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@msjackson
I appreciate your bringing this matter here to get diverse opinion on the matter, sis Jackson. I also appreciate the mature advice from most individuals who realises the technicalities here (1) in-laws (2) Child of 4 years disclosing such after 3 months (3) the single witness to the matter (4) your respect for your hussy and the marriage. (5) Peace, etc.
Putting all together I believe u know better what to do now than u earlier intended.
Most of those who advised you correctly are not of the same Church (Religious organization) with u, otherwise u would have thought they were being too simple and part of a Bigger cover up as it applies in some churches. But the Truth is: "in the mouth of 2 or more a matter can be established even in the church (congregation) or court at the event of such denial by the 15 year old.
msjackson, your hussy was initially in your side and still is.
Leave Vegeance for .... Her acts will surely catch up with her Sooner than u expect and at that time I will have to just stay mute and watching them being shamed. But I hope she turns around Sooner.

Meanwhile, ur case reminds me to be more courteous for my 3 yr old son surounded by female house maids

kbower:
I have been handling this over the last 11 years, not like am being complacent, but God will handle the rest for me.

I just finished reading thru all the comments beginning from 8am today too this very min. Guy, you must definitely be as old as me (in your early 40s or late 30s). I followed through with your adjusted attitude towards her calls especially, and probably your prayers, which may have resulted to her coming to her senses. Thanks to God. That was just one of those things women, whatever their status, face on a daily basis. Keep commending her for such accomplishments. More of such will come her way and she will successfully come off unscathed, hopefully.
But e no go easy for u Sha as you eventually join up with her.
I don't wish to see you on NL again with further details. C how small CHILDREN dey insult u.
As for me i dey 9ja, and will give my kids the best of education as my money can afford and go oversees on vacation with them every so often.
Y? Ask David, Obi Cubana, Chief Priest and Wizkid to relocate and here from them.
Y don't the Hausa man Relocate as much as other ethnic groups?
Leave matter Sha.
Besides,I don't want to be a murderer or for domestic violence as a result of being driven to madness by such attitudes from wife and my destiny is ruined as I spend the rest of my life in jail.
Best of luck bro

engray:
EPISODE 4
... December 2020, I got a call from one of those companies I had sent my CV to for unsolicited jobs. The first thing the lady (who is currently my boss) told me was, I saw your CV and I like it. It sounded like I heard Joe Biden telling me to pack my luggage and come to the United States.
she wasn't the HR but somehow my CV got to her and my experience was relevant to the department she's heading, she did a mini interview for me to feel my weight right on the phone. She asked how much I was willing to take as salary I mentioned but her response to me suggested I fumbled on that part. so I took my mind of it and continued with my blind firing.
My people , May 2021, I received an email from the organization's HR for a virtual 45 min interview. I had 3-4 days to prepare. I prepared like it was an interview to enter Heaven. I have never prepared for interview like that in my life. The d-day came, 45mins of virtual interview was like 5mins. Adequate preparation paid off really well. And of course God was 100% in control. I was asked how much I'm willing to take. I mentioned and there was no arguments/negotiations. 3weeks after the interview, I got an offer beyond my surprise. This included a very comprehensive HMO for wife and four kids.
I resumed the job July 2021 with probationary period of 6 months. The 6 months will be ticked this January 2022. Guess what? Another surprise that happened.
December 31st 2021, I received a promotion letter while still on probation. I am dazed till now.
Let me also add that it's a remote job. I work right from inside my house with my boxers.Lol

My fellow Nigerians job hunting, I understand the pains you're going through. The pains of rejections, the pains of failing that interview, The pains of joblessness itself. The pains of being broke. I have been through it. Please don't give up, Don't relent. Trust the process, and carry God along. Change strategies, take certifications, do volunteer jobs, you can as well take unpaid internship jobs and be intentional about making the best of the experience. And don't forget, let your CV be a verb and express quantifiable results you achieved.
This year, you'll get your Congratulation letter for that job.

I am really impressed with ur strategies and consequent result. But just for my curiosity, forsake any possible misconception, how old are you now?
What was your study area, and present job spec

fizzy33:
Pls find a better agency .Can't advise you to go for them.

Thanks