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Tunagee:
You are a real psychologist. You painted it, the way it seemed and what she and her family perceived. Job loss is now endemic, and it's still happening. A lady told me that not all ladies are into material things as such,but they just need expression of care and love towards them.
She and her mum are scared that abuse and maltreatment may get worse if I don't have a better job, hence the mum's advise that I should get a job.
Thanks bro

I love ur sincerity and ability to withstand the insult passed on by many singles and undiscerning minds.
Continuously following this thread will exhust u of useful time. Kindlygetcto work with the many advices u have been given.

Saw this post; was sent to me by my brother who saw similarity with my situation. You must have put in lots of effort and sent lots of representations to her. I guess ur FIL is late. The real problem is with ur MIL. She wields a strong influence over ur wife throughout the duration of u marriage. She's been all ears for ur wife during times of differences with ur wife. Besides your wife may not hv any other friend she confides in aside from ur MIL.
You can't kill Ur MIL. She remains ur MIL.
Your wife has become Unreachable since her mother blocks approach to her.
She is now a sales girl to her aunt( she prefers to be a servant to her mother than enjoy freedom in ur house).
You've not said if u have children so far and where they are now, if yes.
U said well when u considered ur age and the process of divorce which is unthinkable (fine).
You are a GOOD man like me. And that's the problem.
Good men go to hell while Bad boys go to heaven.
Being Good man has not helped us. But becoming a bad boy is easy but not at old age. We've become calcified(completely formed as good boys).
Have u been screwing women this past 10 months. If yes. Then how would the good GIRL cope. Something must be amis (except for rare few).
You have done what u outh to have done.
My Suggestion, not mine but the LORD'S. I know I have his spirit.:
IT IS REAL THAT UR WIFE WILL NEVER SUFFER WITH U BUT EAT WITH U. She will only return when u've got the money. So, let her exercise her freedom as long as her mother lives. God forbids, something really bad happens to the mother, then her eyes will open. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF n LOOK GOOD. TRAVEL Stay with ur good-distant friend n GET a JOB. Stay off the grid of social media for 3 months n bar off calls to ur real line. Operate with a new sim. God, our God of Good men will bless ur loving heart.