₦airaland Forum

Pierocash:
See her running mouth because of ordinary 35m naira that can vanish within a step of wrong business move, she suddenly abandoned her marriage because she received 35m.

We keep telling men, that 95% of naija women don't value marriage, they only use it as a vehicle to escape poverty. If it were the man that had that money, he uses it to better his family, showers his wife with gifts and give her more comfort. But the other way round, marriage scattered.

You made 35m, and all your plans never included your husband, it was just you, and you nothing more. The man now felt isolated, asked you about his own place in your plan, you flaired up, moved out , and filed for divorce, all because of money. Shameless gold diggers

My brother will if it is ordinary 35M go work the money make you know. She took the right decision. Can't you see the the man was living off her while he spent his own money on flexing. If you support him then that shows that you may be like him.

Let me ask you a question if she was your sister would you support the idea that she released the money to the man?

chicfarmer:
The Man is wrong for demanding ALL the money. But the woman for involve her husband in the planning of how to manage the money. Afterall, marriage na for better for worse. If it happened that she fell seriously sick, will the man abandon her?

If your papa leave money for you, at least let the breeze reach oga side na

From all that she stated you would realise that the man was spending his money on other women outside. He had no good intention for the money, they would have become worse of if she had released the money to him.

She took the right decision and saved herself from a life of regret at old age.

I am sorry to say this, it is people with your kind of mindset that are this country's problem. Someone is stating the obvious that what needs to be done for them to thrive was not done and you are blaming them for complaining. Can you imagine how much was set aside for this event, some government officials have gotten rich on this while the athletes toil for little.

Until individuals like you change their mindset and call out the politicians and government officials for what they are Nigeria would keep going down and looked down upon by even small countries.

God bless Nigeria.

madridguy:
She is not serious for calling out our beloved country online. No one is holding her, she should switch to another country.

Mtchew

PlasmaTV:
The mother has no right to call off the engagement. At best, she can advise the daughter.

PS: I'm not condoning what the man did in any way. It's best it was probably called off. But the mother wasn't in her right.

Would you help her to grieve when an abusive husband maims or kills her daughter?

Marriage is not by force O! This is how it starts and you later read in the news that an abusive husband killed his wife.

Her mother was well in order calling it off.

stuffs2002:
That was just the excuse the mother needed

The mother never liked the guy from the onset and likely the guy is not rich enough for the mother.

Very likely a single mother who raised her kid alone and is generally bitter at men

Her mother did well in calling off the engagement. The saying 'love is blind' is very true. Her daughter may not see the sign of a verbally abusive husband because she is blinded by love, but a third part, that is her mother, saw it and did right by calling it off. A broken courtship is better than a broken marriage, and worse if it leads to early death.

A word is enough for the wise.