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emandman:
Why are you hoping part cross again??
Have you gained admission for the September?
If not she shd school in UK instead.
Marry her, let her do her nursing in UK.
If that's not doable.
Let her continue with the Poland dream. You Marry her . She can go to UK with you pending when Poland works and she can spend summer holiday in UK and get work to support you.
You're considering her potential to you. I've helped you to address that, as a guy man no b love you dey reason.lol if not you wont say "if path cross again".

Thank you.

HarunaWest:
Why do you want to use your selfishness to affect her life choice
Let her embark on her Poland trip. If una go Marry, una go Marry. Don't make people make life altering choices because of you cos it usually leads to regret and you will be blamed in future.

I am not forcing her to go to UK with me. She is likewise confused reason why I am here to ask questions.

Okay..I have been dating my babe for a year now. She is a registered midwife has her license and already practicing but nursing was actually her choice. She didn't get the nursing form, reason why she picked the midwifery form in a nursing school. So, I will be going for my Masters this September and I want her to go with me as a dependent even her dad also want this including her but where the problem is, is that she just got an admission to a polish university to study Nursing (3 years) and the agent running the Polish admission for her has guaranteed her visa. Now, she is confused whether to follow me down to UK as dependent or she should just go for her degree over there. Her dad said he is cool with whatever decision we make and ready to also contribute if she will be going with me.

My question is this, if she goes with me, what prospect does she have over there? Are there universities she can do conversion courses to Nursing over there? Are jobs for her there as a midwife (on the condition she passes the NMC council exam there) Or she should just focus on her Poland and we hope our paths cross again....We have a decision to make quickly.

I have already told my parents I will be getting married before she now brought the issue of Poland and stuff..

Note: The dad told me he has given the agent money on somethings already but he can forgo that if I am really ready to marry her and go with her but yet to pay school fees. Likewise, she is has an active admission in Ukraine but didn't go there because of the war that broke out last year reason why the agent searched for this Poland for her. According to the agent, she has been booked for an appointment in the Polish embassy by August. Thank you.