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Starships4u:
Its too early in the year to start reading bout the opposite sex organs and their uses......
Happy New Year Niralanders.....

Hey Dear
It is never too early to learn some good stuffs that can help you or your marriage Ooo
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You don’t need scientific proof to tell you that men like women's breasts, but there's still plenty of research to back up that claim. For example, one University of Nebraska-Lincoln study found that men spend more time ogling a woman's chest than any other part of her body. But quiz most guys about how much they really know about breasts and you won't get much farther then how pleasing they are to look at. (Unfortunately, no legit research has proven that gazing at her breasts is actually beneficial to your health.) Learn how to better navigate second base with these fascinating facts you never learned in Anatomy 101.

Their sizes can fluctuate
You can tell when her period is with just a glance. According to the National Institute of Health, women's levels of the hormones progesterone and prolactin increase about a week or two before she menstruates. This causes her to retain more water and her breast tissue and milk glands to grow, and with them, her bra size. Some women can grow as much as a cup size bigger. But be careful: If she is about to be on her period, stimulation can be more painful and decrease sexual arousal, says Leah Millheiser, M.D. at the Stanford School of Medicine.

Breast orgasms exist
Sounds too good to be true, right? Rutgers University researchers used an fMRI to find that nipple stimulation activated the medial paracentral lobule, or the part of a woman’s brain that also lights up with genital action. Still not convinced? In a classic study of 213 women, 29 percent of the females reported experiencing a nipple-gasm. Try this new titillating technique from Dr. Ava Cadell, a sexologist and author of NeuroLoveology, The Power to Mindful Love & Sex.

Lick and kiss every centimeter of her breasts and follow with light fingertip caresses, leaving her nipples until last. “Cup your hand over one breast at a time so that the tip of her nipple rests in between your thumb and your index finger. Squeeze the fingers together so that you raise her nipple slightly and lick it with the tip of your tongue,” Cadell says. To enhance her arousal, Cadell suggests keeping an ice cube in your mouth. “Wrapping her eyes in a blindfold will heighten her sensation even more,” says Emily Morse, sexologist and host of Sex With Emily podcast. Most importantly, be patient. While Cadell says it should hopefully take under 20 minutes, every woman is different and her response time will vary.

Don’t zero-in on the target
While you may want to use your newfound wisdom to shower your woman with nipple-gasms, remember that her entire chest is important. The nipple is actually the least sensitive to touch, says Debbie Herbenick, Ph.D., the Men’s Health Sex Professor and a sexual-health researcher at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute. Austrian researchers found after testing 150 women that the top quarter of their breasts—think between 10 and 2 on a clock—felt sensations most strongly, then the areolas—the dark area circling the nipple—and surprisingly last, the nipple itself. Don’t focus on one area, Herbenick says. The more territory covered, the better. (And for more breast tips, check out The Best Ways to Touch Her Breasts.)

One may be bigger
Don’t freak out if she appears a little lopsided: About one quarter of all women have one breast that is larger than the other, says Keri Peterson, M.D., an internal medicine physician and Women’s Health medical contributor. “Women’s breasts are independent beings that respond to estrogen differently during puberty,” Peterson says. For about 65 percent of women with breast asymmetry, the left dominates. A Turkish study suggests that the left side of her body has a higher immune hypersensitivity, a factor that impacts hormones such as estrogen that control breast shape and size. This unevenness is only cause for concern if one breast abruptly becomes larger than the other, Peterson says. If that’s the case, she’ll likely notice the change like you will—feeling lumps or increased tenderness, which could be signs of infection, cysts, or even breast cancer.

Help her by playing doctor
If you feel anything strange under her shirt, goad her to get a professional breast exam just to confirm that everything is normal, says Millheiser. A majority of those scary bumps turn out to be non-cancerous masses that are caused by hormonal changes, such as a cyst, which usually feels like a soft grape, or a fibroadenoma, a rubbery moveable mass. Women should be going in for check-ups once a year, or biyearly if she has a family history of breast cancer, says Millheiser.

