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May their soul rest in peace

and this should be a lesson to us all, how can you carry the whole of your family to a violence area of such,
what is he doing there...

After watching this video clips I must confess there is more to this attack than just what the eyes is seeing...

See the video clips below for those who have not seen it...
http://seyiadesina.com/word/watch-this-video-showing-nigerian-army/


Let us remember Nigeria in our prayers please

IT IS NOT ALL FIGHT THAT END WELL EVEN WHEN IT ONLY STARTED WITH MERE TALK, WE MIGHT UNDERSTAND HOW IT START BUT THE END IS HIDDEN FROM US… LET’S KNOW WHAT WE ARE ACTUALLY FIGHTING FOR… EVEN IF WE MUST BREAK-UP JUST AS IT HAPPENS IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NOT MEANT TO BE, THEN LET IT BE IN PEACE!

By: Seyi S Adesina

I have tried my possible best to look into this issue of division calling on our dear nation Nigeria several times from different angle, though I might be wrong in my thought but maybe there might also be some sense in some of the thinking running through my head now!

Nigeria has been together as a giant of Africa for a while now, so where is the division coming from? Who are the sponsors of this initiatives? I know aim is not for the poor masses but the question remains, can they handle the aftermath?

Calling for separation yes will benefit a lot of thieves who pose to be helping Nigeria now, I know some other continent are also in support of this movement because of their selfish gain and business ties they are looking for to, but what if it dint work out the way they plan it?

I love Nigeria and pray it stays together as we are and find how to fix things and make it work

But if it must go the question is still broad?
Can it go without shedding blood?
Can this break-apart we are calling comes easy? Will some part of the country allow this to happen? Will there be peace in all the country that will go apart? Will it make things surplus and end poverty? Will the free country start generating funds immediately?

I know you have lots of answers to this questions my brain is popping out now and I know you have more than enough answer to all my questions, but remember its easier said than done…

Lets join hands together to make it work so things can be a beat better

Seyi S Adesina
http://seyiadesina.com/word/can-nigeria-divide-without-shedding-blood/

The carnival is so beautiful and full of fun
I wont miss it this year, I dont want to be told, will be there live and direct, thumb up

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This days relationship heartbreak are no more breaking news... most people run into relationship not even understanding what they are going into... Anyway this is just a guide from me if you find yourself in one heartbreak or know someone who's heart is broken...


…::15 THINGS A LADY SHOULD KNOW AFTER HER BREAK UP::…

* God Loves You*.
Even no one love you God will always do He love you that’s why He died for u, He loves you that’s y He wants you to learn lesson for preparation against the future don’t allow anything steal or kill His love for you. Not even heartbreaks dear.

*First change your mind set about guys and relationship*.
Don’t be like d road to your village that never change, you need to change your mind set about guys. All guys are not the same just that the few ones you’ve meet are the bad eggs, most relationship are still working out while others are crashing even as u read now. Change ur mentality about all the negative things you think about guys and relationship just because you have been brutally hurt before. Change your thought believe in God because God is Love, let your heart be free of grudges and move on.

*Forget your past story nobody needs them*.
Stop telling ur new relationship about ur old story. For me its unnecessary after they pity you when they get home so many question will run down through their head; i.e if she’s that good why is all this guys leaving her? So stop it some might even pick a point from ur story n use it against u later. If you are too attached to the old story the guy will think your mind is still attached to the person involve. So stop telling everyone how u have been hurt until its necessary.

*Always remember the lessons u learn*.
Never forget all you have gone through even when the journey seems sweet. You must never forget the lesson u learn from your past experience because you will still need them in the future. Don’t allow the enjoyment of the new love you found make you forget your experience. Please I dnt say treat ur relationship with the memory of the past please don’t get me wrong ooOo. I only say u should try and apply some sense now!

*Dont allow your past relationship to always break you down just because your ex is into a gud relationship*.
For the fact that you see your ex drive pass in his car with his new girlfriend and they are smiling, laughing and cruising town together don’t means he might be happy. It might just be a camouflage to break you down. So don’t let it melt u off ur feet. Even if truly he’s happy, u too be happy for him because you get what you others in life. Be happy dear dnt allow your past relationship dictate your happiness.

*No competition, forget it its not working for your ex like it seems*.
It might jst be faking tins. Don’t think relationship is football where you call for competition and the winner goes home with a prize. Noooooo relationship don’t work that way please, there is more to relationship than competitions. You are not competing with anyone so no need to run fast or slow down, don’t feel u need to do things just because you want to meet up to ur ex! Please

*Don’t compare yourself with ur ex new girl*.
For me comparison na na na na don’t even think about it. Why? Why do you wanna compare yourself with someone else, you are born and created by God in a unique way that can not and will never be replaced by anyone. No one can be like you and no matter how hard you try you can never be the exact of someone else. You are perfectly made. You are beautiful, you are cute. Don’t worry about how others look the way you look is what matters.

