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UyaiIncomparabl:
I follow the Bible's rule to marriage. I don't know about you. So, leave me to my facts.

A man should love the woman more, and that is a FACT!

No worry

Na body go tell you.

pythondance2020:
Lol, so you think just providing and loving a woman is enough to keep her. Just to give you some insight, I sacrificed so many things to please this person which drained me in the process. At the end of I felt like a squeeze orange.
If you really want someone that would truly love you scrap that idea.
I have actually witnessed true love before without spending a dime but even true love sometimes has its unique problems because it can lead to obsession.

Those people do come around but for one reason or the other people no dey hold them tight

staymore:
No be small Bleep up o. You aeem to be a master at the game. However, after the incident each time I come home my 4yr daughter will tell me that mummy was praying that nobody can take me her husband from her.

I think she allocates more blame to the girl than me.
Mind you, I have repented.

Guy do all you can to make up with madam abeg. All these things they cause future issues

staymore:
When she decided to sneak into my chat was when the trouble started and right from then her love has dropped beyond 50%

We were watching Black Panther on my phone one night and I slept off, when she noticed I was far gone asleep she opened my whatsapp nd messenger and read my messages.

The one that got her badly was the one a girl was confessing that she has never had it the way I gave it to her the previous day, that the f**k was "hot and sweet", my lovely wife started saying everything in this world to me.

I couldn't even say a word, she cried and I just closed my eyes pretending I was sleeping.

Since then, hmmm! Its four months now and it has not been as it used to even as I have repented.

U sef why u fuckup? Na una type of man they put other men for wahala now women go dey act anyhow.

tegrianonigltd:
If woman love you, you don’t need to impress her, you don’t need to do extraordinaries, that’s why you see a woman can be fucking boy wey no reach you self with the money wey man dey give her. Women need to love man more. Men can have gf outside and still respect their wife, but if woman start to Dey collect penis outside, forget it, that marriage is over, that relationship is under duress

Na so nau. Because of their manipulative and opportunistic nature na woman suppose love man more in the marriage.

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bigdammyj:
Believe it Bro, we just leaving like two (not friends) people sharing apartment

Both of you should go for counseling

Attraction can and does grow over time.

tegrianonigltd:
He is correct, a woman should love more, most women cheat emotionally, most men cheat without emotions. Once a woman cheats that way, she can even plan to kill the husband, or drain him or destabilize him to be wit that person.

Exactly. Any one who has proper relationship experience will tell you that na woman suppose love more, more especially in this Nigeria where women tend to fraud guys in relationship.

sript:
OK thanks..

I had peep to her chart with her male bestie, mehn she Flet slot with him.. the bestie calling her all sorts of sweets name.. my head wan burst.. though no mention of getting down sha

Shebi person don talk am before.....na the bestie they run the package.....lol..... dating a chica who has a male bestie na dangerous territory o

judedwriter:
Yes, a man should love a woman more in courtship or marriage. The Bible even enjoins it.

The man is head and should shoulder more responsibility in handling a relationship.

Many marriages fail when the woman takes the man's role.

Only if I was in a relationship with a foreign. Not these heartless wicked dubious Nigerian women. Best thing to happen to any guy is to get a girl who really loves you oooo may God bless us with that special girl.

sript:
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bro u are right on point... I mean oil dey ur head

I mean she now do anything in front of me.. she receives call the way she likes and even with little fear but guy man no fit talk..
some girls can be foolish o.. I mean this supposed new guy leaves in Lagos while we are in ondo state

...i now see y some guys commit suicide

Exactly the issue with these kinds of situations

Even me I go free her eventually

This is how these girls set themselves up for heartbreak

Of all the guys in Ondo na the one wey dey Lagos she dey pursue

Na so one wey I dey reason dey pursue guy wey dey delta state

Make God bless us with the person who go love we for we

Theres nothing better than that.

fati2001:
Hmmmm.

.

He's right.

Zzor:
I don't support any lady who cheats because of lack of attention yen yen yen, if you can't cope in a relationship simply walk out with your head up and shoulders high.Go and concentrate on your studies and leave love alone for now.School love? count me out,I can never reason a student,its all nonsense.Hope you are not having sex,say no to premarital sex.

Yeah.....you're right Sha.

sript:
its three years and less than two months since I've been dating my girlfriend .At the beginning it was great and everything was rosy, she was head and heels in love with me. sincerely she loved me more than I love her, after a year of our dating I saw how deep she loves me and she was dead serious about it. so, I decided to love her even with ounce of my energy.. for two good years everything seems perfect to an extent I never entertained the thought of any woman. But along the line, she cheated on me and she confided to a good male friend of hers (even I didn't know him the time) so he advised her to quit the relationship which she did. she told me all about it I was hurt but I forgave her on the ground that Im madly in love with her and because she was the who told me herself, and I saw indeed she truly sorry and I quickly forgot and everything went back to normal.

years passed, she would complain about me not calling her often, (which I was guilty of) she would text me but wouldn't reply (this one ehn, I'm really not texting type... also guilty)

when it comes to calling, it was as if I was not totally calling her, I called when I only have airtime cause Im a student and almost always broke. being an understanding girl she would be like IF U DON'T HAVE AIRTIME JUST FLASH, yet I was busy with other stuff and not paying much attention to her (I regretted it)
while all these was going on, my love for her was /is undeniable.. but my greatest undoing was not paying much attention as she asking demand..




Back home. due to corona, weeks passed so I noticed changes in her I decided to confront her, she said she has moved on it was there I realized my biggest mistake of my life.. so I pleaded but to no avail, even her her own male bestie plea was not enough.. I kept on cause I'm afraid of losing her., after about two weeks she told me she doesn't feel anything for me that I've ignored her for too long ..i met her younger sister and immediate elder brother to help me talk to her.. Months has gone by now since she accepted me back and that she forgiven me , but I realized she was not wasn't given me attention she now give me some little attitude.. she told me in other to be able to get her full attention I have a lot of work to do, though she still loves me because I have damaged a lot in her, and a guy is now in her life.




my question is, how long will I wait till she gets back to me (cause I been doing more now than before financially, attention etc)
or I should
walk away? (simp?)
I do love this babe like crazy

I dey similar situation with you. Met her last year at place of work. She loved me for who I was, deeply. And I did love her too. She was a hyper romantic and wanted a lot of attention which I couldn't deliver on a lot of the time because of my busy schedule and my not very romantic personality which made her question my love for her almost constantly. after a series of disagreements, I took rash decisions out of impatience (which is one of my weaknesses) which cemented her belief that I didn't love her and she Changed drastically. I begged her severally for us to go back to the way things were but she never changed so I broke things up improperly (impatience maybe?). Few months later I called to apologize about Everything and for me to right the wrongs of the past. She says she forgives me but we can only be friends. Even at that, her behaviour still doesn't even reflect forgiveness or the willingness for us to be friends on her part. The reality of this kind of matter is that even if you guys get back together, it will never be like before and you will be at the receiving end. She will have freedom to do anything she wants and you no go fit do anything about am cause na she get upper hand. Even me I'm finding it hard to move on but I think that's the best thing to do. It will never be the same again even if she forgives me and you. A lesson to guys. If you find that girl that really loves you, try not to screw things up. Everytime I remember her, Bruno Mars "when I was your man" comes to mind.

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