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jarkata:
till 31st night ,calm down

Ok ooOo I will be waiting

This is where my wife get styles for her ankara dresses

http://seyiadesina.com/word/ankara/

we dont have to insult ourselves ooOo abeg

Why Do Ladies Cry When Their Man Propose To Them

https://www.nairaland.com/2830340/prophet-t.b-joshua-prophecy-2016

PROPHET T.B JOSHUA PROPHECY FOR 2016

There were prophecy from Prophet T.B Joshua but am wondering why the delay for 2016 prophecy, please can any of his believer post what he has for 2016 here?

because am doing a write ups on Nigeria Prophets and their prophesy
Wisemen clear the air please

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I consider this blog as the No.1 Inspirational Blog because the content are so inspiring and educating

WHAT BLOG DO YOU CONSIDER AS THE NIGERIA NO.1 INSPIRATIONAL BLOG?

You need to see this one
Seyi S Adesina Blog! Nigeria No.1 Inspirational Blog
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A blog you wont want to miss any of its post

BeeBeeOoh:
I mean Virgins Wey Still Dey School Wey Neva Graduate..

Ok oooOo
lol

SINNZ:
I'm keeping my pride for that special someone


#TeamVirgin

Please do its worth it may God help you

Omotayor123:
This is what you call : Re-virrginization

OP, you try. Happy Sunday!

hahahah
So na something else you dey find abi
hahahaha

Catch you
lol
Complement of d season!

tosyne2much:
Nice one

To those who's still intact ba? hahaha

thank you

BeeBeeOoh:
We tertiary virgins don't need this..

Abeg dear can you explain this tetiary thing for me hahahahaha

softappless:
PLS who read should comment, lemme comment too 4rm his or her comment

You are funny so you are waiting for others before you aired your mind abi?

lol

talktonase:
The spirit is willing but the body is weak..May God help us

Yes when we call upon God He is always there to help us out, though we must also resist the devil so he will flee from us... God help us

In 1997, nearly eighty percent of Christian couples we surveyed at our seminars reported that they had experienced premarital sex, largely with their current spouse.

Seven Steps To Regaining and Maintaining One’s Virginity

1. Turn to CHRIST through repentance and confession.

Making God our first love again begins with CONFESSION and REPENTANCE. The word confession in its simplest terms means “admit it” when we know we’re doing what grieves God. In other words, it’s agreeing with God that our behavior is not His best for us. Becky, in our earlier story, admitted that her life style was not pleasing to God. She also asked Christ to forgive her for sinning.

In addition to confession, REPENTANCE is necessary. Repentance means to “turn around and go the opposite direction.” This means to stop your sinful behavior and go the other direction. It’s doing a 180 degree turn. The Bible says to “Run from anything that takes us away from God’s best.”

2. Understand the Consequences of Pre-Marital Sex.

An important part in maintaining virginity or regaining a lost virginity is by resisting further sexual involvement by sharing truthful consequences of sexual behavior. A Few of the Consequences: Here are some of the reasons why having pre-marital sexual involvement is harmful:

It dulls our soul toward God and His ways.

It lowers our self-worth by making us feel guilty or shameful.

It reinforces our self-centeredness, strengthens our sensual focus and pulls us away from our loving focus on God and others.

It creates a greater susceptibility to sexual diseases.

It increases our need for greater stimulation in sexual contact, which then increases the potential for conflict in marriage.

It can reduce our satisfaction in the marital sexual relationship because the marital relationship can not compete with the “back seat of a car.” A prominent 1996 poll conducted by the University of Chicago revealed, adults who report the highest levels of sexual satisfaction were those who preserved sexual relations until marriage.

Couples who have had pre-marital sex have a greater chance of marital dissatisfaction and divorce.

It increases one’s chances of sexual addiction.

3. Discover WHY you had sex so you can correct the problem.

Attempting to change a particular behavior without first understanding why we did it is very difficult. It would be like telling a chef who made a terrible dinner to simply stop cooking so bad. Unless the chef knows why the meal was so awful, he can’t correct the mistake.

It’s the same rational with premarital sex. Here are some reasons why people have sex before marriage:

Peer-pressure.

You believed that the person you were with would break up with you if you said, “No.”

Your relationship with Christ was weak or nonexistent.

You were in rebellion.

You were curious. One study reported that 75% of teenagers say that curiosity about what sex is like was a major factor in their pre-marital sexual behavior.

Your self-esteem was too low. When someone has a negative self-image and feels like he has very low worth, the more likely he is to be involved in sexual activity.

You were confused about the meaning of love. A number of investigators have revealed that girls, more than boys, report being in love as the main reason for being sexually active. It seems that these girls tend to rationalize their sexual behavior by believing that they were “swept away by love.”

Puberty arrived at a young age. In one study, early-maturing boys and girls reported more sexual activity than did late bloomers.

