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Computers › Re: Mint HP Elitebook Folio 9480m For Sale by phazotron(op): 10:40pm On May 15, 2020
gideon243:
70k?
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Computers › Mint HP Elitebook Folio 9480m For Sale by phazotron(op):
500gb HDD
6gb ram
Core i5
Keyboard light
Fully OK and ready to rock

90k slightly negotiable

Call or WhatsApp 08084697651 if interested

Computers › Re: New HP 840/845/850/855/745/750/755/zbook14/zbook15u Battery For Sale by phazotron(op): 8:52pm On May 14, 2020
dxdiag:
Do you have for HP Probook 6560b?

If yes, kindly quote your price and address location in full.
No sir
Computers › Re: New HP 840/845/850/855/745/750/755/zbook14/zbook15u Battery For Sale by phazotron(op): 2:02pm On May 14, 2020
bright1985:
ur location
Computer village ikeja
Technology Market › New HP 840/845/850/855/745/750/755/zbook14/zbook15u Battery For Sale by phazotron(op): 8:29am On May 14, 2020
Brand new HP battery for sale

Compatible with HP 840/845/850/855/745/750/755/zbook14/zbook15u

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Computers › New HP 840/845/850/855/745/750/755/zbook14/zbook15u Battery For Sale by phazotron(op): 8:23am On May 14, 2020
Brand new hp battery for sale

Compatible with HP 840/845/850/855/745/750/755/zbook14/zbook15u

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Technology Market › Mint UK Used HP Zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op):
HP zbook 15
Core i5
500gb HDD
8gb ram
2gb nvidia graphics
1080p display
Bright spots on bottom left corner of screen

105k negotiable

Call or WhatsApp 08084697651 if interested

Technology Market › Re: Dell E7440 For Sale by phazotron(op): 6:44am On May 14, 2020
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Computers › Re: Dell E7440 For Sale by phazotron(op): 6:43am On May 14, 2020
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Technology Market › Re: Dell E5470 For Sale by phazotron(op): 6:42am On May 14, 2020
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Computers › Re: HP Zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op): 6:42am On May 14, 2020
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Computers › Re: Dell E5470 For Sale by phazotron(op): 6:41am On May 14, 2020
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Computers › Re: Dell E5520 For Sale by phazotron(op): 6:40am On May 14, 2020
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Technology Market › Re: Dell E5520 For Sale by phazotron(op): 6:40am On May 14, 2020
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Romance › Re: Omoyele Sowore by phazotron(m): 12:24am On May 13, 2020
Get ready to be calling her 3 times a day and be ready for endless talk

Be ready to give her plenty attention

And be ready for unnecessary fight
Romance › Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by phazotron(m): 12:17am On May 13, 2020
Eyeness:
The long and short of this article is written in bold.

Men spend money on the things they care about. If they aren’t spending money on you they don’t care about you!!.

That's the simple truth sweetheart.


The way they demonstrate that something is important to them is by putting money into it. They can spend money on bet9ja, on a suit, on PS5 and so on because that is what they care about. This is why so many fathers are completely emotionless with their children, yet they have no problem giving them money and gifts. That’s the only way they know how to display affection. Children of emotionally unavailable fathers grow up to be adults that complain about this in therapy.

If the reason is because he’s broke, you shouldn’t be dealing with him anyway. Stop worrying about broke men’s feelings and stop trying to explain your decisions to them. It doesn’t matter why you arent interested in them. The fact that you’re one less woman they can’t have access to will infuriate them, making them open lady bashing threads to vent their frustration. Regardless of your reason why. The fact that you have the agency to choose the better man for your needs will infuriate them, regardless of your reason why. E.g Ubunja Martinez39 Greatresearcher1 Kennedyiheme02 and the other so called woke guys of the REDPILL troupe.


Poor men hate women too and are not more likely to treat you any better than a man who has money and resources, just because he came from hUmbLe bEgiNnIngs. There are millions of poor men in both first and third world countries who abuse women. Their socioeconomic level has nothing to do with how much empathy they have for women. In fact, you’ll hear many poor men blame their mothers for their poverty. E.g childofdoom


Money is the only real security in the society we’re in and men know it, yet they like to tell women it’s not important but it is. Poverty has a way of making love take the backseat. It’s in men’s best interest to hoard wealth, it’s in their best interest to make sure women continue to be paid less than them. They don’t think your high paying career is “too masculine and therefore unattractive” simply because you are in the highest position in an office full of men and are wearing a suit. They know if you have a job that pays you well, you are much less likely to put up with their bullshit and bend over backwards for them. Men are turned on by women who show signs of socioeconomic instability, hence the “damsel in distress” trope that they love. A great example of this is the abundance of pornography where the Roleplay is all about how the woman couldn’t afford to pay for a service, so she used her body as payment.

