₦airaland Forum

Rich women who seek for marriage are EXTREMELY GULLIBLE as the man has nothing to offer her. I will blamd her for religious and societal psychosis

HighChiefZino:
Agreed, but haven’t you heard of the so-called successful and influential ladies who promise wealth and an enticing lifestyle to attract men seeking marriage?

Ask yourself: how many of these arrangements have actually worked out successfully? How many celebrities and other prominent individuals have gone through similar experiences, even here in Nigeria? Let me not mention names, but the list is endless.

Ladies just never seem to learn, and that is really sad.

I have a problem with the pretence some ladies put up. Behind the picture-perfect lives they portray, many may actually be suffering in silence while sugar-coating their reality to deceive unsuspecting young women into believing that everything is perfect and that ladies don't need marriage for completeness.

U want ur sister and daughter to marry rich men na, abi?

crossbreedwears:
You make absolutely no sense ma

Male children are not valued, yet na male children dey collect bride price and also inheritance in some cultures. Abeg talk another thing. U can start a boy child empowerment movement

BigYash:
To be a man is not a day's job. Nobody really care about men. It's always women ,and children. Girl child this ,girl child that. Male children are left to suffer.. It starts right from the early years of the boy child.

The world doesn't care ..

Someone once said that the word value dog more than the boy child.

It's always girl child..

Women's day 10x a year

Try to carry belle before u talk anyhow. How many men don kpai due to child birth? It's easier to pay fees than birth a child

TheNonexisting:
He knew no one would help a man so he carried his cross with dignity. Now flip it to the other side. If it was a woman, she would refuse to take responsibility and blame everyone else around her, family and friends included for not coming to her aid. To be man is not easy, rip to the gentleman.

He for no marry na. If you don't want any financial stress in ur life, avoid marrying women and also don't have children

T0BY:
As I always say.. take care of yourself first before attending to other things. As em don kpai, the world moves on, including the people he was helping.


Learning the hardway, isn't ideal.

How many cases of yahoo girls way dey do rituals have u heard about in the news compared to una men? How many cases of female bandits have u heard that blocked the road to carry their victims? U have nothing to say, Bros

tiswell:
Of course there are female bandits who aids their male counterparts in crime .

A male bandit's wife/girlfriend is twice as daedly.
We have yahoo girls now who are into more deeper rit.uals than guys.

I really wish I have all the time to go on...

Wife material or slave material in poverty?

GanagiBitrus:
I've got nothing against the women folk. I'm only saying that it ain't easy to find a wife material.

Oga, use ur sense in 2026. Stop wasting ur time worshipping a non-existent God way ur colonial masters lie say he dey for heaven. U better abandon scam religion ooo because na nonsense u just dey write

Hellisreal70:
It is better for a pastor to have few members in his church due to the genuine and undiluted word of God that he is preaching than to have multitudes of worldly characters as church members just like a social gathering, because he was only preaching morals.
When you are genuinely born again, you will be a new person spiritually and physically.

Go and marry ur fellow man na. Women know say marriage into poverty is not worth the stress. Also, men are not loyal. Women can make money and stay single for life in 2026

crossbreedwears:
I have never believed any man can find a wife in church for so many years.

U r the only reasonable man in this commect section. The rest want women way go manage with them but pray for their sisters to marry rich men way go lift their family from poverty

oglalasioux:
The truth is that there is high poverty in Nigeria. Even men are praying to meet women with money. Everyone is trying to make a bargain that will liberate them from poverty. I don’t blame anyone, especially women, trying to marry someone with money. Poverty is staring all of us in the face.

Are married women not sex objects who are slept with for free by their husbands way go still give her STIs from gallivating around?

