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i am telling you !!! do you know that they still called me to ask when i will be coming to know the way forward...as in ? i had to ask them what the way forward was ... to collect more money ? thats when i decided i will fight the spirit of desperation. cos when you are, we tend to be blinded and numb to so many questions and give room to extortion. i am currently doing my fertility massage and local herbs. i have also done water fasting as i heard it helps too . i know i will have my babies... i have left it to God ... and i keep asking Him what He will do about my having a baby? he can't leave me like this na ...Loisemm: |
i honestly don't understand either, i don't even understand how when they found the embryos were dead, why they didn't just speak up and stop the whole process, i also do not understand why they will leave me to progesterones for the whole time, , now how did i find out ? my brother inlaw who also happens to be a gyn, linked us up with the clinic, so we began treatment in january. now after the first one failed, i was encouraged to do the second transfer in April, since i still had 3 more left. now they said they had to thaw them and select the gd ones for transfer , and so they had to discard the third one cos " it was not Good" as they couldn't freeze it back again. well after all said and done, the second transfer failed , and my brother inlaw who was a close colleague of the ceo of the clinic ,decided to ask the doctor who did the transfer, who then told him it failed cos their fal.tube is blocked (how is that even possible when i don't have hydrosalpinx), my brother inlaw won't take this, and they now said their cervix OS had a slight curve penetrating the uterus. my brother inlaw won't take any of this , he decided to talk to his colleague , who now interrogated the doctors himself . and thats where they actually owned up , that the embryos were not actually viable, meaning there was nothing there in the first place .so my guess is that either they transferred a non viable sets of embryos or they just acted like they injected something .... i honestly do not know nor understand, all i know is that i have refused to think about it, I'm not going back there nor any hospital for that matter. i will just focus on God . Loisemm: |
Ok, beautiful mamas , i have been listening to Dr. Charles Stanley of In Touch ministries on You tube ... he has a lot to say/ share .... concerning trusting all to Jesus. listening to him has really helped lighten my emotions and has also given me a reason to stay strong in God cos right now thats all i need , especially when i am lonely and start thinking of my unborn kids .. if you can , please listen to his " when things seem Impossible" that message is such a blessing . |
its bridge clinic o ! infact i told hubby that we need to sue them, he said we just leave them jeje, that they will never smell us again... these people will look at you in the eye and have u open your legs for nothing , only to inject abi transfer nothing ... i cried o .. when i found out they transferred nothing abi they knew they were transferring dead embryos.... imagine waiting for two wks for nothing .. two consecutive times ... and i was beginning to think there was a something killing the children them . mommatriplets: |
a very Big AMEN!!! Hannaspirit: |
thank you so much sis, i appreciate , God bless us all with BFP as we keep faith and trust in Him mumredeemer: |
ttc can be very tiresome and can take the best part of you, but lets just occupy our self with songs and Word of God ... thats what has been helping my sanity since 2014 . ttc can make one desperate. cos we want it now now , lets just do what we can , and wait on God ... His way is SUREST!!! . there were times i got tired of praying, there are times all i see are pregnant women, new born children, and then those that will carry for 9 months and then throw away... and i know how emotional i get. but the Word of God says ... BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD ... He is still God and He takes care of His Own ...making all things beautiful in His Own time... God knows our biological calendar , and He is a lovely loving God ... He will bless us all... anytime we use any drug ... be it herbs , vitamins , tampons, enzyme, tea , procedures ... as long as its in tune with God , lets pray and connect that thing ; what ever it is with God ... God is too just not to honour His word in our lives . while i was studying some days back, i came across these words " God allows us go through stuff ( like ttc) as part of His judgement , but He also uses it for our redemption as to shape our character and build up our faith" ... the truth is there were times i didn't pray ( i will just deceive my self and everyone that i was praying), i just refused a relationship with Him ... i just expected Him to know He created me, gave me husband ... he should take care of the rest. yet when i was asked , i was quick to say i was praying and even well well ... i was wasting my own time. i am happy now ... i am kneeling and praying to God by my ownself . and His words are true , i have asked him truthfully ... and i know He will answer me . He knows my age ( History). i will only be happy and i have refused to be desperate as it hasn't helped me but push me to different hospital and drinking all sorts, it won't help me now. i can only be patient and wait for God who created me . God will do it my sisters, lets just key in and listen to what He is telling us . praying for all of us ... we must testify ..the delay is enough . lets in truthful worship remind God of His promises . He is not a man that he will change nor lie . |
Zino89:thats a bfp na , try again first thing tomorrow money ... congrats ... please come and share what you did differently o . |
