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Dating isn’t as romantic for some as it is for others, different strokes for different folks, yet all folks love to be treated just right. It is a reason we select certain people as partners over others. However, women are to be treated continuously as this is what is expected of you. Be the romantic and gentle partner and trust me, she will have no reason to seek solace in the arms of someone else.


Otisele brings you a few out of the box ideas you should use to help spice up your relationship.



IDEA #1

If your partner has to go away for a few days, could be for a course or conference or whatever function, tell her how worried you are about her safety and you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a small teddy bear laced with your cologne.



IDEA #2

On any special occasion, buy your partner eleven red roses and one artificial red rose. Place the artificial one in the center of the bouquet.

Then attach a card with the following inscription

“I will love you until the last rose fades and withers away”



IDEA #3

For the tech savvy guys out there, you can buy the domain name of your partner if it is available… say for example… www.shadechiomamariam.com. Creating a romantic page with a poem and picture montage of sorts. The montage can include snapshots of your getaway trips and fun times spent together. When your partner is surfing the web, you can just casually suggest if she has checked to see if her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her custom page.




IDEA #4

You know how women love to paint their faces, yes. Buy her a stylish hand mirror and gift it to her. Include a card in the box saying….

“In this mirror, you will see the image of the most beautiful woman in the world”

She is sure to smile every time she makes use of the mirror.





IDEA #5

Is your partner a book reader or puzzle solver? Take a book she is currently reading and use a pencil to underline in a section of the book she hasn’t read yet to spell out a love letter. For example, in the following novel,

Einstein has asked nothing more from life than the freedom to pursue his researches into the mechanism of the universe. His nature is of rare simplicity and sincerity; he always has been, and he remains, genuinely indifferent to wealth and fame and the other prizes so dear to ambition. At the same time he is no recluse, shutting himself off from the sorrows and agitations of the world around him.

The underlined letters will definitely attract your partner’s attention and with a bit of luck, she will write them down. Spend quality effort and time in encoding a proper message such as

“Dear Mariam, I love you here, now and beyond”



IDEA #6

Have flowers delivered to your partner’s workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but the attention and envy she will draw from her colleagues will add her to excitement.



IDEA #7

When your spouse has had a really long and tiring day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some scented oil into the tub and gently bath her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom and gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead. Trust me, she’ll appreciate this so much.



IDEA #8

Buy some rose petals and place them behind the sun visor on the passenger side of your car. Take a post it note and write something short, unique and fun on it and stick it to the back of the sun visor.

As you are driving to a romantic destination, look at your partner and tell her she has a mark on her cheek. She will pull down the sun visor to use the mirror and be showered in rose petals and see your note.



IDEA #9

Always listen for things that your partner reminisces about and note them down someplace safe. For example, perhaps she talks about a particular item from her past or somewhere she has always wanted to re-visit. Plan a surprise trip to that destination (Some travel agencies offer surprise romantic getaways like this.) or get her the item from the particular store she craves it from, ensuring the store’s details are on the packaging.



IDEA #10

Buy and plant a tree in a special selected spot with your partner. Each year on your anniversary, have a glass of champagne next to your tree and talk about how your love and the tree have grown. This helps to teach you to weather the storms that affects your relationship just as the tree weathers the physical elements that is meant to ruin it.


Should you like some more out of the box unique but simple tips to spark and keep the fire burning? Stay glued to Otisele and we will always bring you great tips to help win your partner’s heart over and over again…

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Hatred is sometimes an emotion that people mistake for being just another part of life. They see it as a day-to-day emotion, something felt towards bosses or co-workers or in-laws. The word “hate” is thrown around like it is nothing, like it is an emotion to be taken for granted. However, hate is much more than that. Hate is a crippling emotion that ultimately becomes a reason you have so much negativity in your own life. When you hate somebody, there are three stunning realities that you absolutely must be aware of.

Brought to light and discussed in his presentation on Golden Rule Relationships, Zig Ziglar recognizes the damages that are done when you hate another person or even just resent them. He speaks about the necessity of forgiveness and how it relays into your life and has a profound effect on your overall happiness. These three stunning realities about hatred, resentment, and guilt are ones you need to read when you hate somebody, and are sure to open your eyes up a bit.

