Iamhatey:
The solution is search her room without her consent, get the name of the hospital, nurse and school. You can snap it. Go and get find out(who knows, you might me lucky)

Thanks so much. ..I'll pull myself together and see what I can find out.. .i guess in situations like this.. One only has to prepare for the worst and hope for the best.. .

ableguy:
This is a deep one ooo, it will only take divine assistance to achieve this task. Why don't you try to forget about your real parents and focus on other important things though it may not be easy. I wish you well sha. But why would your foster mum tell you that? Even when it's against his dead husband's wish? Some things are better left unsaid they say.

It's not against his wish....they only agreed to tell me when I clock a certain age.. And before I got to that age... The man died.. .so she only acted on their agreement.. .and I guess that's the more reason she was so pained when he died

Ghjh