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Jaycobbs:
She called your family, friends, colleagues... you'll never be able to win back the trust you lost. Even if you do, it won't be at the same level.

One very big issue staring you in the face is the long distance relationship you're having with your lawfully wedded wife. Either quit the job and find one closer to home, or arrange for your wife to live with you in the new location permanently, or for as long as the job requires.

Newlywed couple, y'all need to be spending as much time together as possible.

If your wife was around, you wouldn't have fallen into that trap. Make the move and make arrangements to always be together with your wife, show her your actions and she'll see you're serious about avoiding future temptations.

It won't be easy, but it's a first step.

If you're going to step out on your wife, at least do it with someone decent. I'm not condoning adultery, but nigga, if you missed the red flags in this your new side piece, then juggling multiple women is not for you because they'll probably both connive to kill you. You're better off remaining faithful to the Mrs.

"You got high"... Lol. Bro, is this the example you want to set for your kids? I don't know what got you high but as you can see, it probably doesn't have good effects, so maybe you should FVCKING GET RID OF THAT? I dunno.

You'll need to do a lot of begging. And the people who could have helped you might already be disappointed, so you may have to do most of the shii on your own. If you want her back, be ready to crawl.

There'll probably be lots of gifts, long talks, missed calls, and spending involved

Oh, and if she decides to revenge by cheating on you (who knows maybe you missed that red flag in your wife too), then don't complain because you set the ball rolling yourself.

Look for a male figure in her life she respects (pastor or something) and get them to set a meeting where you both talk.

If you want more couple's therapy, hmu.

If, against all odds, you're able to fix this, then keep your pants zipped, keep constant communication with your wife regardless of distance (you should make time to have at least thirty minutes to an hour of flirty, dirty conversation with your wife every day if you're separated by distance. This should keep the sexual spark in your marriage going), take steps to rid your mindset of cheating, and set up time to go for therapy with her to rebuild that trust you just casually threw away.

Georgry:
The tribalism on this forum is between the Igbos and the Yorubas, the other tribe are less vocal on the internet, but you have no right to complain because you keep using the word "They" which is highly subjective, this makes you exactly what you are complaining about, I joined this forum in 2013 or so, I've been visiting since 2011, as far back as 2011 when Jonathan was president there was tribalism then, and it was champion by the Igbos, see below thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/745731/yoruba-marginalization-elders-met-jonathan

After Buhari took over in 2015 it escalated, who are the main victims? The Hausa/Fulani.

2023 election made everything worse, ever since then, it's been equal dose of tribalism from each side, but the main problem is that the Igbos cries the loudest about Victimisation when in reality both tribe are guilty of tribalism in this forum including you.

promisechris63:
I remember when I joined Nairaland.com in 2014 it was a rich platform for idea sharing and proper constructive critism devoid of ethnic slurs.. I'm Igbo it was a Good Yourba friend of Mine that introduced me to the platform. Now I can read a news here or comment people like Yarimo, Freestuffs, Helinuse and co without having bad intentions towards people.
Time has come for the mods and Seun to detox this platform and bring back the Nairaland.com we once enjoyed.

Reflect7:
I’ve noticed that Obidients are starting to wind down their support and backing of Peter Obi.

They are no longer as loud, vociferous, and antagonistic as before.

Something tells me that the strong performance of Tinubu is starting to wear them down a bit.

I see a softening in their position of late.

I don’t think Obi is liking this at all.

Maybe that’s why he starts all these controversies, like attacking the coastal road project, so he can keep his supporters engaged and aggressive. But it’s not really working for him.

Coolestguy2023:
Thank God no be those noise makers, if na them, them go just dey make noise on SM like say no one ever had a high score before in Nigeria

Their success they pain you abi ?

Sonyboom:
Obidient ipob go cry blood over this news even as he no concern their party n oga the Pandora bastard n criminal Peter Pandora Obi.

Sonyboom:
How many foriegn investor was the Pandora Criminal n bastard Peter Pandoraa Obi able to bring into Anambra compare to the ones Tinubu brought ?

Tochitee:
Omooo!! Reno really finished ibo people ooo! Bros Reno,bikini, have mercy on our Nigeria endangers species,our obituaries, you don turn to their nightmare and DemiGod.

NorthernAgender:
But when he was insulting Tinubu then you igbo are praising him. Some of you even called him most intelligent.

adams123:
Obi has never done anything different. He is a criminal like all of them!

e pain you

helinues:
How can a perennial failure like Peter Obi be condemning others?

Did his predecessors demolish all his projects in Anambra state that his supporters are struggling to point out to

Abeg make una stop the charade jare

Hug transformer

emkz:
If anyone from the Niger-Delta comes across the thread, please remember that some of you voted for Peter Obi. Peter Obi has demonstrated he is against the progress of the Niger Delta communities. The bulk of the funds for running our economy comes from the Niger Delta. But he says a big project to criss-cross the Niger Delta is a misplaced priority.

Note that the US spent their way out of recession through the New Deal which focused on massive infrastructural development across board, including roads. There is no nation interested in progress that is currently not engaged in one form of infrastructural development or the other. But the one which is 60 years old overdue in Nigeria, Peter Obi is fighting it, simply because he lost election.

If he didn't build anything meaningful in Anambra, I think it is disingenuous to fight against something being built through the Niger Delta. Thanks to Tinubu's ingenuity, Lagos is undergoing massive infrastructural development and embarking on an audacious railway project which the likes of Rufai Oseni would condemn.

Peter Obi doesn't want the progress for the Niger Delta. He just wants to get the votes and use anti-developmental and archaic ideas to ruin this country completely.

Only vote for those who want progress to be in your land. With this tweet, Peter Obi has shown he is not interested in that.

As for the Landmark CEO who has been all over the place making noise, can he show us documents where the shorelines and beaches in his location were ceded to him? If he violated the right of way, it is evil for him to complain. The best thing to do was to meet and find ways to relocate his business or shift to an area where the coastal highway won't pass. When I travelled through Accra-Cape Coast highway, part of which was adjacent to the ocean, it was a beautiful sight with the blue waters! Guess what? Beaches still functioned!!

Just to add, a road network is also a delight for businesses. Food can easily be transported from rural areas to urban centers and those in rural communities would make good money.

But Peter Obi does not want this.

TotoIsGud4boy:
I was so dumbfounded when I realized the level of exam malpractice from a certain region was when I asked a girl called Amaka that got multiple As in her Waec a simple physics question and she started scratching her head…. Anyways I won’t generalize because I’m not a tribalist.

chopnaira:
Thank you President BAT. Since Obidients are passing off private schools as legacy of Peter Obi, it's fine to also pass off Private businesses achievements as legacies of President Tinubu.

Yemu

yarimo:
ALEX OTTI of Abia state is the worst Governor in Nigeria and a disgrace to good governernce

Khyrvxjzy:
mark my words

NorthernAgender:
Omo the way dino is dragging peter obi now hope Peter obi will not commit suicide?

helinues:
https://www.nairaland.com/8073431/shame-lagos-public-schools-what

NL should follow this thread, check the links this mischievous op attached to the thread , majority of them are not even related to that topic .

If all the threads you have been creating are just meant to mislead people, why should this be different?

helinues:
No mods would move any of your threads to Fp again if you are not interested in apologizing to NL's for your numerous mischievous articles

https://www.nairaland.com/8072010/gossipninja-should-apologize-nls-deliberate

helinues:
Why are Obi supporters so desperate like this?