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timilehing: Trying number 1 can get u a big slap if u're not careful

That's if you to it to any random girl

Nobleval: And what of the other way round?

Watch out for part 2

Naavah: Very true.....see y I still like my ex. Lol

He has these qualities and yet he's your ex?

NinoBrown888: Just viewed your DP,,,
Uhm,,,, your hair is beauriful...

missberrypop5: Thanks.

See? Its working already!

nneh1: This is so true bcs I go crazy over a guy that does any of these but unfortunately they don't.

Yeah, that's why I need to let them know why they should

3cycle: I don't like compliments especially one that has to do with my clothes or jewelleries.

I may never have to use them again if you compliment them. Sounds weird but that's me

That's very weird

vizkiz: if you do these with my girl, she will just keep looking @ you like this

Are you sure she's your girl?

1. Unexpected Hug From Behind
A hug from behind says you wanted to be close to her so badly that you couldn't even wait for her to turn around. Especially when it's a surprise, it's a great way to show you care. Make sure it's your girlfriend though, random girls aren't as enthused with surprise hugs.


2. Giving Precise Compliments
Rather than saying "you look pretty" (actually, you should say that too) compliment her on a specific piece of jewelry, or the way her hair looks, or the color of her dress. It's more authentic than a blanket compliment. Compliment her often but not so much that it becomes insincere.


3. Walk Between Her and The Street
it's nice to let her know you care about her. Don't demand it, but when walking on the sidewalk subtly staying between her and traffic is incredibly sweet.


4. Put Your Arm Around her and rub her arm
A persons arm might be the most platonic place on the body, which is why it's such a cute spot to rub. It says I care about you so much I just want to touch you


5. Hand on her back as you walk in a crowd
Not in a forceful or territorial way, but more to asure that she's still there next to you. It also shows how proud you are to be with her.


6. Bring up details from Past conversations
Girls know they drone on sometimes, but it's the boyfriend's duty to listen. Let her know you've been listening by casually bringing up things she's mentioned in past conversations. In fact this one can be applied to all your friends, not just that special someone.

7. Say thank you even after small things
When she wakes you up in the morning so you're not late, when she hands you a towel as you get out of the shower, when she makes the meal she knows you like. Also make eye contact with her as you say it, she'll love it.

But if you've tried absolutely everything, including telling your crush how you feel but to no success?

Better find your level and let go because staying friends with someone who isn't romantically interested in you when you have strong feelings for them is going to begin to mess with your mind after a while.

1. Remove your Shoulder
The reason you're probably in the friend zone to begin with, is because you've always been the
shoulder for your crush to cry on.


2. Stepping It Up
Flirting may not seem like a new option to you, but if you're still in the friend zone then you're obviously not flirting effectively. Perhaps you're being too subtle, and he or she isn't even
noticing your advances. Or maybe your flirting comes across more as "just two friends goofing around". Either way, it's time to step it up a level.


3. Get Physical
It's time to introduce subtle touch as a flirtation method! It might sound a little scary, but physical touch is actually the most effective method of flirting.


4. Sample Dates
The benefit of being in the friend zone, as opposed to barely being acquainted with your crush at all, is that you can hang out with them one-on-one without it being weird. Use these hang-outs to do date-like activities, and you'll reintroduce the idea of a relationship to them.


5. Breaking The Stereotype
Chances are that you're being super nice and over-the-top sweet to your love interest, correct? Many guys or girls who end up in the friend zone fit into the stereotypical "nice guy / girl" category. While there's nothing wrong with being nice, the problem is that you most likely don't voice your opinions or say 'no' when you want


6. Favour Time
If you've been friend zoned, it's probably because you're the one who will always do anything they ask you to do. But do you ever ask them to help you out too? Chances are you don't in fear of them getting annoyed, but if you want them to value you as more than a friend, they're going to have to invest in the relationship too!


7. Healthy Competition
A little healthy competition has never been bad for anyone! If someone feels as though they could lose something, it all of a sudden becomes more precious to them. You probably make your crush a priority, but they've friend zoned you and made you an option.


