₦airaland Forum

pussyphilia:
This is what I want to confirm from the ladies themselves, but as usual, you who is a guy has assumed the position of the mouthpiece of ladies! You guys like to make up a lot things and claim ladies don't like this or that just to fit into whom you think ladies are! Why not allow real ladies to speak for themselves!

You think the ladies will tell you the truth? It's clear you don't know women...They will tell you it's sweet but in their mind,they will call you mumu.

The worst set of feminists are Nigerian feminists.A gal that can't even afford her sanitary pad by herself will be claiming feminist. Very delusional set of people. Now,men are seeing them for what they truly are.e don over them.

Akamon:
The word of God and the owner of marriage institution says "Deep calleth unto Deep". What you are not, you can not attract, that is the law of resonance.
Searching outside what you can not offer, you can't find.
Live right you will find the right person.

you never really understand life sha. Real life no send this law you dey talk about. Trust me,life is deeper than you think.

kpankpangolo:
Women cheat on everybody.

you are correct...there is no man that a woman can not cheat on. If you like carry horn like demon,woman go still cheat on you.

No start wetin you no fit finish oooo....in fact e Better make dem dey call you wicked person for this life

mosicola:
Before now, I was a great supporter of tinubu. But for taxing babes wey we dey use cure conji I off my hands. That means per nyuu that we pay 2k is likely to rise to 5k after tax and deduction.

where you dey see 2k own...Omo i shock when dem knack me 4k for here. This thing no funny again ooo

Tjra:
You must be a very boring person.

Learn to chill biko

Truth is always boring to people like you. You prefer dwelling on illusions.

UnknownQueen:
Come and take my husband, he has hepatitis..
I don't have any need of him again...
I'm not joking....
I can give you his contact......

wonder shall never end. When you think you have seen it all then boom 💥💥💥💥

Kindered:
he can't masturbate in public but the bandits can display their weapons in the presence of dss after killing hundreds? Una go get sence soon

Thanks for this bros.

ajalawole:
So what was his offence please.. Is that not better then rape.

You are one of the few persons thinking clearly here.

omoadeleye:
Omo. We just jama jams


That's what we do 24 to 7 is jama jama

What is jama jama?

Dem no count Nigeria own well...there is rigging here. Nigeria suppose be number 1 on the list

Marriage is like a cult. People inside will hardly tell you the truth about it. So expect many to lie about their experiences.

christopher123:
Why can't she on her own be successful must she wait for the man to be successful and contemplate leaving her

Why can't these women be ambitious

Very unambitious set of people. A full grown adult will be depending on another adult for survival,which kind thing be that?

Kobojunkie:
And in your mind, the market survey the man did left him dependent solely on Nigerians buying his products, right?... Like I said before, you matter don tire person completely! 🥱🥱🥱

finally you no dey understand English,go sleep. You no get talk. You don't know the meaning of Primary market. Does that mean the only market? Dangote refinery is even too far to be compared with prostitution. Who leaves one country to the other just because he wants to get olosho service. Yeye dey compare dangote refinery and hookup. Go and sleep

Kobojunkie:
So, clearly, this "men's lack of awareness" has indeed also contributed to women no longer seeking validation from men, as pointed out? And you were ranting about feminists like a crazy loonie, why? I mean, none of what I listed there had anything to do with feminism, and you did submit that these things are facts of reality in today's world.

2. Are you OK? Is that like saying the Dangote Refinery, which sells gasoline to Nigerians, is dependent on Nigerians? Don't you see how dumb that sounds?

3. Why should they do that when they can get easier money by having those men who work harder elsewhere as their customers to buy their own products? I don't understand the way you lot reason at all. It should not matter whether prostitution spans 10 years or however long, as what should matter is that it is a way for many men and women to make money.

4. This is a country where even teenage boys have been reported to rape old grandmothers just to get their egos replenished? Are you sure you are OK at all?

... look, these immature responses of yours are getting really irritating. Here is a link to a man on tiktok better explain the problem for you, if you will.
https://www.tiktok.com/video/7521878433660439838

I dey tire for your matter kobo. So you are not aware that before dangote sited his refinery in Nigeria,he carried out a market survey and the primary market is the Nigerian market. Why site a business where you don't depend on the consumers from that place. What's the rationale behind such move?

Teenage boys rape grand mothers?I am not aware of such. So young fresh man go leave fresh kpekus go dey dey chase grand mother?

Women should completely do away with men if they don't really need them. They should go offer services that men alone would not be their source of demand.

The feminism i kept mentioning is the current reality on ground. It's what most of our modern women here now claim to identify with. It has nothing to do with what you are saying.

No worry,when men fully understand this game women are playing,women would go their way and men would go their way let's see who suffers. Thanks to technology, women's replacement will soon be every where and I will gladly order mine.

Not even society can pressure me to get married. I have no need for it and I am not the type that begs anybody for validation.

Kobojunkie:
This clearly reads like a response from a seriously unhinged mind. 😣😣😣

You clearly have not been paying attention to
➜the trend of many more Nigerian women turning to hooking— selling that body you feel needs your validation — rather than waiting around for a man to save them?
➜ the trend around the world and even in Nigeria, where more women are choosing to delay the need for marriage, opting to have babies outside of it, where possible.
➜ the rise in women opting for multiple partners rather than clinging to just one?
➜ women in marriage, cheating at pretty much the same rate as the men they are married to?