*Stop looking for replacement*.
Replacement might be what you will never get if you keep looking out for guys to replace your ex, looking for guys who has the same quality like you ex will harm you more. It will leave you with memories of the past because each time that person do what your ex do then there will be a flash back.

*Try and stroll out without your mind*.
Walking to a fun place without your mind can really help you, this means you are taking a little stroll out of your pains, you are going to a nice place without expecting to meet anyone or without your troubled heart. Leave ur crying heart at home don’t take it along with you cos it will still cause you tears and steal ur happy moment away.

*Looking for over handsome, cute, well talked about, intelligent guys*.
Then wake up from your dreams of nightmare. This are every girl’s desire, am not saying you should go out with guys who are not decent, but believe me guys with this qualifications are over sorted by others, other ladies wanna have a taste of them, they want to hang out with them and some just wanna sleep around with them. This guys knows the quality they possess and also know they are well sorted out. They might not value or respect you.

*Love Yourself Dear*.
This is very important, u must show and shower yourself with a great love. Not just saying it to yourself but showing yourself real love and care will attract people to you. Loving yourself will teach you how to love others. It will help you know how people feel. When you love yourself it will radiate outwardly and make u happy and shining.

*Be contented*.
Be grateful to God you are where u are now. Be appreciative what if you are no more?

*Don’t Be In A Rush*.
Hmmm! My dear why don’t you wait for a while, you just broke up from one relationship, please allow the wound to heal before starting another journey of love . Relax small, try and do some reasoning, make some amendment, take a break. Just don’t rush into another relationship thinking it will help you cool off no it won’t honey, you need to cool off by staying out of any thing called dating while you are still hurt. Clear your head first and be able to think straight so you won’t make a wrong decision that will cost you another bowl of tears.

*Be Careful of Wolfs*.
Some men are wolf in man’s form. They’re only concern in getting into ur panties and to just tear you apart. Don’t let them get close to you. Protect yourself, stand out, stay away from locations that will make them look at you like one of their prey.

*Don't be carried away with compliments*.
Hmmmm! Chei dis girl is good, she’s beautiful with good character etc, can sweep some ladies away and make them fall so calmly for a guy, but dear you as a decent lady who’s not the kind will have to learn how to manage comment and stay away from people who over commented you just to lure you into their trap. Compliment is nice and romantic but some people are now using it to make girls fall for them which is wrong. So dear dnt allow the compliment you get knock you down.

Written and Composed by:
Seyi S Adesina
I Care About You

http://seyiadesina.com/word/15-things-a-lady-should-know-after-her-break-up/

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STILL ON OUR CHILDREN
A MUST READ
(THE SACRIFICE OF A MOTHER >>>>>>
This Post below was shared with me by a friend on a Forum. I like it and I want to share it with you. Please read share with your children

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One young man went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.
He passed the initial interview, and now would meet the director for the final interview.
The director discovered from his CV that the youth’s academic achievements were excellent.

He asked, “Did you obtain any scholarships in school?” the youth answered “no”

"Was it your father who paid for your school fees?”

My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.” he replied.”

Where did your mother work?””
My mother worked as clothes cleaner.”

The director requested the youth to show his hands.
The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.”
Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?”
“Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books.
Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, “I have a request. When you go home today, go and clean your mother’s hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high.
When he went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her hands.
His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to her son.
The youth cleaned his mother’s hands slowly.
His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother’s hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands.
Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when...
Please complete the story here:

http://seyiadesina.com/word/the-sacrifice-of-a-mother-by-anthonia-dooshima-oguah/

This is a very delicate issue, believe me it was also a temptation to have made you the judge over her....

I pray it wont happen sha but it is indeed a delicate case

http://seyiadesina.com/word/the-sacrifice-of-a-mother-by-anthonia-dooshima-oguah/

People are going through so many problem in life that has caused them tears and heartbreak.

But I want to let u know that no matter the challenges u are going through God is still alive He never change and will never change.

Remember, your problem is another person solution while your solution is someone else problem.

Don't relent in calling on God both in prayer and praises He will not fail you and at the appointed time He will come to your aid.

No matter your problem be it Marriage, Relationship, Business, Life Academic, Spiritual mention it God can still do something.

If you believe it shall be according to your faith

Your prayers has been answered just praise God

Seyi .S. Adesina
08050779497,08064626235
Website: www.seyiadesina.com/word
E-mail: word@seyiadesina.com

Everywhere I go I hear children use that word "ojuju calabar will catch me" especially when it involves darkness or when there's no light:

I wonder who teach them such language

Imagine an igbo child or yoruba pikin shouting ojuju calabar hahahahha

Who teach am say na masquerade?

