amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation

brotherly i tell the truth,for over five years haven been in Nairaland i just registered now just to advise you on this issue...have been a nairaland fan but just come and read only...to the main thing..brother mi, am married for 3 years and some month, i may not have stayed long in marriage to advise you but plz take something out of this i want to tell you.. have seen you r the type that values family. same with me. if and when you go ahead with this marriage and She continues with this attitude you mention ,brotherly you'll just be looking at yourself going down....you know what is good and bad..some people will tell you that u r allowing your family too much into ur matter..chaii na lie..as u rightly said 400k from 280k the different na person salary and she want you to waste it to please her , my brother that kind of person will not make you add or gain but only loss and loss and loss...i leave you with this, tackle this now you have the chance cos if u enter hmmm, maybe you are the type that believes in till death do us path...brother that death will do u path early if the right thing is not done. in my own suggestion are

1. if possible call her meeting with her own family and see if she can say what her angry is for. if she doesn't say anything meaningful as many has said in this tread ur marry will hit the rock

2.pray very well over this ..when i mean pray , i don't mean go to papa or mama in church ..i mean on ur knees and pray cos na u go leave with her not them.

3. do not think that people you look at you less if this marriage do not get to complete cos ur life and family should be the priority here not what people think.

good luck brother