1) Hatred

The bottom line about hating somebody is that it brings more poison into your own life than anything else. Above all else, hate is such a powerful emotion that it sucks the energy out of your life and drives you into a frenzied emotional state. You will waste energy and many years of your life if you actively hate somebody. It is much easier and much more satisfying to live a life without hate and resentment.

2) Guilt

Hatred oftentimes leads to guilt. Guilt over what has been done to cause you to hate that person, or guilt for your own fierce emotions towards another human. One of the most stunning realities about guilt is the power of its destruction. Ziglar asserts, “Guilt is a terrible destroyer of creativity and productivity.” He knows “the data is there.” A copious amount of research has been done, evidenced in his presentation Golden Rule Relationships, which has proven the destructive power of guilt and resentment.....

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How far do you think a woman is ready to go to protect her son? As a child, to what limit do you think your mother's protection can be pushed before she gives up on you? Discover what choices a mother made here...

Here is something funny yet not so funny that happened to a nucleated family.

A family was sitting in the living room when two armed masked men suddenly burst through the door and shouted thus.

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Instinctively, parents made a move to protect their kids and pleaded for the lives of the children to be spared. Alas, the masked men had a whole different game plan in mind.

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How cruel can people be? How would a mother hurt her children?

Is it something a mother is capable of in any way?

Will a woman under duress choose to endanger the lives of her kids?

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Giving a gun to the mother to shoot one person to save the entire family…

A woman has to make a choice between saving a child…

This is a most difficult situation to put somebody.

She made up her mind, took aim and fired…

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On firing the gun, an empty click was heard, the chamber was empty.

The gun was not loaded and a sense of short-lived sense of relief came over the mother till...

Her "Dead" son asked her with a bewildered look on his face....

"Were you going to shoot me?"

Things could have probably gone differently if they had not removed their masks and…


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AHEAD of the resumption of Senate September 29, strong indications emerged yesterday that forces against the embattled Senate President, Bukola Saraki are strateging on how to ensure that he leaves the position as number three citizen of the country.

Saturday Vanguard gathered yesterday that forces opposed to Saraki’s continued stay as Senate President have concluded plans to embark on what they termed, mass protests to drive home on whether he was moraly bound to continue in that office and the need for him to “resign honourably.”

According to a source, following the arraignment of Saraki at the Code of Conduct Tribunal)CCT), some leaders of the All Progressives Congress, APC have concluded plans to move the battle against him to the second stage, which would be carry out campaigns that was expected to catch like wild fire across the country, just as this was designed to weaken his public image and popularising the idea that there was the need for him to resign.

The source disclosed that the protests would be sustained until the resumed hearing of the CCT suit against Saraki on October 21.

It was also gathered that some groups of Protesters were already mobilized and would start their campaigns from Monday September 28, a day to the resumption of the Senate after a six week annual recess, just as this group was said to also be mobilising to ensure that the Deputy Senate President, Senator Ike Ekweremadu, a member of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP was removed.

Senate President Bukola Saraki is presently facing trial at the Code of Conduct Tribunal, CCT following a 13- count charge levelled against him by the Code of Conduct Bureau, CCB, bordering on alleged corruption and false declaration of assets in 2003 and summoned him to appear before it on Friday.

But the President of the Senate through his lawyers, approached a Federal High Court in Abuja on Thursday to secure an exparte order to stop the tribunal proceedings. His Counsels actually got a ruling, summoning the Code of Code Bureau ( CCB), the Code of Conduct Tribunal, the Federal Ministry of Justice and Saraki himself to appear before it on Monday for hearing of the suit.

However, ignoring the order, the Code of Conduct Tribunal went ahead with Saraki’s trial, thereby resulting in the tribunal Chairman, Justice Danladi Umar ruling that no federal high court has any jurisdiction to stop the tribunal’s proceedings, claiming that Federal High Court and the Tribunal have coordinate jurisdiction.

The judge later issued warrant of arrest on Saraki for refusing to appear before it after two days of notification to that effect, just as Saraki’s counsels quickly moved to file an appeal against the ruling at the Federal Court of Appeal Abuja the same Friday.