4. Forgive yourself by TREASURE HUNTING the pain of the sexual experience.

One of the best ways to increase your self-value is to find value out of a trial. God instructs us to, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.

5. Becoming AWARE OF YOUR CHOICES and build a BUFFER ZONE away from sexual temptation.

Edwin Hubbel Chapin stated the fifth way to develop purity when he said: “Every action of our lives touches on some chord that will vibrate in eternity.” As you maintain or regain your virginity, it’s important to realize how every action we take leaves a lasting impact on ourselves and others. Even the smallest movement can have a major impact. This is the message you must understand if you’re trying to stay pure: Every choice you make has consequences for yourselves and others.

6. Developing a buffer zone.

We need to learn how to keep from stepping out of play in the area of intimacy with our fiancé. As Dr. Gary Oliver notes in the book, Seven Promises of a Promise Keeper, the key is creating a new sideline—ten yards away from the original line. In other words, leave room for error. For example, if you have had sex, then you need to develop a new purity line. For some, the new line he won’t go beyond might be kissing, holding hands. For others it may be no contact, period. If the new line is kissing, then stepping ten yards back might be not kissing while lying down or no “passionate” kissing. Since everyone makes mistakes, having room before you step out of bounds can be the difference between losing a few yards and losing the game of virginity.

7. Seek out Accountability.

Accountability with a trusted person is one of the most important ways to maintain or regain virginity. This person could be a family member, friend, coach, counselor or pastor. Or it might be a group of people who have made a similar commitment towards purity. Whoever provides the accountability, we have found that it greatly affects a someone’s ability to say “No” to sex before marriage. Within an accountability relationship, the important ingredient is having that person ask the difficult questions. For example, “Did you compromise your standards on your date last night?” or “Have you been tempted sexually this week?” Ideally, these questions force us to carefully and prayerfully consider our choices because we know that someone will be checking.



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jashar:
Yes Nigeria is tough, but you don't have to do those things.

Fear God.

You are 100% right

You are right bro so many atrocities happening but I believe its not only in Nigeria.
We pray God rescue us

Dear Sister,
When will you be wise?
He makes you bend to hold the table every morning and eats you on his sofa in the afternoon all this in the office…

You run errands for him in the office, he not only use your brain soul and spirit but using the whole of your body… all in the name of you don’t want to lose that job or the cash/help you are getting from him
Ta! its so unfortunate that you are so blind to understand the fact that you have lose that job since the day you loose your skirt to him…

Are a dog? How can one pot belly idiot useless your life and ruin you for eternity yet keeping his own intact
You are indeed a fool like some of your friends must have told you. No matter what you from that idiot boss cant be compared to the way he uses you and molest your body in the office.
You should be ashamed of yourself, you are not only a disgrace to yourself but other decent women are ashamed for you already..

But you know you still have a better chance now before you bite your tongue later and cry
you can still stop that idiot from touching you! Yes he don’t respect you and that’s why he chooses to sleep with you at will in the office, he makes you do nasty things with him in the office promising you Heaven and Earth he will never fulfill.

Stop him now before something terrible stops you...



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When you talk about change then you should be ready to “get changed” as this is the case of what is happening in Nigeria, change has come and it will change everything you, you use to know

I woke up today to see in the news that Dasuki has been granted bail and to pay a said amount, then I begin to wonder how is the Nigeria president going to fight corruption if his own hand are deeply soaked with those who have practices and engaged in corruption?

Dasuki Buhari, or Dasuki+Buhar=

“Can the president jail himself? Is he above the law? OR WILL IT REMAIN Dasuki + Buhari = Nigeria President Buhari Most Corrupt, Dasuki Buhari Nigerians disappointed”

If Dasuki is innocent or granted bail as the judge has passed his verdict, then no one is corrupt, including other names mentioned…

Below is what Premium Times reported

A High Court of the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, has granted bail to former National Security Adviser, NSA, Sambo Dasuki, and four others standing trial for alleged money laundering and criminal breach of trust.

Others standing trial over a 19-count charge preferred against them include, a former director of finance at the office of the NSA, Shuaibu Salisu, a former Group General Manager of the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, Aminu Baba ​Kusa and two firms, Acacia Holdings Limited and Reliance Reference Hospital.
Justice Husseini Baba Yusuf granted bail

​to the accused persons ​on the sum of N250 Million on the condition that they produce a surety each who must be a ​serving or retired ​civil servant ​not lower than the rank of a director.

