lookman will win convincingly...none we come close... he'll win with distance margin to whomever come 2nd

Why insulting her, na ex she be no be enemy na.

finallybusy:
There’s a men’s day? ROFLMAO. When every reasonable human being was celebrating Independence Day on Oct 1, my idiot ex was busy celebrating World Beaver Day. The chimpanzee believes relocating from her host country removed her West African genetics. E go shock am if oyibo reason her matter.

Omo na rubbish o....
Because of konji I dated my neighbor, Big nyar$h Akwa ibom pikin, na so she hook me with pikin. I begged her not to remove it but she insisted unless I pay her bride price and I was financially broke then even though I had a job.
She later removed it although that babe eye dey outside I thank God she removed it if not I for enter one chance, one night I caught her sneaking out after 10pm, I was outside with her sisters husband discussing. She was shocked to see us as she opened the gate na so she run inside back, me and her sisters husband no talk anything as guy men wey we be.
But that puß$y was good, her sister is married to the landlord relations that stays in the house as the caretaker.

Otunbaomoluabi2:
WHAT do you guys think about neighbours dating each other? THE people who have had the experience should share as well. :d

Paul knows good music

shout out to our own Asake

ricson11:
The moment Paul Pogba asked Ishowspeed to play Asake’s Worldwide during their live stream


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOIs4KHNwDE?si=hfzu0XiXbh6kaktf

Contact me on Whatsapp 08136242613 or send a direct message, pls can't receive calls on the phone I'm using presently.

The engine changed to new, spare tire available, electrical works put in order and new battery changed as well.
Going for 1.5m naira.
Buy for business, I'm moving out of Aba, all papers available you can come for inspection.

Have you taken your medications today

cathodekazim:
Only waiting for Trump to declare Biafra Republic as illusioned by the disillusioned Ipob thugs/pigz. They will wait the same way they waited during the first Trump regime

Who color help, him papa will complete his tenure and nothing will stop him

Trump my man

Pls can someone educate us on the cause of lightening strikes, it's scary cause it could happen to anyone

FreeStuffsNG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmJeI0LEI00



https://edition.cnn.com/2024/11/04/sport/peru-soccer-lightning-intl-hnk-spt/index.html

Make Man Utd sign this boy na

they all look like Yahoo boys, karma don happen

Rubbish

You should be ranting at the former governor but you are Yoruba man you don't understand anything happening in Abia so shut your mouth

Confirmedzombie:
How is it a fake news, post the flyover if this is fake.

Otti is a scam and must be impeached and jailed.

We Abians will never support Otti again. We want him impeached.

To hell with the former governor Ikpeazu, Alex Otti will correct and repair it.
God of good governance have remembered Abia state

Pls are you from the east, just a kind question pls

Okoroawusa:
Nnamdi Kanu will die the way my two brothers died. The way we couldn't find their bodies is the way Nnamdi Kanu s body will never be found. The way we buried only their heads is the way only Nnamdi Kanu's head will be buried without a body. The way their children are now fatherless is the way Nnamdi Kanu's children will be fatherless. The way their wives are now widows is the way Nnamdi Kanu's wife will be a widow.

Chukwu Okike Abiama bear me witness....Iseeeee!

South East does not need his appointment na, we didn't vote him abeg. Who wants to be associated with a devilish government.
We are surviving

Pls what is the name of the milk close to just after Nido?

Bayern don f*ck up

This guy, longest time

Righteousness2:
The World is on a Brink of a Prophetic Shift.

Scriptures are falling into a place right before our eyes.

The prophecies that were Sealed in Daniel are being REVEALED as we get closer to the end of time.

The Holy Bible is the Greatest and Most Imporrant book for all Humanity on the Face of Earth

You dont need a prophet to prophesy anything.
Scripture is literally jumping off the pages of the Bible lately and ending up on tomorrow's news headlines.

Get ready Folks! Live ready!
EVERYTHING IS SET
This World is about to Explode!

The RAPTURE could happen anytime anyday.
Settle the Matter of your Soul with JESUS CHRIST. There is no more time

No na it's wrong in all angle, he should have waited for her to be 18, at least the punishment go reduce. Even prisoners go deal with am for jail like this

No excuse for paedophilia

Collins005:
A teacher, the Guardian, single poor gbolahan or any other person in his category can do anything of such. Let put the blame on the parents for not caring for the poor girl.

This your anger no be unto this bad news, abi you lose husband because you no be virgin.
Calm down abeg

Zooposki:
One fool here will be shouting marry a virgin when una don destroy all their toto from small pikin and render their wombs useless. Even their own children are not safe from them. Useless pedophiles.

True talk

My people are very foolish and stupid when it comes to governance

santaclaws:
LOL majority of Igbos don't check facts on social media, that's why most of you are easily deceived. This is obviously a project in Ogun state...

This means they can also tell you guys that the Blue line and Red line trains are in Aba and you'd just believe without checking your facts 😂

NB: the entire South East (all 5 states combined) is smaller than Oyo state, yet no meaningful development to show for the allocations from FG and their IGR. This means it should be easier to build roads and rails for people in the SE but it's quite the opposite... 🤔

Disclaimer: The above is not intended as a jab to Igbos, I love you all... But accountability must begin at home! For Nigeria to develop, each region must have something to show. Not just to focus on Lagos and Abuja. All states must be livable. God bless Nigeria.

Very useless write up,
For foreigners or those abroad in this page; this is the most useless and corrupt lying government in Nigeria history.

I believe your family must be investing in Yahoo boys

haybhi1:
Lol, gbajue Obi. It's solely because of your 2027 ambition. You had 8 years in Amanbra, you subjected your university students to 7 months of strike and absolute seizure of educational activities for failing to pay lecturer salaries. You subjected your state's doctors to 13 months strike so your people had no healthcare. Yet, Obasanjo did not seize your own allocation one bit. You stashed all the money to open a beer factory and now donate from it to look saint. Wehdone oga gbajue

Nice tips

Fear fear and Yoruba na 5 and 6, bullet no dey their gun you should have made noise and fought them especially at the traffic light stop. Criminals no get money for bullets for this T-Pain tenure

ijustdey:
https://leadership.ng/man-narrates-miraculous-escape-from-ritual-killers-in-ibadan/

They are complaining about their grandfather that they voted, next election some of their people will still vote for him.
See the ones steadily defending the old man in the comments section.

Tueh *spits*

I think at this point the northern abokis are beginning to be more sensible than the western tribalistic bigots

beyep:
Tv presenter got angry and walked out of a live TV show while complaining about Tinubu


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDkEq6mUv6w