8. Absence
You know the saying, "absence makes the heart grown fonder"! Your crush has got used to you always being there, and as a result, they've begun to take your presence for granted. It's only when we notice some distance between those we're close to that we begin to realize just how much their company means to us.


9. Make Over Time
your crush has probably friend zoned you because they've known you for a long time and they've become very used to who you are as a person. As a result, you may no longer seem exciting to them. So buy cool and great clothes in order to make yourself more attractive to your crush! Instead


10. Being Too Needy
Whether your crush is a guy or a girl, one thing is for certain. Nobody likes a needy person, whether they're your boyfriend / girlfriend or not! Neediness is the ultimate turn-off, and this could very well be a reason why you've been sentenced to the friend zone.


11. Just Say It
So you're stuck in the friend zone and you don't know why? Perhaps it's because your crush doesn't know you actually like them more than a friend! It might sounds scary, but one of the most important things you can do to escape the friend zone is just tell your crush how you feel in the hope that they feel the same way back.



But if you've tried absolutely everything,
including telling your crush how you feel but to
no success?
Better find your level and let go because staying
friends with someone who isn't romantically
interested in you when you have strong feelings
for them is going to begin to mess with your
mind after a while.

damiosy: Have you confronted him about this? Why bottle it up? Its called a relationship for a reason,its a 2 way street give and take don't be hasty and jump into conclusion he is not a mind reader tell him about it, what's the point when he doesn't even know the reason for your actions

Most sensible post I've read so far.

1. Cameron Diaz
[img]http://s.likes-media.com/img/cc0401b96491f1ae191c0abd6eeeceb6.600x[/img]
Girl next door, Cameron Diaz, once did porn to give her career a jump start. Looks like it worked.



2. Marilyn Munroe
[img]http://s.likes-media.com/img/87ce08b502c42d92c4242f02a86fe337.600x[/img]
Marilyn Monroe was a sex symbol in the 1950's and her candle never died. Even today, women try to emulate the beautiful actress, but hopefully they don't do porn like she did.



3. Sylvester Stallone
[img]http://s.likes-media.com/img/23ac47ea70e31d21c38cf106ad61b567.600x[/img]
The Italian Stallion once took porn for a ride. Back in the day, Sly did what he could to survive and make it in Hollywood.
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4. David Duchovny
[img]http://s.likes-media.com/img/ad45fd82cdc736ecd353f0136f07a714.600x[/img]
Even David Ducovny starred in porn at one time. He dropped his pants and rolled the dice, ending up as an actor in Hollywood.



5. Jackie Chan
[img]http://s.likes-media.com/img/b9779db4b6cc5eda5a81761bfd58b1dc.600x[/img]
Jackie Chan is an action star, action choreographer, martial artist and stunt performer. One of his former stunts was a gig in porn.



6. Arnold Schwarznegger
[img]http://s.likes-media.com/img/ae64484868738ab77308e851f330f809.600x[/img]
The former governor of California and body builder turn actor once did porn. That's one muscle we never really get to see.



7. Matt Leblanc
[img]http://s.likes-media.com/img/92d6b84f6c3ce2186b3d8268a81a587b.600x[/img]
Good old Joey Tribiani in porn? Yep, Friends' star Matt LeBlanc started his career in porn.

Arsenal when they saw fabregas goal.......

destante: A times, your love for some people grows from nothing. So the statement shouldn't be right always i guess.

That'll only happen if it's you but if it's not you, it's not you.

And what's your advice to her?

Nice write-up. Pls continue

That's called the act of MAGA BAITING.

marvelck: @ NnamdiN & emmyw, Its a pity most people only judge a book by its cover without reading the content. You should have atleast read the post before jumping to conclusion. I never said what she did was wrong. Its her life and her money. I'm just wondering why a lot of people are making a lot of noise about it. So, read before you conclude.

Then rephrase the title of your topic

NO DERAILING!!!!

You met her four times? Randomly?
Hmmm, this is indeed hard to believe

If you are really serious about her, then call her but shouldn't you be concerned with the GCE?