Mitsurugi:
Men dey! And yet you keep crying that men see you only as a sex object. Kwantinue! Una pastor don kuku comot hand for una matter

If a wise woman can do this for herself, wetin she need husband for, especially as men are not loyal and also don't like to do chores? Na mu.mu woman dey marry sha

saintopus:
We have a very long way to go in this country. The young girls will be the greatest hit.
For those who wants to get married, ensure that you marry a lady who has the ability to take care of herself, by this I mean, she should be able to work and rent her own house, buy her own food, clothes herself, buy medicines for herself when sick, buy data for herself, etc.
See, make no body deceive you, Nigeria isn't getting better.
It's going to get worse.
To the young, go ahead and learn a skill. It will pay you better.
If you choose education, well, I won't judge you but your journey will be long.

My candid advice from experiences in marriage.

I know, but u dey pray make ur sister marry rich man ooo

PartnerusIsBack:
How most Nigerian ladies descended this low is beyond my imagination.

Who gave u the right to correct a woman who is not ur relative? U think that u r superior to a woman because that is what scam religion tells u? The same woman who can birth u? U no well

Foresight55:
Give us old time religion, it was good for us. Imagine correcting a young girl nowadays, she turn and call you names because of levels she felt she as attain

U must be senseless to believe what was written about women in that scam religious text. Overall, women are way better than men. u r more likely to be kpied by ur fellow man than by a woman

cr7lomo:
Women are really doing the work for the devil... na them chop apple, invite devil ...na still them sleep with fallen angels wey make dem born Nephilims , wey make God destroy this world with water the first time and those women turned to mermaids we hear about today ... na still them de promote nudity and sex ...na still them de support gay ...na still.dem de protest say mk society allow them to be killing the babies in their womb ...na still dem de celebrate divorce , na still.dem de do paternity fraud , thereby making it a possibility for incest...., the latest be say na still dem de protect women wey kill.their pikin for house ....na still.dem de distribute diseases

Women in 2026 dey work ooo and rent beautiful houses. Abeg leave 1920 and come back to 2026

HighChiefZino:
Men dey until they are 40 years old for dem papa house, dem go know how far

Na woman way no wise dey find husband, especially as most men are not loyal. A wise woman will focus on making her money and enjoy life without a man. The wives at home are at risk of getting STIs. Na woman way no wise dey marry man

TechCapon:
Later they'll be crying that no husband when they've useless themselves

Love has always been transactional with men. It appeared not to be transactional in those days because women were gullible. Now that women have sense, they know its not worth it to stay with a broke man. A woman who is not fortunate to meet a wealthy man can choose to remain single for life

Evergreen4:
Love is transactional these days. There's nothing like unconditional love among these generation.

Go and marry your fellow men who are sensible. If you want children, go and pay surrogates. These are the ways u can avoid women who are not sensible

ignis:
If we can't find sensible wives even in the church, then where should we then go? night clubs?

Men get monopoly of social vices ooo. U don see female bandits team? Women in 2026 dey feed their parents ooo. Go online and see women renting and furnishing houses that may be better than their father's house

tiswell:
Now,that was more of an emotion than logic.

No gender has the monopoly of social vices. Besides, that's not the topic in context.
The mindset of today's ladies towards relationship and marriage will keep a whole lot of them in their father's house for a very long time.

Una want woman way go manage with you, but want rich men for your sisters

Kajaard:
This genders thinking has been permanently rewired to be leeches.

I blame men for this

Men claim that they benefit nothing from marriage. Why una come dey find wife material? U can marry ur fellow man na since men no get any wahala

GanagiBitrus:
Finding a wife-material these days, is like looking for a Nigerian who has stayed one year without telling lies.

Without the social vices that are carried out by men, the world will be majorly peaceful. U r more likely to be kpaied by a man than a woman

tiswell:
Name one single social vice(s) that women aren't involved in this present day

Only fo.olish women practice religion that sees her as the inferior gender

ednut1:
women are never consulted when making these rullings. if they recite it during their period how would anyone even know?