All men know that deep down they are energy vampires and most women would have no incentive to put up with them if they didn’t need something. They want to be needed. They’ll even say it themselves sometimes. “Men like to feel useful and needed! If you feminists women don’t need us for anything what’s the point?” They don’t see a point in being romantic with you if you are self sufficient, but when you hold them to what they say and start asking for things, suddenly they have an issue with that too.

Sex is the easiest thing to get out of a man. They’ll give you plenty of sex and attention because it’s free, it’s the main thing they care about, and they don’t lose any of their wealth or resources doing it. What they don’t like doing however, is giving women security. I browse many forums and groups because I like to hear the perspectives of all sorts of women. I have seen women in the sugar baby/sex work game complain about how men have no problem giving them their allowance or payment in the form of physical gifts like a purse, a pair of heels, or a necklace. When the women stress that they want physical cash for their time so they can split that money up in ways that’s most beneficial for them, suddenly the “it’s too transactional” excuse jumps out. It’s bullshit. They don’t want you in a better financial position because that means you’re less likely to need them in the future. These same men are usually high rollers in the fields of finance, or they’re entrepreneurs. They understand why certain items are a bad investment and if someone tried to pay them for their time with a new suit instead of cash, they’d sue.

It doesn’t matter how much men tell you they care about you. If they cared they’d provide you with security whether that is through cold hard cash or investing in your business. Hell, maybe you do really just want expensive gifts, whatever floats your boat. Define what security means to you, define what devotion from a man looks like to you and make sure they’re giving it to you. Otherwise, don’t waste your time.


To all the broke blokes who might want to vent their frustration on my thread, pls go and hustle and mind the business that pays you.

I'm that elder sister who tells it to you as it is ladies without the politeness and eye service. I don't try to be politically correct.


Remember to put yourself first.


In my next post, I'll get around to how to get men to spend money on you.
See this fool

Very soon well see u on nairaland front page as yahoo boy Victim

You think its by spending money on u hell value u

A guy can spend a ton of money on u just to have sex with u and once he's done hell dump u

A lot of guys are wary about spending because of women's fraudulent ways


Yes I don't spend anyhow in relationship until the girl shows me she's worth the money

Madam go and hustle so u won't become another mans bootycall/proustite worse still sacrificial meat for yahoo boys

U can choose to have sense and listen or continue along this path

Na the unfortunate girls wey go obey u I dey pity
Romance › Re: How Often Do You Call Your Partner In A Day? by phazotron(m): 12:11am On May 13, 2020
My ex was an attention freak

She always wanted us to talk morning afternoon night

Wanted me to call 3 times a day

Wasn't easy for me to keepup
Technology Market › Re: HP Zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op): 11:50pm On May 12, 2020
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Technology Market › Re: Dell E5520 For Sale by phazotron(op): 11:49pm On May 12, 2020
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Computers › Re: Dell E5520 For Sale by phazotron(op): 11:49pm On May 12, 2020
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Computers › Re: Mint UK used HP zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op): 11:43pm On May 12, 2020
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Computers › Re: Dell E5470 For Sale by phazotron(op): 11:42pm On May 12, 2020
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Computers › Re: HP Zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op): 11:42pm On May 12, 2020
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Computers › Re: HP Zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op): 10:13am On May 10, 2020
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Computers › Re: Dell E5470 For Sale by phazotron(op): 9:45am On May 10, 2020
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Technology Market › Re: Dell E5470 For Sale by phazotron(op): 9:44am On May 10, 2020
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Computers › Re: Mint UK used HP zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op): 9:43am On May 10, 2020
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Technology Market › Re: HP Zbook 15 For Sale by phazotron(op): 9:42am On May 10, 2020
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Computers › Re: Dell E5520 For Sale by phazotron(op): 9:42am On May 10, 2020
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Technology Market › Re: Dell E5520 For Sale by phazotron(op): 9:41am On May 10, 2020
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Join The Romantic Zone Platform On Whatsapp by phazotron(m): 11:26pm On May 09, 2020
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