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Well I have sent him a message, I said that "im gonna stop all this now, because im tired of feeling like im bothering you all the time'' and he hasnt replied to me. When we were both online he didnt say anything, but then he changed his status to a sad quote and went offline. Any idea why would he be not responding :|?

Yeah I have met him online.
And I know he used to really like me, and I think that he either only likes me a little bit or nothing at all. I have send him a message that I'm gonna stop everything now, because I feel like I'm bothering all the time. I don't know if I did the right thing?

what cookie?

He has never properly asked me to be his girlfriend, but he would call me his girlfriend, his girl and so on.. Also when I had few of his friends adding me on facebook 3 days ago, I asked him why he said that they like to keep in contact with my girl, or something like this. He would also often tell me that I will be his wife then he stopped, but few days ago he brought that up again. Obviously he might be saying this in a jokey way but it makes me happy. And that guy means so much to me, I'm so attached to him, more than most people I know in real life.

So basically I'm really worried he's losing interest in me. We talk for 5 months now, and he changed in a last month. He still replays to me but he goes off and online quite often. We don't talk for that long anymore and he doesn't compliment me or say anything what he used to say anymore. Few days ago he asked me to Skype with him and he said he really missed me. On Skype he was complimenting me all the time and was showing lots of interest, but he went back to what he used to be after a day. I said to him that I feel like he doesn't want to talk to anymore but he said that he does he's just really tired (There is 6 hours difference) So if I have given him a chance to tell me that he doesn't want anything to do with me would he take it if he wouldn't be interested or would he still lie? Is it that he's just getting comfortable with me and just doesn't feel the need of doing all the stuff he did? If he would lose interest would he even still bother replaying to me or would he just stop? And also, should I tell him how much he means to me and that I feel like I'm bothering him all the time?