Yes, which is why wise women with money don't get married.

jericco1:
Yeah right
And wealth for both gender is not a crime

U better abandon scam religion in 2026. There is no God in heaven talkless of the words of pastors (all religious leaders are scammers) meaning anything

Bankowner:
My girlfriend and I discussed this matter yesterday, and I mentioned the very heavy spiritual implication of what Pastor Bolaji did beyond the lighthearted joke the ladies in the congregation thought it to be.

Condemning his own congregation to imminent and certain destruction in today's Christianity, to me, is extreme and uncalled for. The ladies are not people you're ministering to for the first time but the Biblical instruction to dust your shoes is for new territories where they refuse to welcome you and listen to the message you bring.

Are you very sure about men being the guardians of morals and decency in any society? Which gender dey majorly grape small children and even babies? which gender are the bandits? which gender are majorly armed robbers? I await your answers

MrPresident1:
Men are the guardians of morals and decency in any society. Once the men are of poor quality and debased, you can expect their women to be poor quality

Na gullible religious folks dey reason say any power dey inside the spoken words of pastors (all religious leaders are scammers). They no fit even cure headache talkless of their curses working. Na mu.mu dey practice scam religion in 2026

Juoflife1:
The pastor has anger issues. What he did is unacceptable. He cursed them

Man way dey earn 350k and woman way dey earn 150k have no business getting married. They should hustle to survive in this life and later join their ancestors. Otherwise, na so them go bring children into poverty and those children will lay curses on them. Scam religion is the reason why people see the need to give birth

Gbadugbakun:
‎One thing I believe men need to understand is that being in a relationship does not automatically make you financially responsible for another adult. Unfortunately, the culture of expecting men to provide everything, regardless of their financial capacity or the woman's own earning potential, is encouraged by men who fail to establish healthy boundaries.

‎Imagine a man earning 350k monthly who willingly gives his girlfriend 150k every month. That leaves him with 200k to cover his own needs, bills, savings, family responsibilities, and emergencies.
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‎Yet, tomorrow, the same woman would turn around and ask, What have you even done for me? simply because he refuses to continue spending beyond his means.
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‎I had the privilege of attending university, and from my experience, men and women pursue education, complete NYSC, compete for jobs, and build careers. In many workplaces, women are not only employed but also occupy significant leadership positions.
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‎Of course, opportunities are not always equal in every industry or circumstance. However, the reality is that many women have the capacity to earn, build businesses, develop careers, and become financially independent.
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‎So, if two adults are capable of working and earning an income, why should one person automatically bear the entire financial responsibility simply because they are the man in the relationship?
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‎Men need to understand that being a gentleman does not mean abandoning common sense. You can be loving, generous, supportive, and responsible without allowing someone to take your kindness for granted. There is a difference between willingly supporting your partner and being made to feel inadequate whenever you cannot provide money.
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‎Men, stop confusing financial sacrifice with proof of love. You do not have to impoverish yourself to prove that you care.
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‎Pay attention to her attitude towards money. Does she have personal goals? Is she making any effort to improve her circumstances? Does she appreciate your sacrifices? Can she contribute according to her ability, or does she believe your income automatically belongs to both of you while hers remains exclusively hers?
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‎These are important questions to ask before committing to a future together.

I never see a being that is as useless as the God of heaven. Even the most useless human being is better than the useless God way our colonisers lie say he dey for heaven

Image123:
The pastor should see/recognize that he's not taking his members anywhere close to God or heaven. It's feedback. He has a lot of work to do as their shepherd. It's another matter if he himself knows what he's doing or where he's going. If it's business or earthly hustle, he's nothing to worry about. But if it's following Jesus, hmmm.

I understand that the women are delusional because most Nigerians are poor. However, only fo.olish women cry about not having a man. Having a man in the life of a woman increases her stress, especially if the man is not wealthy. Its better for a woman to remain single for life than marry a man who isn't wealthy. Singleness for both gender is not a crime

jericco1:
He has done his job.. they will come back crying very soon