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No be everybody go marry. The society and family members will come with their own pressure but the bottom line is that it's not by force. Marriage comes with so much responsibilities and if money no dey things might become worse.

Some men love their woman smoking, drinking, fixing long nails and lashes, doing bbl, wearing leg chain and nose ring. Infact they encourage their girlfriends to do these things though. Talking from experience.

That's Nigeria for you, they get away with everything cos they're rich and full of connections. Mtcheew...

danijesus:
If APC is kicked out from the presidency

Asap!

The country's economy is not smiling at us. If they aren't getting married it's their choice. Remember, they're the major providers and any man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.

Nice one 👏

Him mama fine sha.

The comparison is a slap to Gej. Stop it already!

You both should see a marriage counselor.

She's only doing her job.

Louder please 📢

He's more than a mumu nau

Brain jotter made him popular though. Rip sir.

I'm not sure about this, I haven't seen it yet.

Totally agree with you.💯 plus you go chop better beating, it wasn't easy with them.

Na dem sabi.

Things people do for green card and money. No be only love. mtcheew......

Nah

Dementia is real.

I carry my Bible to church.

Why the last picture no clear?

kennie10:
You are joking, Some women are terrible! Huh? I came home last night after the day's work around 9pm and met my children eating, late, I inquired from my wife why they were eating late since we already agreed they eat at about 7pm. Her first response was " am I your house help"? You better come and give them yourself. This is someone who doesn't work, clean the house. Each time I come back from work I will be the one to enter kitchen to Prepare dinner. Hardly will I come home and meet food prepared. She will tell me "if you are hungry go kitchen." Worse still when I go kitchen and we quarrel, she will shout on to top of her voice that she is dragging kitchen with me. Women are indeed terrible. I am considering divorce but for the sake of me 3 children I am still enduring this work woman

Separation is a better option.

jaymoney1:
You are absolutely right! A lot of married men end up with regrets because they didn’t fully understand what they were getting into. Sometimes, separation is a wiser and more peaceful option than going through a full divorce. I really like that perspective, it makes a lot of sense. There’s definitely a lesson there for all of us to learn before making big commitments

Exactly 💯

Joshchi19:
Why will this make front page kwanu?

This is so disturbing. Omg!

TheWebbers:
Nairaland is the wrongest place to bring marriage topics.

Watch has this thread will be flooded by under 30 jobless men.

They will tell you how worhtless women are and how marriage is not worth it, and how they can never marry in this life.

But meanwhile, if they give you just 5 minutes access to their phone, you will open your mouth waaa with what you will see. You will see them begging women for attention and sending gifts she never asked for.

Truth is, an heterosexual man is nothing without a woman in his life. Not women but a woman. You are just not completely fulfilled no matter how much you try.

The topics of marriage that makes it to the internet are the bad ones because it is news worthy. There is no news about a working marriage. So whenever you see a marriage thread, its the bad one and people will think that is how all the marriages in the world are. But for every bad marriage and divorce that made it to the news, there are 1500 good ones that dont make it.

I have been married for 3 years and I'm loving it. My wife is the most stubborn woman I have met in my life. In fact we just finished settling one minor qurell before typing this. But she is also the sweetest gift I have ever had. I dont know what would have happened to me if I didn't marry her. She is the kindest, sweetest and most loving human being I know.

Yes, there are conflicts but we have made a decision not to go to sleep without sorting it out. And this has helped us.

Marriage is sweet for many and sour for some. But in general, train yourself to be a good and loving person and when there are conflicts, iron it out fast before it degenerates.

God bless you sir.

For me I think it's the same.

I don't trust them still.

Hmmm.... She's no longer with you. She's done with you a long time.

Women!

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Married men's greatest r£gr£t about marriage: you could learn from this too. Separation is better than divorce, I love that.