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PoliticsRe: Rivers Poll: APP Candidate For Wike's LGA Casts His Vote (Pix) by Oscarchims: 11:54am On Oct 05, 2024
Rivers politics is one characterised with so much dirty play. During 1992 till Abacha ended it, it took Obi wali, during sir Peter odili,oyaghiri, Ak dikibo,marshal harry were assassinated,during Amaechi time it was Ignatius Ajuru coupled with house of assembly crisis where chidi Lloyd almost killed Micheal chinda, during wike time houses of opponents were destroyed. Now in sim fubara government house of assembly is in disarray. If such heat is existing now imagine how 2027 will be....
CelebritiesRe: This is why you shouldn't wear skirts near elephants by Oscarchims: 11:28am On Sep 29, 2024
Gwo gwo gwon gwo
Mike Ejeagha sang about grin
FamilyRe: Rant! Women Are Forgetful And Can Be Ingrates. by Oscarchims: 8:25am On Sep 29, 2024
Hidemyface:
Now I am married with a child. My ex who left me when things were tough came back. I almost took her back. I didn't have sex with her cause I didn't want any emotional attachment. I couldn't bring myself to accept her. We remained friends until I got married.

My wedding was a blast, I spent close to 15 million naira, which in present-day Nigeria, would be 45 million naira. Business is picking up, with pressure, and I am struggling to cope with it but the satisfaction I want from my wife I am not getting. First, I found out my wife owed close to 40 million naira due to a terrible business trade and some borrowed money. Even when I asked her before our church wedding when I found out, she told me not to bother about it but I saw her getting depressed from the constant calls. We were able to clear off some of the debts, especially the immediate ones from family members who invested in her business.

One of my pain is that she disregarded my family members by not treating them well. First was my mom when I asked her to come around after my wife put to bed, her mom and her mom's sister were flown in to stay with us 2months before she gave birth. My mom came 2 months after she put to bed cause we were planning for child dedication. This was a big mistake on my part cause it didn't end well. Even after her mom and mom's sister left, she requested her mom to come and stay with her cause I had a month away job which I obliged. This angered my mom but I had to control her cause it is my home.

Some months back, one of my sisters finished her NYSC and I asked her to come around so I could help her with some professional work experience and work ethics and grow her professional network. It didn't end well cause my wife wanted her to stay 2 weeks or a month which I bullshitted and made her stay for almost 3 months before she left abruptly. She had to leave because of the attitude of my wife which wasn't welcoming even after talking to my wife severally for her to make it work and see reasons why she needed to make herself welcoming. This led to an issue with my other siblings that I had to travel to meet with everyone to sort out and plead for understanding with my wife. To make my wife happy, I even bought her a new phone worth 2 million naira so she could be happy and learn to live with my sister while I was away but ...

Recently, her mom had an accommodation issue and has been depressed. Not that she doesn't have where to stay but where she moved to wasn't okay even when my wife told her not to. My wife was considering bringing her to live with us for a while so she can sort out a new place but I told her not to since the cost of a flight is high, I will add to the amount she would have used for the flight so she can get another place. The reason why I refused was cause we just spent a huge amount for her to go stay with her mom after we quarreled about the way she handled my sister's visit. Because of my refusal, she said I was inconsiderate or something and then remembered that I offered to offset the cost of a new accommodation and thanked me. This is coming after I did some family expenses. I honestly can't remember what she said I was. I didn't consider her word or insult cause I shrugged it off but for 2days now, I have not been feeling okay, like love lost especially when I remember she made a comment that is not okay. I made sure she didn't lack and did what I needed to do as a man, take care of our home.

