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zanga420:
it is ok. Though d answer didnt precisely say 'yes or no'. Anyway we don't mind knowing d guy u're eyeing here, u know. It can help gofwane backoff. Reply, pls. Ritababe, evathyst darlings am i speaking our minds?

Afrok:
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osesology:
Ok, let't say I agree with what you are saying...but what about those that their wombs are nolonger there as a result of multiple abortions?

zanga420:
sorry to ask, u look familiar, somewhere like portharcourt n its environs. Am i correct?

Raymondenyi:
yes i didn't deem it necessary to take that into cognisance, my reason is simple, her story is incomplete, she should tell the whole reason why she was slapped, what did she do? For the man to have slapped her just once during the course of their relationship tells he is not really an abuser as she is trying to portend..... she might have stretched him beyond his capacities......

As regards the money part, do you know whether the man had any on him at that point in Time? She never denied the said man hasn't been spending on her before Now? Has she ever reciprocated same gestures ? Women should stop this vain attitude of I'm meant to take all, and only open my legs for him as a payback.... (that's the mindset of low life street hookers, show yourself some class woman.....)

netizenbuzz:
There is nothing wrong in expecting someone who claims to love you to step up when you are down. Y'all are talking this financial independence thing too far. There's love in sharing and it goes both ways. Stop decieving yourselves. Personally I would still expect you to offer and then I can politely decline. Not because I am a woman and you are a man but because I would do the same for you if you were in that situation. She's not immature to be expectant please, she's only being human. How can you claim you love someone and you are not ready to give your all to the person? That is what I call immaturity because you obviously don't know what love is.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible for readers to offer their advice which you direly seek....




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Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so i'll as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage which is often trivialise by kids of today.....
Bros,let me ask you a question. Will you be there and the woman you said you love needs assistance and you watch her get it outside? Come on,be realistic.


*for those quoting me on inanitis, you are only wasting your time as i will not reciprocate the privilege*

agarawu23:
its a relationship and not a job opportunity or ur source of income. go hustle n gt d money urself.

prevail23:
tnx dear,u look gorgeous on ur profile picture