But while answering questions from Journalists Monday, Senate President Saraki had vowed that he would appear at the Code of Conduct Tribunal, CCT Tuesday to answer to issues raised by the Code of Conduct Bureau, CCB and he actually appeared on Tuesday.

As part of moves to remove Saraki through s mass protest, a source disclosed that what happened at the Ilorin Prayer ground on Thursday when some persons led the attack on the Senate President and other dignitaries during the Eid prayers in the Kwara state capital was a rehearsal to the coming up protest.

It was also gathered that many of the protesters were to campaign on the grounds that Saraki’s continued occupation of the Chairmanship of the National Assembly and Senate Presidency would amount to a stain on the anti-corruption war embarked upon by the government of President Muhammadu Buhari.

The source said, : “The real plan concerning the arraignment o Saraki was originally aimed at achieving two things. One was to enable him kept behind bars from Friday September 18, the first day the CCT suit was to hold and then pave the way for the Senators to remove him. The second was to orchestrate that campaign that his arraignment was bad enough for the anti-corruption war of the current government. But since Saraki did not appear before the CCT on September 18, the first leg was affected. Now the arraignment on September 22 has emboldened then to start the street campaign.”

According to the source, Senator Ekweremadu would come under special scrutiny to ensure he is also faced with threatening charges that would force him to resign, adding, “The target really is Ekweremadu. If he agrees to resign, it would be easier for Saraki to continue. But Saraki became the target when he refused to lift a finger when told that he should sacrifice his deputy.

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Relationships last long not because they’re destined to last long. It lasts long because two brave people made a choice- to keep it, fight for it, and to work for it.

Meanwhile, other relationships fail not because they are destined to fail. They fail because one of the two, or both, made the choice- to set each other free…



Relationships are a part of our core existence. Humans need to mate and finding the right partner is a daunting task for most people. Those who tend to find “The One” usually don’t know just how lucky they are… Unless of course, they have had their hearts broken before…

As important as relationships are, so does the breakup and travails that come with the relationships. Usually, when a breakup occurs, one believes s/he has released himself from the shackles of the relationship. This often times than not is as a result of lack of communication.

A breakup shouldn’t make enemies out of partners (or ex-partners in this case). Understanding the reason(s) why a relationship can’t go on is very key in helping the partners move on as interests align and fall out of place as time goes on and in truth, break ups don’t really have to be painful except both partners never truly liked nor understood each other which may be a reason for the break up in the first place. Maturity is a key determining factor in relationships and understanding how things work will make it a smooth transition.

As it turn out dudes, there are lots of guys waiting in the friend zone, lurking and waiting for the opportune moment to jump up on the ship and seize the wheel. This is when men realize they truly loved their woman alas, it is too late and here comes the mourning and period of regret.

Ladies on the other hand tend to put the best dude who has their total interest at heart in the friend zone and choose not to see what is right in front of them, the shoulder to lean on is right there to help you…

It is always safer to go with someone who loves you and reciprocate the love as much as you can, and you’ll find your love for each other growing deeply beyond recognition. It sure feels good to love and be loved.

Getting to know and understanding your partner is key to your happiness because let’s face it, it is the major determining factor on whether the rest of your days will be lived out in happiness or misery.

Life is meant to be lived and enjoyed. Endeavor to choose the right partner for you and remember, one door closes and other opens up in its place pronto.
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After four days in the kidnappers den, the former Secretary to the Government of the Federation, SGF,Chief Oluyemisi Falaewho was yesterday escorted back home by security operatives said he slept on the floor for four days and trekked several kilometers to get to the hideout of his abductors.
Falae said this while narrating his ordeal in the hands of his abductors to the state governor, Dr Olusegun Mimiko who visited him after he was excorted home by the Inspector General of Police, IGP, Solomon Arase.
According to him, after he was kidnapped he was made to trek with the herdsmen from his farm located at Ilado in Akure North council area of the state to Owo, which is another council area in the state.
Falae told the governor that for the four days he was with the Fulani herdsmen he slept on bare ground and trekked several kilometers throughout the night to get to the hideout of the kidnappers.
According to him, when his family offered to pay N2 million, his abductors said: “Is it Boko Haram that your family wants to give N2 million?”
He said it was an experience that he would never forget in his entire lifetime.
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