AfricanApple:
I will give u a deaf ear and snub u, u will eventually get tired and back off

Yeah...... Someone has a poor sense of humor. Who the hell uses pickup lines anyways. But just for you. I would run that line on you because I can. Lighten up.

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

You are a rare breed of woman. Now if more women had that mentality (black women), we could run this sh*yt. Instead of adding to the divorce rate.

JiggamanGh:


lol, u must have a reason.

Where in Pa do u live? And if u don't mind me asking how r u?

Wow. I thought I was the only Penn resident on this site.

By the way.... that wasn't an attack on chigoizie7. I used his quote because he seemed to be the only one to answer the question.

chigoizie7:





seriously? people does not even know the meaning of flirting. in a nut shell. flirting is when u make people of the opposite sex want u sexually or otherwise, but the moment they seem to get close to u, u withdraw all communications,making them want u the more, my 2cents

Oh I love this website! I see why so many folks don't like when chicks flirt. Hell, most guys can't identify when a girl is flirting anyways. There in Nigeria, here in America or anywhere for that matter.

I'll give everyone that sees my this post a tip. A sweet tip actually. Picture you chilling with a buddy and you are rapping about life, sports, and women. That is standard protocol between folks that have no sexual interest in each other.

Now picture your buddy overly commenting certain things about you. Imagine your buddy (who is a guy) cuddling up with you. How about taking your hand or constantly touching you. Last but not least, and this is crucial..... If your buddy has a change in voice tonality when talking to you that is different than with other people? How would that make you feel. Weird right? Change the person's sex but keep the situations that I mentioned a sec ago. If it was a girl doing all that, that would give you a feeling too. Of course not the, "that's gay" feeling. If you experience that, she's more than likely flirting. If the OP is doing that.... she's probably flirting.

AfricanApple:
'are you from kogi? u look like someone I know...' - stale

'angel, you look beautiful...' - even when they know hers is not a success story in the face department


I cant even remember most of dem

u guys are so gifted with authentic lies eh but we are also gifted with lie detectors

wait... op said 'guys', but I still had to comment eh
dis girl no dey hear word sef

I just walk up to an attractive girl waiting at a bus stop. Stand side by side with her. Get her eye contact. Smile. She smiles back. Then I lean over to her and whisper in her ear in a oh so seductive voice...... "My schlong is F'N huge". That's my go to line. LOL!!! Ha!

Acidosis:
I see lots of friendzoned dudes on this thread

Yeah man! The thirst is real. Too many thirsty dudes on this website. Who knew it was this bad in Nigeria.

I wondering what my man's responses are going to be when he reads those other posts. LOL!

I think you guys are on to something. You ever see that movie "Don't Be a Menace to South Central"? When you see a chick you like, pull out a 45 caliber gun and put it to her head like, "What's your phone number? Now!". Then once you get the number, bounce her tiddy with the gun and be out. Haa!

But seriously, help a fellow brother in the struggle folks! That's why the idea of wooing and flawed concepts of courtship are so common today. Chicks work together to enforce this. It ain't natural. We're not givers, we're takers. You think cave men wrote poems and confessed their love on one knee? F' NO! The bopped broads over the head and drug them to the cave where the candles were already lit. Champagne glasses full, and dino meat on a plate. Be gotta stick together. I'm helping and get help from my folks here every day about stuff like that, cause the chicks here are ruthless. And it gets worse elsewhere. So show that guy some love. Help that man! (Now picture Al Sharpton or Martin Luther King saying that statement, to help drive things home. )

And Word up about that friend-zone thing. That sh! t sucks. Hard as hell to get out of. Don't be a friend, but approach and visualize her as a person you were already friends with. No sense in hiding the fact that you want to bone with being friends. She already knows. She knows you want her for something, and it ain't just being friends.

While it is still on my mind. You will also want to change the way you think about the male to female dynamic. You weren't put on this earth to woo anybody. You were born to be the best man you can be. Don't just be yourself, because right now, that isn't working the way you want it to. Be your best self. That attracts women like a magnet. When you go out to meet women, you are looking for someone that is on your level. She has to be more than just a pretty face. If she doesn't have conversation, leave her where she stands and move on to the next. If she lacks something you want her to have, NEXT!! Don't waste your time with a chick that doesn't have EVERYTHING you want. Even if she is just there for sex. Because if you should fall for her, then what? You end up having feelings for a girl that is lacking. Just don't get in confused with being arrogant. It's harder for me to explain much of this without writing a book. Plus it is also difficult because I don't know you on a personal level to be able to point out where you need improvement. But your state of mind is all I can find that needs work. Do that research and get into the Pickup Artist community. With time and practice, all the rambling i just did on this message board will all make sense. Trust me.

Wow. I really didn't expect this website to censor and change words. No freedom of speech on line. Where is this world going?