The ​c​ivil servant must also show possession of a property within the FCT worth the same amount​, the judge ordered.​
All the accused

​we​re also asked to deposit copies of their ​i​nternational passports with the ​c​ourt registrar​. They are to also​ notify the court of any travel arrangement outside the FCT.

Mr. Dasuki is accused of mis-spending about $2.1 billion meant for the purchase of weapons for the fight against extremist group, Boko Haram.

He denies wrongdoing.

Buhari is Innocent As Dasuki

question will be rise if not now because when the List of most corrupt president is out if not out I hope to hear “Nigeria President Buhari Most Corrupt”

#DasukiBuhari

Dasuki Buhari

Nigerians disapointed by Buhari
http://seyiadesina.com/word/buhari-is-innocent-as-dasuki/

Yes ooOo it is well

Your position if properly discovered will propel you to your destination

I pray God will help your marriage not to fall ooOo

Some people will not read and learn how to avoid this problem now, later they will start looking for solution

Anyway my candid advice is club members and fans should just take it easy lol

10 REASONS WHY YOUR MARRIAGE WILL FALL IN 2016 IF YOU DON’T TAKE CARE OF IT

FINANCIAL PROBLEMS
For the most part, it is the lack of open communication about money problems that jeopardizes a marriage more than the financial problems alone. Everyone has financial issues concerning bills, debts, spending and budgets. How a couple deals with those issues can make or break a relationship.
COMMUNICATIONS PROBLEMS
If a couple has communication problems prior to marriage, those problems are likely to get worse after tying the knot. It is important that both partners are able to discuss every aspect of married life openly and on a regular basis. A marriage without two-way communication will not last long.
FAMILY PROBLEMS
Family relationships with children, parents, in-laws, siblings and step-children are all sources of marital problems. Raising children increases stress in the home and can cause minor differences of opinion to become major rifts in a relationship. Discretion is the better part of valor when it comes to family and marriage.
SEX PROBLEMS
Sex is an important part of marriage and the source of many marriage problems. Every marriage requires the act of consummation by sexual intercourse. Failure to consummate a marriage or problems with sexual frequency, quality, and infidelity are all common reasons for marriage failure and divorce.
FRIEND PROBLEMS
Close personal friends of either spouse do not always make the transition to friends of the marriage. Some relationships with friends can be toxic to the marriage if they insert themselves between spouses. A good friend will enhance a married couple’s relationship. People who try to break a marriage apart are not quality friends.
ADDICTION PROBLEMS
Drug, alcohol and gambling abuse are all forms of addiction that are very detrimental to a marriage. Even without the presence of physical or verbal abuse, the behavior of an addicted spouse can make normal married life impossible. Addictions are also a common source of money problems in a marriage as well.
ABUSE PROBLEMS
Abuse of any kind is never acceptable in a marriage. Physical and verbal abuse are all too often the causes of a marital break-down. Sexual abuse and emotional abuse also fall into this category. One partner’s desire to degrade their spouse in an ongoing pattern of abuse will surely cause a marriage to fail in time.
PERSONALITY PROBLEMS
There are many kinds of personality traits that can make a couple incompatible and unable to reach agreement in matters concerning sex, intellect and emotion. Partners that have compulsive needs to please or belittle can make honest communication impossible. Negative personality traits make a long-term relationship unbearable and divorce a real possibility.
EXPECTATION PROBLEMS
The ability to adapt to changes in married life often depends on having realistic expectations about a spouse and the marriage relationship itself. It is common for disillusionment to set in when romantic or other unrealistic expectations are not met. Over time, unmet expectations can generate enough dissatisfaction to make meaningful compromise impossible.
TIME PROBLEMS
Work and home schedules are not always compatible. Time spent apart and time spent together are equally important for maintaining a good married relationship. When time is used in a balanced way, it results in opportunities for growth and harmony. A lot of time spent alone without a corresponding period of quality time spent together puts a lot of stress on a marriage.

http://seyiadesina.com/word/10-reasons-why-your-marriage-will-fall-in-2016-if-you-dont-take-care-of-it/

Am sure some people won't sleep tonight celebrating his exit and some might not be happy his fans if he has one sha... lol

1. Where are the points?

It might be obvious, but poor results are the number one reason to sack a manager.

Chelsea’s points tally from their opening 11 Premier League is their worst on record, with the club only picking up 11 points.

That’s even worse than their start to the 1992-93 and 1993-94 seasons, where they only managed to accumulate 13.



