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Na these ones dey come out, enter politics and become like them Dino melaye, and tbose thiefy thiefy politicians we have today

MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.

With a mindset and behavior like this, you relationship will fail

[quote author=1Sharon post=131078843][/quote]Huglee bxch with kpomo lips

CyrusVI:
Not a sexist, but I'm really worried about what the future holds for men

The way women are beginning to dominate the highest paying sectors in the country is scary


Congrats to her. I wish her well

You are funny. Till eternity men have always been dominators and creators of wealth and disbursement of same wealth. This girl is npt a threat in any way. For one girl like this, there are 100 other men who have achieved similar or higher feat. The thing with women is that they are not multipliers of wealth. Il rather have 10 of her as men than 1000 of her women.

doggedfighter:
Every family should have a girl child.





They're are usually source of consolation and the centre that holds it together.

so that? men have been doing this for many centuries and heavens did not fall, getout from here you hoe

Megacity in the mud

Lol. Go and sitdown abeg

Zxcvbnmghtr:
JD Vance said even worse, but once offered the opportunity to be his running mate he didn't hesitate. Even the moniker below me will change mouth if Tinubu offers him a job to be his Personal Assistant P.A. Na that time una go dey hear "it's an opportunity to serve Nigeria".

Stfu and stop misaligning events. This was many years even before Trump presidency.

Okoroawusa:
So you were in your teens in 2008-2010? See small children wey me and dem dey Nairaland.
Well, we are teaching teens like yourself patience in life. Good things take time

You must be a mad man to claim the project of rehabilitating that area started in 2008. A pure mad man. Going by your assertion, even if you think i am a kid, you are no where near my quality of life. Gtfoh

The whole axis of this road from orile to mile 2, down to badagry (if they have even started) has been on since i was in my teens. I wonder how much mo ey has gone into this project from then till now

helinues:
Follow his footsteps and also end up like him

Na different ways to learn in life now

I made a mistake responding to you. If I have seen your moniker, I would not even have quoted you. please ignore my last post.

muyico:
u gat money but not political power

who told you he has money? Its only a man who is hungry or has hunger mentality that will behave the way Reno behaves. That is facts!

helinues:
Hahaha, after how many years.

The man go don become Eze of kirikiri oo

Chai, so many ways to learn in life

its not necessarily the fact that he has to learn any lesson, right thinking people are talking about the impartiality and injustice against him. Today, the injustice today you laugh at without doing anything about because it does not concern you, will come in another form to haunt you as long as you keep having such mindset.

PoundHound:
Reno is trying so hard to get a job from this government. A government that has rendered once average families paupers. Giving them sleepless nights as to how to provide basic needs and essentials.

A party he was vocal against has turned all of a sudden his darling party.

Wetin poverty nor fit do nor Dey exist.

Dont be deceived, he already has a job and is doing it. You think reno will support you without any incentive? Hagagag

France is about to collapse. Eatch as hallawakbar people gp start to dey bomb places now.

Zico5:
If this is the kind of hustle some people are dealing in that make them the richest tribe in Africa. I will rather remain where God wish to put me. Some deal are not hustle but criminal activities that may end one in life jail. And some of the people that are dealing in this deal will call it hustle and be attacking innocent and legit guys online. God abeg o

Bog tribal fool. Una don come again? Mad man

Even people for war torn Sudan dey less hungry than nigerians. I tell ypu say the country dey at war una no gree believe

These foplish people go just open their mouth jist dey talk rubbish. Se is npt joining not because we are happy with Tinubu admin pr that we love him, we are not joining because theu will quickly tag it IPOB, igbp protest abd use that oppprtunity to kill Igbos. Just like they did Endsars

Besides, we warn una before Tinubi enter say the man no be am, even if we are not the majority voice or tagged " we dont know how to play national politics", or lose, does not mean that we are wrong..this is not a mpvie where the hero is always the winner.

I thought FG dropped all charges and case against Binance, why are they still holding this man?

Okoroawusa:
Is it not better he just dies and save us all hospital bills?

The same death wey yousef go die?

Hollyharjii:
Ain't surprise because people from that region can do the unthinkable

Na their ways

Full. What region? Fbi say na nigerian man, you say na igbo man. Foooool

gigabyte13:
Dey whine yourself
Be like you just enter Nigeria.

Lol. Ok

Tourist42:
This guy is just 26years old o....

No he is not.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Seriously, see jealousy from poor guys everywhere. This is just allegation. Which can be dismissed after due investigation for lacking in evidence.

Evidence dey, na to now come prove if the evodence na fake or real one. Time will tell.

gigabyte13:
Na settlement go end everything
Once you hear say
Police arrest person wey get money...
Dem wan just cut there own share be that.
Mtchewwwwwwwwww

Not in the exact place he is.. make you go ask diff dept dey npf

[quote author= post=130985113]B-LORD Is A Good Man, Honestly Speaking......[/quote]How so? Abi you be part of the people wey receive bag of rice from am on xmas, na wetin make you talk say him be good man?

CyrusVI:
Which club dem dey play

I never hear of their names before o

Abi one of them na Messi

You mist not know everything, focus on what your owb govrnor did at the time when obi was governor.

MrBrownJay1:
all these "supposed" holy places... children disappear in church, car disappear in church.

And you think its the people that attended service that are doing it?

ruggedtimi:
90% of china's weapons are copy cats of soviets / u.s

A wise man once said, there are two ways to be successful, do it yourself or copy from others who habe done it. Think about it. If you copy word for word from the brightest student in class during an exam, you will pass just as the best student in class.

Ikwerre no be igbo.... nde Ara!!!!

Fineman2:
indian economy is growing fast, the same with Brazil

India has a big economy. They are over 1bn. There is nothing like growing fast. Those two countries are doing well when it comes to the numbers.