Which of the above screams need for validation from these women or feminism, which your rant seems to go on and on about? 🥱🥱🥱

everything you stated is caused by men's lack of awareness. They are becoming more aware now and are learning the game better . The hookup you mentioned still comes down to women being dependent on men for survival.why can't they go work in the industry and make money like men do?How long are you gonna keep selling your body to men? Prostitution is a career that has short span. In a country where the purchasing power is extremely low, coupled with more supply of hookup gals against lower demand of service from men. No be man when don chop belleful go dey find hookup babe,lol.
Be deceiving yourself that women are delaying marriage.you are definitely day-dreaming. Men are losing interest in marriage that's why women are no longer getting married like before. Men are the gate keepers of commitment while women are gatekeepers of sex. I have turned down couple of gals that want me to marry them cos I'm not interested in marriage.
Women are cheating in marriage cos their men allowed them to. That's down to the lack of awareness I talked about before and that's what this thread is about. A cheating wife should be sent back to the street where she belongs.

Kobojunkie:
Because your mothers are not to be seen as humans deserving of the same freedoms that women today have and boast of, abi? Because your mothers deserved the suffering and diminishing of their worth as humans for the sake of marriage, right?

Funny thing is that the women you love to hate today were raised by those grandmothers and mothers whom you thought should not be seen or heard. Yes, those same mothers and grandmothers raised their daughters to demand that their voices be heard and they be seen. Those women of old dreamed of this freedom, which they then instilled in their daughters to strive for. Now, when you rail against the women of today, you are actually railing against your mothers and grandmothers who raised them to be this way.

The same way you did not take the pains of your mothers and grandmother's seriously is the same way you think these current women should not be taken seriously, and that is OK because they no longer seek validation or their worth from you lot.

In your dreams,they no longer seek validation from us. Women need us more than we need them.They derive their worth from getting married to men.They get respect by answering 'Mrs' .The world is changing alot and very soon they will be replaced by humanoid robots. The worst set of women are these Nigerian feminist women. Someone that can't even feed herself will be claiming feminist. Is that not delusional? The western women they are copying feminism from are financially independent,then you will be in Nigeria and be claiming feminist. I'm glad men are now seeing them for what they truly are and these women would regret everything in the end.

Adaumunocha:
Toh naso we see am

very soon na holy book go tell you the sex style to do with your husband. Una matter ehhhh

Kobojunkie:
I already made clear that the ones I blame the most for this are mothers who raise sons who are completely removed from the realities of life and the rights of a woman in marriage.

It is indeed a sad thing to see a son claim his own mother has no right to claim the success of her husband as her own in marriage. It really makes you wonder if this son ever really saw his own mother as a human being at any point growing up. It shakes one to the bone to see a son literally declaring his mother was merely a slave who suffered needlessly in marriage with nothing(not even a share in the success of the man she slaved for) to show for it. 😩😩😩

Never compare our mothers to this lazy, entitled, feminist women. These new generation of women don deserve marriage. Na baby mama fit all of them. They don't deserve to be taken seriously.

Una still dey marry? The ones when marry dey run come out,single people say them want marry.una never see anything. Every day I dey thank God say I no succumb to people pressure to get married. By now I for dey cry alone with my problems.omo,I don dodge nonsense.

Adaumunocha:
Not for we with husband. The flesh has to be serviced like the Lord commanded in his holy book.

lol,so na holy book make you dey knack your husband. Why are we just too religious?

LeeSmart:
White people go knack anyhow and still achieve their goals and be more developed but when e reach Africa/Nigeria dem go tell us say e dey hinder/destroy destiny. Na who do us this thing?

My brother, Africans no dey use their head right from time...e easy to deceive them.

DelilahMakinde:
All man and woman want to see the inside of that secret cult called marriage. Then after they start asking for the fastest way back outside...

nothing dey inside marriage. It takes mvmvness from a man to get married to all these modern women.

Esthered:
Do you have sisters, aunt's, does your assertion apply to them?

even if he has sisters and aunts, should that in anyway stop him from saying the truth. Men are now facing reality... You women should bring value. It's no longer business as usual

Kobojunkie:
This is really straightforward. Your wife is not a source of free labor. She, too, has to eat of the dividends of the marriage, and in many cases(for people in the lower brackets), it is the husband's salary from which she deserves a share each month.

if anybody is owing me 4k and gifts me 100k,shame will not allow me to ask for my 4k again. If he remembers to pay,then it's fine. If he doesn't,I will write off the debt automatically. I don't know how you guys reason here

Kobojunkie:
The one insisting that a woman who gets money due her, referred in this case as pocket money, should not expect a loan owed her to be paid back is clearly the one who probably has a couple of loose nuts somewhere. 🙄🙄

If your Oga borrowed Naira 4000 from you, do you write off the loan amount because he has handed you your salary/pay at the end of that month?

so is the husband paying his wife salary? How does that relate?

MemoriesAndMe:
No mind them.
The same person posting this has a perfect CV and still makes his income charging people to help them with their resume. His resume should have landed him a better job than trolling everyone online to come to him. 50 spots left my foot.

your head correct. Imagine someone hawking a book titled "how to become a millionaire". Why him no read the book when e dey sell and turn to millionaire?

Cocolatti:
Your contacts and connections is the best CV you can have in Nigeria

people are getting jobs they did not apply for in this country. No be by cv.