2. The defence is broken

Chelsea’s defence is leaking goals all over the shop.

Only Bournemouth, Norwich and Sunderland have let in more goals than the Blues in the Premier League this season.

Despite Mourinho dropping Branislav Ivanovic, John Terry and Gary Cahill in a bid to fix the backline, Chelsea are still without a solution to their defensive woes.

The Blues have let in 22 goals in just 11 league games, more than they conceded in the entirety of the 2004-05 title-winning season.



3. At war with The FA

Mourinho has been subjected to a one-match stadium ban and a £40,000 fine, as a result of his behaviour in the 2-1 loss to West Ham on October 24.

The former Real Madrid boss is currently appealing against a separate suspended stadium ban as a result of his post-match comments after a 3-1 loss to Southampton.

These two incidents are just two of many on Mourinho’s lengthy rap sheet during his time in West London.



4. Lost the dressing room

Talk is rife that Mourinho has lost the faith of members of the Chelsea dressing room.

It was claimed on BBC 5live earlier this week that one player has even gone as far as to say “I’d rather lose than win for Jose Mourinho.”

History shows that once a manager has lost a dressing room, it’s just a matter of time until the chairman wields the axe.

Just ask Brendan Rodgers.



5. Chelsea in court

Mourinho’s treatment of Eva Carneiro has seen both the club and the controversial Chelsea boss subjected to legal action.

Carneiro was Chelsea’s team doctor between 2009 and 2015, but left the club after being demoted by Mourinho after entering the field of play in Chelsea’s 2-2 draw with Swansea.

Club physio Jon Fearn also entered the field of play to treat Eden Hazard, but was not demonised in the same way by Mourinho.



6. Boring, boring Chelsea

The Blues have scored just 16 goals in their 11 Premier League games this season.

At this stage last season, the Stamford Bridge outfit had already scored 28 times, but the West London club have been found wanting this season.

The reigning champions were the second-highest scorers in the Premier League last season.

Brazilian midfielder Willian is the club’s top scorer, with five goals in the current campaign. However, only two of those goals have come in the Premier League.

7. The curious case of Eden Hazard

The Belgian winger was the PFA Player of the Season last year, after being voted as the top performer by his fellow professionals.

However, so far this season, Hazard has scored just once in 16 games in all competitions, turning in a sequence of rotten performances that have seen him relegated to the bench.

Rumours of a big money move to Real Madrid and PSG were rife in the summer, with talk that the former Lille man may be looking for a way out of Stamford Bridge if Mourinho stays.



8. Roman’s riches will be wasted

If Mourinho’s last tenure at Chelsea taught us anything, it’s that he doesn’t recruit well under pressure.

In the weeks before leaving the club in 2007, the ex-Porto chief signed up the likes of Steve Sidwell, Claudio Pizarro, Tal Ben-Haim, Juliano Belletti and Florent Malouda.

While Malouda may have prospered to start with, the others failed to prove themselves as anything more than a panic buy and a waste of the wage budget.

It’d be wiser for Roman Abramovich to trust somebody else with the Chelsea cheque book this time round.



9. Jose doesn’t do long-term relationships

Mourinho has never lasted longer than three seasons at any of his previous clubs.

Even in his first spell at Chelsea, the Portuguese boss failed to make it to a fourth season.

Despite his professed love for the Blues, it’s looking inevitable that Mourinho’s relationship with the club is little more than a short-term love affair.

Chelsea need to take a long-term approach, and Mourinho has proven himself not to be the man to provide sustained stability and success.



10. He’s not ‘The Special One’ anymore

Just like in Italy and Spain, the press have grown tired of his antics and frosty attitude, with Mourinho’s inability to handle criticism in the media only continuing to stir the pot.

Besides, people seem to prefer ‘The Normal One’ these days.

Even the general public don’t love Mourinho anymore.

It’s fair to say the Chelsea boss was a media darling when he returned to the club in 2013.

His quick wit, confidence and outlandish statements previously grabbed the headlines, but now Mourinho is seen as a tedious irritant.


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If you carefully read my post for some who have commented saying I dont know what am talking about!

You have not answered my question, maybe you should read the headline again and give a proper respond, you talk from your bedroom and comfort zone, if the war starts now can you stand it, or you think its just gonna come in peace like that?

Lets pray for Nigeria and air our voice, not a selfish one that only concern our pockets and enriching our relatives

#Peace2Nigeria