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ecoeco:
After having premarital sex u ar going to do spiritual check up in church

My nigga visit the nearest shrine abeg
D god u serve is waiting for u there


#Eco99#

It's okay to criticize me, insult me and make yourself feel like a saint. Thanks for your advice.

Hi guys, I'm not new on NL.. I'm part of the family just under a different name. I'm trying to me very' anonymous.
No long story I promise

My relationship is almost 2 years old and it has been wonderful. I deflowered my babe and have shared a lot of wisdom with her that has helped her become a better person. She's young and very successful in her field as I am in mine; 2 cars and a few projects all to the glory of God.

NOW THE PROBLEM: She's so serious about marriage and I am not. I'm one of those guys out there that wants to get married when successful and not struggling with finances plus I'm not even sure if she's the one for me. She has temper Wahala that affects every thing spiritually and physically. Small vex like this, I can go broke for months without seeing 1 naira. I'm told to just do whatever to please her and make her feel happpy but I'm not the kind that pretend and fake it, that's not love.

Well, the Wahala now is, I've been going through a lot recently no money, every business deal crashes for whatever reason, family and self responsibilities are piling up and Things are not going well at all and now I'm thinking of selling properties. I went to do 'spiritual check up' at a church and I was told that she's the one that's upset with me because I've not made any move on marriage. Haha.. My girl friend is mad and crashing everything we worked and prayed for because I've not made and/or shown signs that I'll marry her ?

Lots of good and bad thoughts are going through my mind and for 6 years of having a nairaland account I've never thought about posting my problems but this one is really getting to me. Please i Need somebody's advice.

Thanks and God bless.