Now I see why men decide to live their lives or go elsewhere for peace and do whatever they can to be happy cause women can be forgetful and ingrates. I was in the mood for a night battle when she made the insulting comment. My morale just weak and pencil just dropped.
Why some women hate their husband people. It's baffling. Omohhhh if I am married and my wife shows disdain to my family, I will start loosing interest. It's difficult for me to hate not to talk of having a hater as a spouse.
PoliticsRe: I’m Far Bigger Than All Of You Put Together – Wike Tells PDP Govs Backing Fubara by Oscarchims: 5:09am On Sep 29, 2024
Hmmm.
EducationRe: Rivers:total Energies E&P Donates 251 Solar Reading Lamps To Students by Oscarchims: 1:55pm On Sep 28, 2024
Commendable
PoliticsRe: Wike Expresses Displeasure Over Pace Of Work At OSEX II/wasa Road Projec by Oscarchims: 8:05pm On Sep 27, 2024
id4sho:
Body fit don dey pain am
Pain am how... I dey confused grin
Most people wey dey follow follow wike don get appointment, both ojukaye flag amachree.
PoliticsRe: Wike Expresses Displeasure Over Pace Of Work At OSEX II/wasa Road Projec by Oscarchims: 7:03pm On Sep 27, 2024
Wey senator Phillip Aduda
RomanceRe: What Kind Of Lie Can Produce Such Facial Reaction? by Oscarchims: 8:04am On Sep 27, 2024
When they tell you Nigeria will be better.
Or the Dollar and naira will be equal grin
PoliticsRe: "I Will Not Tolerate Corruption" - Screening, confirmation of CJN Kekere-Ekun by Oscarchims: 10:15pm On Sep 25, 2024
All animals are equal but some are more equal.
Meanwhile, four legs good two legs bad.
Animal farm by George Orwell grin
PoliticsRe: Defection: "27 Pro-wike Rivers Lawmakers Not Our Members" - APC by Oscarchims: 10:49am On Sep 24, 2024
Rivers of Intrigues
EducationRe: Abia State Poly Staff Celebrate After Governor Clears ₦‎16.5 Billion Salary Debt by Oscarchims: 11:27am On Sep 15, 2024
kaludestiny10:
You are partly correct but what can you say about Tinubu who is a godfather to himself? It all depends on individual oh. Let's look at Rivers state as a case study, the present governor was installed by Wike but because he has conscience, he refused to do the bidding of Wike. So it's an individual thing.
Valid logic... It depends on personality traits
PoliticsRe: The Man Senator Jibrin Isah (echocho) Before And Present Natasha Akpoti by Oscarchims: 7:43am On Sep 15, 2024
No be this man wey dey kneel to yahaya Bello. Senator isah jibrin. Echocho
PoliticsRe: Pictures From PDP Grand Finale Campaign In Oredo LG In Edo State by Oscarchims: 7:21am On Sep 15, 2024
Dr Anogbum onuoha, REC in Edo election.

Nigeria sha grin
PoliticsRe: Edo: Pictures From APC Final Campaign Rally by Oscarchims: 6:41am On Sep 15, 2024
Pojomojo:
Rigging go surplus
Wear your jims according to wike in the last Edo election. But truth be told, the mode of recruiting electoral staffs is bad. How can they make card Carrying supporters of political leaders sensitive appointments like the inec grin
This country nawa in the voice of Ajebo Hustlers
EducationRe: Abia State Poly Staff Celebrate After Governor Clears ₦‎16.5 Billion Salary Debt by Oscarchims: 6:38am On Sep 15, 2024
MEEVEET:
This is what you get when leaders gets elected on merit

Same Otti, if he was installed by the PDP godfathers in Abia he won't perform why ? Because he would have too much people to please

People would nominate people into his government that would be loyal to those who nominated them first

