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PJtech:
Why you come dey zuzu

RealityKings:
Nonsense! what do you mean by you not being rich? Don't you have wealth and mansions stored in heaven?

As a matter of fact, why should you be bothered about earthly wealth?
Leave the earthly wealth and struggles to me. Go home....

RealityKings:
What about hunger and lack?
Does he have power over that too?

franchasng:
If all you wrote are true, then you won't be judged badly if you end the marriage with her and remarry your ex.

You are lucky your nice ex is still single, so run back to her fast and never look back.


But I hope you and your wife don't have any child yet? I won't be happy if children are involved, if no child, please divorce her asap and never look back, that's if all you narrated are true

PJtech:
See someone that Jesus died for🤔😳

imustsaymymindo:
Here you go advising people not to rush and you are failing in your own advise the second time rushing to want to get married to an ex.

What I am certain of is that your ex would deal with you more than your wife.

Why don't you use this period of pain to build and upgrade yourself? Cut off your ex. Stay away from sex from your wife and her money. Use the time to learn as much skills as you can and own your life. Choose yourself. Live like you are single and do the things you love that'd make you stay off sex(it's just for a while till you become a man who is perceived to have options). Sports, gym, chill with your other male friends, network, get updated.

From my experience, "people love those who love themselves". And that is why your wife doesn't love you.

RealityKings:
Frustrate her before you leave the marriage bro. Just don't leave in peace because she fooled you and wasted your time and resources.

I have a well drafted plan to achieve the frustration master plan If you are interested

Farfalla:
Mr. Man, if you want to ignore your wife or walk out on her go right ahead. Na you sabi. But your children are your responsibility regardless of how you feel about their mother. You don't bring children into this world just to "ignore" them because you need to prove a point.

Your anger is valid but your children should not be punished as a result.

johnog4sure:
Thank you, your story really helped me, I am also contemplating divorce right now, and my story is similar to yours, I invested heavily in my wife's business yet she looked into my eyes and said "YOUR MONEY IS NOT IN MY SHOP" I dated her for 5 years married her and had a kid, yet this happened, my friend in London I just spoke to is having similar problem, your advice won't work, and yes people change even in science it is believed that every 7 years you are no longer the same person you used to be seven years earlier.

My own advice is that MEN BE SELFISH(put yourself first and sometimes yourself alone, ignore wife ignore children they all will be fine even without you) I know it is hard for good men to take this advice, even me I am struggling to take my own advice

advanceDNA:
Sounds like made up story...

Anyway.....

....virgin or no virgin...that one not concern me
Be sure u connect sexually with your woman ....if she doesn't show crazy flaming desire for you...but just spreads legs once in a while u approach...na one chance be that...
If you dey regularly hear..." don't worry u will enjoy it when we marry" .......werey japa!! .. ur egungun don nearly reach express.

...check her kindness & sacrifice level towards you, others around, her folks and your folks ....woman wey no fit buy ordinary bread when she dey come visit u....cut am off....woman wey nor dey ask about your folks, na werey.....only give me, give me, give me...transport fare to visit u seff..na u go pay...

.too much money nor dey let true color show. ..baba...u must form total broke or job loss before u marry woman....u gats check ur woman team playing spirit.......werey too much for street... All they married for now is to never pay bill...their team work contribution na to spread legs...

At the end of the day....if u end up with one wèrèy wey dey make u miserable ....no over think am..no let anybody blackmail u with "marriage is not for kids" so u must be suffering and managing ur wife's dirty, wicked & insensitive behavior....oga ade ...lè wèrèy sí gbó....if she nor gree comot....oga...leave am for house comot...

Oracleee:
He starts the procedure again and find someone new. And If that didn't work out, he can start where he stopped again.


I'm an advocate of divorce if it deals a blow on the mental health. I suppose Christianity made it look bad which is the problem as even Paul who wrote that part of the bible never got married or knows what it feels like living with a woman. Americans don't believe in polygamy hence the high divorce rate. Muslims believes in polygamy hence the low divorce rate.

Successtube:
We have no kids yet. I have asked her so many times what she uses her money for, but all I get is silence.

MissOpe:
Contrary to what you might think, I don't normally do this, cos my mother and father keep their important documents in my father's drawer..However, three weeks ago, while preparing for my father's funeral, I was compelled to sort through his drawers.What I found was overwhelming ,a treasure trove of documents and memories. There were his school certificates, wedding documents from 1984, childhood photos, and shares certificates purchased years ago, now worthless. As I scanned through these documents, I couldn't help but break down in tears, strucked by the nature of life. It made me wonder, are we all just living to die?

beyondPen:
Non talk. How will Americans leave America and come to Ghana in droves?

Can you explain if you can reason?

Alliswell248:
SW is not competing with you.
The number of your brothers in SW alone is x10, the reverse in the SE.
Tell us, which region is the safest in 9ja.?

SW provide evidence not noise

Zwooks:
Is this worth celebrating?

I have many people who live around there. Did the government share any memo stating that they didn't want Korope to operate ?


You just lean on your " Our land mentality " and view everything through this narrow perspective without considering the bigger picture.


You half baked wit. Product of failed academic system


You half baked wit

PissInside:
Fake ass shit.

Nigerians are too gullible

mbahdi:
Pdp is a useless party what the useless moronic occultic idiotic man called wike is still doing in pdp is what I don't understand why haven't them expel d idiot

PerfectStranger:
God name don suffer for una mouth. Judgement day go brutal. End time pastor

Brendaniel:
The truth is train is best for long distance journeys, train just like planes are best for long distance travel, so how can you say bye bye to cars because of train?

Can train take you to your gate or door step?

Nomercie:
This is why we lead and attract many hatred to ourselves,it's nothing Lagos lead.