Yea it could be tears of joy, I guess some are not expecting it

Please I really wanna know your own answer to this.

Though it looks funny each time I see such

What's ur take on this

@Charix
It has not come to insult and if you are the admin which i know u are not i demand some respect of words
I do not preach for money or anything that would warrant such

I know how to get traffic not with Nairaland and if I want their service I can simply subscribe

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May be you should go through my post i hadly comment and when I do maybe attention is needed
and am not spamming with my website

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A man who marry a woman only because of her beauty has abandoned the greater part of the woman that’s her heart and character and such man is bound to fail because he has been destroyed by his own greed.

Are u planning to get married this year?
Please bro, take your time to read this because once you enter its a journey of eternity, marriage is not what any man who dream of a better future and want a happy home should rush into without consultation from God and His mouth piece.

I also want to let you know this, marriage is a responsibility “a butterfly thinks himself a bird” just because they fly forgeting that there are limitations to their height they could both fly. There are responsibility in marriage, there are more to it than beauty.
Looking at beauty/handsomeness as the first attraction into the marriage is only going to land u into lots of trouble.

You need to first understanding what you want for the future, what kind of home you want to raise, the better life you want your children to live! Then which woman fits into this?

Behind every successful man there is a woman, so what happen to every failed man? Is there a woman behind it too? Okey maybe you will help me out with the answer.

A woman who’s beautiful in the heart and now blessed with the outward beauty is not bad because am blessed with a “Wife who’s very beautiful in the heart and outwardly too, as a matter of fact my wife is more than an epitome of beauty, that means am not kicking against you getting married to a beautiful woman but all am saying is not to allow it be the paramount thing of getting into an affair because you won’t or might not be able to achieve your future dream happy home.

I pray that God will give you a good woman but please open your eyes well after praying don’t allow any woman to use her beauty to sweep you off your feet when she knows too well she’s not fit into the shoe, beauty can be deceiving but wisdom will lead you.

A woman’s beauty can mislead you, it can make you re-direct your good planned future.
This year will not pass you bye in your marriage issue but don’t rush it don’t think time is closing on you, its better you get it right than to bite your finger later,

Don’t rush into marriage, don’t let beauty deceive you into it her character might be ugly than the face u see, it might separate you from other good things of life.

I have warned you, me am married to my better part not because she’s beautiful outwardly only but because God has brought us together and character wise ok with her we can achieve it together.

God can make your own even better; with patient, prayer and being careful.


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I need your help who will I vote for I need a convincing reasons why I should not seat down in my house on Feb 14th presidential election.

Truly am not a political fan but from my own corner I keep thinking if truly GMB is truly the solution to Nigeria or wanting back power to carry out some personal issue.

Am just thinking considering the health status of GMB and his age I hope APC is not trying to do what PDP did with Yaradua.

For me I have not see anybody among the presidential candidate who's capable of helping Nigeria achieve its major aim if not all.

As of the time of posting dollar is almost N205
And so many other forms

I need someone to convince me and advice to change my mind of seating down and not voting

WHO Should I vote for


Seyi S Adesina
http://www.seyiadesina.com/word

As much as I try to figure it out the more I get
confused, how can a man like him survive, yes I mean
men like him and his clique who want to get married
and still keep their girlfriend?
Don’t get it twisted Patrick Ogidi the owner of
www.patrickogidi.com the Africa famous and
International known Internet Marketer and proudly
Nigeria is married, but I keep wondering and waiting
for when I will be opportune to ask him how he intend
to cope with them both.

SO WHO’S PATRICK OGIDI
PATRICK OGIDI an accomplished Business
Consultant, Coach and Social Media Marketer.
He is well known for consulting for businesses and helping them bring their business to social media like Myspace, Facebook etc.
His publications have empowered a lot of people and enabled many Facebook users to grow their business leveraging on the powers of Facebook and other social media.
He is the founder & CEO of Wealthlifters Concept; an information marketing publishing and coaching outfit.
What is actually still a mystery to me is how is going to cope with his internet business which I refer to his girlfriend and his newly beautiful wife, what I understand in my own little knowledge is that women don’t like to share their man with anyone talk more of the internet that can be time consuming, attention taking etc.
Anyway I know Mrs. Ogidi is woman who love her man with what he does judging from one of the Seminar I attended on line sometime 2014 the wife was the one who actually asked him to give back to his customers that seminar as a gift.
All the same Mr. Patrick I want to personally
congratulate you on the golden step you have taken, may God keep your home and bless you with twins, twins, twins hahahaha.

Seyi S Adesina
http://seyiadesina.com/word/patrick-ogidi-exposed-his-wife-must-not-see-this/