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henrimoto:
1000 likes for you. You really spoke like a wise person. Thank You for this words.

Your number 1 mistake was telling your fiancée how much you make

Number 2. Mistake letting your wife's family or her pastor to know how much you make

It is none of their business, what happens to praying if you guys are compatible spiritually , when ever questions about your finances is asked, trust me it never goes down well , they have already sized you , they just want a validation and conclusion, never ever fall for it again.

Thirdly, if a women love you well enough, they would go extra miles with you regardless of your financial status , they will fight for you , believe in you and be willing to endure with you. Don't let any alpha male tell you otherwise , i'm so experienced in this matter of relationship and love. Until you find that person, don't cry over who no fit cry over you as @ Bluntguy state above.

Fourthly, love is a reflex action and the heart wants what it wants, don't force anybody to spend the rest of their life with you, there are many ladies that loves you that you are also not willing to give a chance in your life, they didn't report you on nairaland. You have your own reservation why you don't want them and that is perfectly fine, because the heart want what it wants. So move on and start a new life with someone that will value you and bring out the best in you, marriage is too boring than attempting to spend it with someone who doesn't truly love you. You don't want to wake up to words like "And I didn't want to marry you o" It will run you crazy bro. You will beg for a rebirth and it will be too late.

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

So recently I've been thinking about marriage. Tho I'm in a relationship but the woman I've been dating doesn't really seem to have the same serious interest and intentions like me. I've talked to her severally but it seems she isn't ready to settle down yet. Imagine this is someone whom I've gone to see her people and they know me well. My own people know her too. I've equally talked to her mom since she's the one parent she has . And had also talked to her best friend about it too.

But one thing I've noticed about her is that she's over religious and seems to be too close to her pastor. The last time I talked to her about the marriage stuff,she directed me to go and talk to her pastor. Tho I was initially furious about it but I just had to man up,kill my pride and decided to pay her pastor a visit.

From the conversation I had with her pastor,it seems he's one of the major stumbling blocks. Because he was only curious about my financial status he was even asking me what was my source of livelihood,and of which I told him. Afterwards,he then asked me what was my monthly salary. Saying if I'm sure I can take care of my fiancee with that amount,or if I'm planning to have a side hustle. That he doesn't want a case where any of her spiritual daughter will go into a marriage where she'll be suffering. I told her categorically clear that I'm not a lazy man and I don't intend to put anyone's daughter into suffering in the name of marriage.

It's been over a week since I left the pastor's office, and since then,my fiancee has been behaving so cold towards me.

So I don't know whether to continue with my proposal or I should just kindly look for another lady to marry.

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The only problem i have right now is a credible competitor , lets gather retire this old man wey call him self jagaban .

You can't list the banks like 1,2,3

Its hard to comprehend this... USA is one creepy country

and money did we make out it

chinchum:
The last time Uk invited any Nigerian leader for a state visit was 1989.

Maybe you should join Islam just to experience, then you will understand. The brain washing its far from what you think, only divine intervention can change your mind, they make it soo real. Dont argue until you experience it.

mayor1814:
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How will someone believe that u are promised 72 babes by killing innocent people who are not ur religion... Very very delusional... One of the reasons to know fully well something is wrong somewhere

its like you don't understand this crazy people, even if it is one last irannian that is remaining with one bomb and no machine to fire it, he would do suicide bombing.... the brainwashing in islam is just too much. I was once a muslim. You can't imagine being promised 72 virgins, if you believed it, think about what you can do

prinsam30:
Make these people just give up, U can't fight person wey don pass u, and he has proven it to U countless times make Una rest abeg

So you think the Muslims are afraid of death, you think so? you think suicide bombers are afraid of death. So you think you are the same with someone that is promised 70 virgins

DeepSight:
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No one will use a nuclear weapon because they know for sure there will be equal retaliation with nuclear weapons.
At least no state actor would.

Okay sir, but tell me one Islam nation with nuclear weapon, would you trust this people that claimed girl child shouldn't go to school (this is no jokes it is happening) Would you trust a country that killed all protesters agitating for their simple human right in Iran (this one happened just very recently.

The massive bombing that happened in Maiduguri this week , do you think if the Muslim network have nuclear weapon they wouldn't rather use it on the northern part of Nigeria instead of killing them small small?. Some Muslim would argue that they are not a real Muslim but they are not a Christian at all !!!!!.

A country that shots bomb at neighboring country's residential area just to get back at USA and Israel (is that the country you want to allow to have nuclear weapon?). If Iran has nuclear weapons, they would have used it sinceeeeee. At least other countries use it to guide but these Islamist are real psyco bro!!. Believe me, I was a Muslim, a devoted one and I can assure you something is not right with that religion. I'm glad I left but even while I was there something in my subconscious always revote the religion . I'm from a Muslim home and believe me till today I can't still tell my own family that I'm now a full Christian, trust me bro they could kill me or outcast me.

zomby:
You might have a valid argument, but it's essential to consider the opposing viewpoint; why is it acceptable for some nations to possess nuclear weapons while others cannot?
The same way Nigeria aims to be the leader of Africa, Iran should also be allowed to aspire for a similar position in the Middle East. Every nation desires recognition as a leader; no one wishes to be seen as inferior.

Nigeria could be American ally just like Israel. Libia president ruled for over 40 years, I have nothing to say about that one. Gadafy wasn't really a saint. Muslims are just who they are, American's have left them since how many years, they should get their self together and rebuild, maybe America just unleash the worse that was already in them.

