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My dad used to do that a lot to my mum anytime he was angry with her when I was with my parents. I found out that I would also do it to them whenever any of them scolded me or I was just angry with them. I would eat out and ignore eating at home for days until I got my dad or mum's attention. Now that I am married with kids, I don't even live in Africa. I find myself doing it to my wife. It has got into my subconsciousness...eaten deep to the extent that I don't see anything bad with it. I see my first son taking after me already too...it is a crazy habit, I know but it has come to be in our family. Thank God my wife understands and she is just being indifferent.

I can also testify to Afterlife Cleaning job. Good one!

Thanks so much for your comments. I tried Afterlife Cleaning and the cleaners did a great job. From the pictures sent to me, I am impressed. Thanks so much Nairaland.

Lolo24:
Work and earn money to take of your family's needs- You can't!

Do house chores- You still can't.

What exactly are you good at? You can't afford to feed an extra mouth, who will feed the new born?

Op better respect your self. You don't have money and you're breeding.

This post is not necessary. It is wrong to just conclude that everyone would be as suddenly rich as you are or as you expect. I know you should be a teenager with your sense of reasoning. Look, if you think money making is as easy as you imagine, ask your father where he was when Dangote became a billionair. The young man who created this thread mentioned that he is in his early 30s...he just started his career. Do you know his journey so far? He could have been raised from a humble background but he chose to be responsible by getting married in his late 20s. I remember when I made my first million legitimately...so, when I see a young man growing to be successful in life without doing scam, money ritual or all sort of corrupt activities to make money, I respect him. There many 40 years old men who still live with their parents...this guy has tried biko. All he needs is to understand his wife's predicament, manage his home and move on as many knowledgeable people have suggested here. This is not a good time to blame anyone for being poor or lazy.

I am not presently in Nigeria but I have a 4 bedroom duplex in Lekki Phase 1. Too bad, from the picture sent to me, the painter and bricklayer did not do a good job at all. I need a good cleaning company to help give a perfect cleaning touch. How much does it cost? How long will it take to finish the cleaning? I could have asked my builder to do this for me but I have lost trust in her with the result I have got so far.