This is why elections should count
Your words are nothing short of the Truth. Nigerian godfatherism has kept the country in shambles my brother. Both PDP and APC practice it. Terrible political parties.
PoliticsRe: Edo: Pictures From APC Final Campaign Rally by Oscarchims: 6:32am On Sep 15, 2024
Wahala for where wike brother wey be former SSA on lands and survey, RSU lecturer in law faculty, Dr Anogbum onuoha is the REC. Make we see sha
EducationRe: Abia State Poly Staff Celebrate After Governor Clears ₦‎16.5 Billion Salary Debt by Oscarchims: 6:29am On Sep 15, 2024
Otti is simply a sigh of relief. Abia have been punished for long.
PoliticsRe: Five Times Tinubu’s Government Has Promised To Kickstart Port Harcourt Refinery by Oscarchims: 6:26am On Sep 15, 2024
Visible to the blind and audible to the deaf. Even the dead knows.
PoliticsRe: PDP Governors Lose As NWC Hands Wike Control Of Rivers PDP by Oscarchims: 6:20am On Sep 13, 2024
I observed that majority of sim fubara supporter's are obedients, Amaechi supporters and the Atiku supporters. Wike is a very good strategist but as it stands people don't really like him. Most people still with him are their for the goodies. Especially as he is aligned to APC that is heavily accused of the economic woes in Nigeria.
FamilyRe: UK Woman Urges Nigerian Wives: Stop Reporting Husbands To UK Police by Oscarchims: 2:10pm On Sep 09, 2024
Tell them... A man that cares and loves you, create opportunity for you to move over. Then you guys have a misunderstanding, all you do is to try to make him stranded in suffering simply because the law favours the women. Some people can be evil walai
PoliticsRe: DSS Arrest NLC President Joe Ajaero At Abuja Airport by Oscarchims: 11:34am On Sep 09, 2024
Rat race...
CrimeRe: Two suicide attempts foiled on Third Mainland Bridge by Oscarchims: 10:08am On Sep 09, 2024
Love800:
No. Is not. Am not mocking you.
Am for real.
they had an uprising as a result of government policies that were anti people as a result there was shot down and later on their leader, Hasina fled
CrimeRe: Two suicide attempts foiled on Third Mainland Bridge by Oscarchims: 8:40am On Sep 09, 2024
Love800:
What happened in Bangladesh?
I would have properly responded but i am thinking that you might ur question might br sarcastic
CrimeRe: Two suicide attempts foiled on Third Mainland Bridge by Oscarchims: 8:39am On Sep 09, 2024
Amumaigwe:
None of such can happen in this country cursed with ethnic and religious bigotry.
You didn't see the footage of one Imam in His telling his braindead listeners that it was Christians in Tinubu government that increased the price of fuel to put him in a bad light because of 2027 election.
If the video is true, I think such a person should be arrested for trying to cause a religious acrimony.
CrimeRe: Two suicide attempts foiled on Third Mainland Bridge by Oscarchims: 6:09am On Sep 09, 2024
With the current economic downturn, suicide will be surplus. It's unfortunate that our leaders are not sensitive to the plight of the masses because they feel that we are conquered people. But if I were them, I will take a historical record of the French political revolution, the Arab spring starting from the self immolation of Mohammad B. and most recently the revolution in Bangladesh. You will say it's impossible after failure of endsars and end bad governance but believe me, hunger get volume.
PoliticsRe: Foodstuffs Price Crash Ultimatum: We’re Not Father Christmas, Traders Reply FG by Oscarchims: 9:35am On Sep 08, 2024
If federal government personally set of farm and the harvest is sent to a palliative market setup by the government in each state will be a more realistic approach rather than a collectivization pattern that helped in crumbling the USSR. Omohhhh make government get sense
HealthRe: Pregnant Banker Gives Birth In Prison In Osun, Sparks Outrage by Oscarchims: 9:29am On Sep 08, 2024
iLoveYouToo:
It must be distressing for her and family but were her bail conditions met?
So they said
EducationRe: Who Else Is Facing This Issue by Oscarchims: 9:10am On Sep 08, 2024
Check well, ur VPN is on
HealthRe: Pregnant Banker Gives Birth In Prison In Osun, Sparks Outrage by Oscarchims: 9:07am On Sep 08, 2024
Poor justice system
RomanceRe: Girls; Is This True? (pix) by Oscarchims: 4:50pm On Sep 07, 2024
fman:
Women naturally are psychologist..
They know the truth but want to know what you have to say, so that they can evaluate and understand the kind battery wey dey work u whether na itel battery or Nokia
What if na iphone XR battery cheesy
PoliticsRe: Abuja: From Darkness To 24hrs Light, Less Road Holdup - A Legacy Of Wike by Oscarchims: 10:09am On Sep 07, 2024
After end bad governance protest end, government add Nigerians suffering times 20

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