hello beautiful mamas. lets all be of good courage . i have tried all sorts , from vitamins , to hsg , hydrotubation, dilation( as the mumu doctors said their father's cervix was closed), 2x Ivf ... ( the ivf story ehn... we just found out that no embryo was transfered so i was just busy shacking progesterone and all the gbogbo drugs ), currently, local herbs and massage. I have come to realise that every hospital will try to extort from you ... so they will be ready to tell you whatever just to get the money from you simply because you walked into their hospital. that is how some hospital said i should come and do laparascopy . Anyway, last last , i have come to accept that its only God that can help me o... i am currently on appointment with Dr.Jesus ...and I'm very expectant of `his miracle. if you have never challenged Him, lets do so today . only Jesus can help us conceive ... only Jesus can say yes to Ivf procedure , only Him can say yes to local herb or tampon... lets involve Jesus ... i will keep updating . just to feel sane ( no body around me here understands) |
Hello everyone, I have been reading up the threads, and I must say... I have learnt a lot within minutes... I would like to start producing my local fish feed, and I need help, of where to get the ingredients in Lagos, and also I would really appreciate a complete guide and Formular for local fish feed... thanks alot |
Good day all, pls when is the normal period to do hormonal profile with irregular cycle. The 2 hospitals that I have been, does their own only once and they said its the same thing. Meanwhile, when I did it outside, the result was not the same. My cycle has not been regular n no ovulation signs except when I track. I've taken vitex, duphaston, mt2 tone, pregnacare conception n its still the same irregular cycle. Pls I will appreciate ur responses. Thanks @MarJuly, I am no professional... But I will suggest you take fertile aid... I Have read testimonies of people getting back their regular cycle and getting their Bfp with the help of fertile aid... You can also get fertile aid and fertile cm... I believe in God, but these two are gd... I will also suggest you see a a gyn. It's best u see one then he will tell u what to do. |
]Hi everyone!! Am new on nairaland. I have been member on babycenter but felt being with my own people will be better. Am 35 n I have been TTC for many years. Got married June last year. I did hsg in 2012, d rslt was ashermans n bilateral adhesion. But presently am on cd6, will be going for another hsg on Monday. I have been on serrapeptase1200 for 3months, doing castor oil n fertility massage with some herbs from mum. Planning on taking maca n royal jelly after hsg or should I take fertilaid n ovaboost? Please kindly give any advise u feel will be beneficial to me. Sorry for the long post. Baby dust to us all @adufe48, I pray to God to bring you healing in Jesus name... Amen. I am no professional, but I think since u have been on the natural way of getting rid of pelvic adhesions... You should just do the Hsg test, and see the results first. The result will determine what next you should do or take... |
Plus forgive all these my error, I can't seem to understand this naira land settings... I am sure I will soon enough |
@Cionon, I was scheduled for a HT test and the before the doctor even started he just said that thecervix was blocked and not Iin the right position. So he did what he did , he injected me to deaden my pelvic . I am not sure what he did or how he went about it. But he said I was ok ... and that had been the cause of infertility ... I had gone for the I jaw masseurs and they told me that me in their own words "the place where sperm Suppose enter Don go back " I didn't get it at first ... I even googled and thought they meant I had a retroverted uterus... so when the doctor told me that my cervix Was blocked and not at the right position ... I just told him to repositioned the thing... but after the injection we are out... na serious menstrual pain times 100 |
@mumihaja, thanks a lot . I have done that. Hello everyone |
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Hello everyone! dkayThis is day 2 . since my cervix Was repositioned , and I am so glad to say that l finally Saw the long awaited Egg White Cervical Mucus!!! I am so excited.!! |
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Still trying to get a hip of how this Naira land works... Please forgive all the postal errors abeg |
@Dasha01, yes he did place me on an antibiotics... To be inserted at night to prevent bacteria. I am not on ibruprofen... Still on metformin... Is it possible the cervical will block again? I just pray God takes all these away... And give me a Bfp soonest.... All these treatments and their pains ehn... It's really weakening |
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Gd morning everyone, I am quite new here, pls I would like to know if anyone has ever been diagnosed with cervix stenosis, that is where your cervix is blocked... I just did this test yesterday, as a matter of fact I was to do a HT, (hydrotubation) but my doctor didn't even get up to the tubes when he realised that the cervix was completely blocked and there was no way sperm could get in, not to talk of swim sef... God so good, he did the dilation and conformed it opened. I never used to have EWCM... Non at all! He put me on metformin and clomiphene last week,and I hope I ovulate soon too and have EWCM! I am just wondering if I will still ovulate after this procedure, cos the pain was beyond this earth... Meanwhile I had done an Hsg o! And those ppl said one of my fallopian tubes didn't show... Meanwhile the doc tried yesterday and said there was nothing wrong, that they simply didn't use enough dye. I can't just wait for EWCM! Keeping my fingers crossed and praying to God... Baby dust to y'all |
? i had to ask them what the way forward was ... to collect more money ? thats when i decided i will fight the spirit of desperation. cos when you are, we tend to be blinded and numb to so many questions and give room to extortion. i am currently doing my fertility massage and local herbs. i have also done water fasting as i heard it helps too . i know i will have my babies... i have left it to God ... and i keep asking Him what He will do about my having a baby? he can't leave me like this na ...
but after the injection we are out... na serious menstrual pain times 100
. I have done that. Hello everyone