As for Iran , we can't run a world where we don't have a leader. USA told you to stop the nuclear weapon , i see no reason why you can't come out clean on this , hold press conference to show the world you are clean and willing to be friends with any western country just like UAE. Do business and let peace rain . But no , they just want to revenge.

Honestey:
Mention just one county that after America invaded them in the name of changing a bad regime that country ever balance again. Google how was Lybia before America invasion and how is it now? If America forcefully invade Nigeria today, what will happen after will make you see Tinubu as angel I bet you.

this is the country you are defending... that you wrote all these epistle for : https://www.nairaland.com/8636668/dont-shoot-boko-haram-only

Kemetian:
THE ONLY REASON YOU CAN READ AND WRITE IS BECAUSE OF INDEPENDENCE IN 1960.

KNOW YOUR HISTORY.

And the history of the whites you worship.

NIGERIA WAS A BIG FAT BUSH WITH 5% LITERACY RATE IN 1960, DESPITE 80 YEARS OF BRITISH RULE AND EXPORT OF OUR NATURAL RESOURCES.....SO WHY ARE YOU CALLING FOR A CORRUPT CROOK AND CRIMINAL CONVICT LIKE TRUMP TO COME AND RULE YOU? YOU NO GET SENSE?

In 65 yrs of independence, literacy rate has risen to 76% despite the population increasing five-fold since 1960.

I REPEAT: The only reason YOU can read and write is because BLACK PEOPLE came to power in NIGERIA in 1960 and built thousands of public schools where previously there were just a handful of wretched ''missionary schools'' for a select few local elite.

Otherwise, you'd be an illiterate village peasant carrying firewood on your head right now, okay?

I don't know what's happening in cuba, but definitely not something good. Just like Nigeria, so if Trump decide to take over Nigeria , take our oil and build roads and electricity for us, will you say No? be honest ..... the people running it since 1960 to what advantage has it been to you? be honest ...

Please don't reply with abuse, I'm not fighting with you, I just want you to be honest.

EKOMADENG:
What how supporters of dumb trump gives him credit for this satanic statement.

unfortunately, Iranians don't surrender, even if it remains 1 Iranian soldier and one bomb left, these terrorist will continue fighting. Its a sad situation. Its hard to know when to claim victory in this kind of war, these people are built differently, the worse case scenario even when they don't have bombs left , they will go into suicide bombing, and they are all over the world, they have not just activated that part of their mission.

Nword22:
Terrorist Iran..we will never allow an Islamic republic to have a nuclear weapon.

We will hit Iran so hard till they surrender.

God bless Israel and the United States

I don't really think we can have world war again

With the effect of A.I taking over jobs in even developed countries ..... I don't think so

Bro you didn't calm down

sleek214:
Why are you telling the father. Tell the son and the son will tell his father. "Educated, young, beautiful and fresh" girl without brains Agbaka

I don't even see the possibility that it can land on usa soil

heniford2:
🫣🤣🤣 if Iran send something like that and it touch USA under trump 😂 trump will wrap Iran from physical earth like the damage will be a childs play to Gaza own

Honestly if you are a father, you will know how sad this feels. I love my son soo much and I can't picture him like this

So, this Man can't fix electricity, can't fix refinery , can't fix Job , can't fix insecurity. So what has he done for God sake

you don't understand business , you have your own company , keep all the shares to yourself so that you won't grow

elitper:
Na Senegal or Ghana go buy dis country laslas.

Tinubu failed, its just as simple as that, and i've already lost hope in this country.

its not only car that fuel is used for? everything prices goes up when fuel price goes up

insidelife22:
Let it reach 5 thousand
We are tired of losing our girlfriends to men who has cars.

I've looking for words to explain this, thank you o....

TallNigerian:
Fucking hypocrites. Are you just knowing there is terrorism in Nigeria? Are you not the world's leading state sponsor of terrorism?

Nigeria is worse, if you don't believe in the statistic , travel to Jos by road from lagos three times in a month, I want to see if you won't run out of luck.

LegitGirl:
Nigeria isn't as bad as we exaggerate.

This nation is still working in many ways.

These people are already claiming a part of this country while these politicians are still playing politics with our lives

make she sha get tangible evidence

Terrorist no dey tire, kill one another 10 will resurface.

He pardoned everybody in that capitol riot; this guys just happened to have another case alongside and the pardon covered everything

If the man you are supporting is so innocent , how come he ruled for about 40 years. You wrote all these epistles just to support a terrorist

HacheNoire:
Stop peddling false information’s!

He has NEVER been in a bunker!


He rejected offers of being in a bunker when his people won’t have a bunker.

The man is a disabled 86 year old battling with cancer. A Persian for that matter.

Iranian government official said he always rejected the idea of being in a bunker. Asking where Iranians would be if he goes to the bunker.

The fake European Jews just trying to be what they not. Something like “wannabe’s”

If they so good, why did they have to lure the US? They would have taken it upon the self and bare the wrath!

Toy soldiers! They make the loudest noise!

If USA could spot where iran president is from their country and killed him , how come Nigeria can't find Kidnappers within the country?

it's unnecessary to provoke people intentionally, I'm Yoruba and I respect other people tribe and whoever they chose to idolize. By the way this topic has nothing to do with Nnamdi Kanu, therefore it's unnecessary to mock him, you don't know his story, I'm not a fan of kanu but he has suffered enough from the government and doesn't deserve mockery by any individual.

Suen you need to design an A.I system that vet users like this and report them to your management , let human take the decision on what to do about people like this not A.I, but the A.I should be able to report hundreds of users like this , so that you can send them warnings before taking a decision.

omenka:
Nobody offered you any asylum, baby Nnamdi Kanu.

which country is Suriname again... its time to start my own country o