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frozen70:
Most single ladies do have mood swing and it can trigger up any time

If all she wants is to take care of she and her child, then you are at lost

Be sure of the love you share together before committing yourself into it

She too will bear child for you so there is no need for her to be repeating that statement

Just seat her down and tell her how you hate that statement

LilMissFavvy:
Oga end that relationship if she's not ready to get to love and understand you . The statement is pure nonsense*.

Richy4:
Sorry buddy.. if that was not the kind of answer u were looking for.. I might be wrong in your case though.....

But based on what u have written anyone who is not in love with your lady can that clearly read it....

Dkdavon:
What it means is that no matter what you bring to the table mostly negative like man usually do she is emotionally strong to withstand it.not that she does not like u or love but she is prepared for the worst

Richy4:
It means u are there to provide sex and warmth... She doesn't care about you as u think... It is a self explanatory handwriting on the wall...

Deborah98:
Women are emotional being and so whatever they do,they attach feelings and emotions to it..she might have been severally heartbroken and hurt by her past relationship that she fears opening up to you for fear of losing you. Well learn to be more like a brother than a friend to her. Take her on a date and calmly demand answers for things she does which are unclear to you. Talk with love and empathy. She will open up to you with time, don't let it bother you much.

thorpido:
So you can't simply understand what she means?
Once beaten,twice shy they say.She's still hurt from her former relationship and doesn't (at least for now) have any deep interest in men.She probably wants companionship and money but that is all.

thorpido:
So you can't simply understand what she means?
Once beaten,twice shy they say.She's still hurt from her former relationship and doesn't (at least for now) have any deep interest in men.She probably wants companionship and money but that is all.

Deborah98:
Which means all your investments is for her child. Reminds me of a single father of two coming for my hand in marriage one certain time,men and women I no gree ooo,I can't finish what I don't like that's just me. The man is okay financially and he even promised to help me complete my education na run I run seriously. These single parents to me are unknown traps hidden from our eyes maybe because of what we think they can offer. A good number of them are selfish while we still have the sincere ones. I will advise you seek counsel from old and wise people,study her more and find out what prompts those statements. If it be her ex milked her dry and left her and the child with nothing hence the statements. It's okay to care for your child but not at the detriment of someone's sweat, investments and time. Good luck.

Ahmed0336:
We wish you the best in your future endeavors.

Ladycewhy:
Tell us what else they offer that is not directly or indirectly linked to their financial capability.

frozen70:
Thanks dear

frozen70:
Thanks dear

frozen70:
Why are you in a hurry to birth a child and hope the mother will take care of the child till you are capable of such

This looks like gambling

Find your feet first and then think of how to make a home

A man's responsibilities over a child, starts from the very moment his woman becomes pregnant, so how do you want to have a sense of belonging on that child and mother when you can barely feed yourself

Pls do the right thing first, find you bearing

Well you may be lucky to have one woman that will accept your wishes

But you are likely not going to have peace of mind

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shilenji:
I moved out of my parents house mid 2020 to my rented apartment at the age of 18,even though my dad wasn't in support but there was nothing he could do because my mind was all made. I kinda look way past my age though and a lot of people have told me my reasoning is mature,I wasn't going out to suffer,I was going out to be on my own and live my life. The decision I took I haven't for a day regretted it.



I refused to disclose where I was moving to my parents because I know the life I wanted to live(semi wayward),but eventually I told my parents and they visited the first time,then it became continuous to the level that they come unannounced. I gave the estate gate men an order that they shouldn't allow visitors past the gate unless I give them the order to. All to no avail. I threatened not to pay them self.

My dad has familiarised himself with all the estate landlords. The one that shocked me the most is my landlord,my house is a rented single duplex and my landlord doesn't stay in the country. How my dad got his number I don't even know,they have become friends now. I have never liked being under anyone's roof as I have always craved being alone since my primary school days and now that I can afford to be on my own. I'm seriously tired, Though, I told my landlord to cut ties with my dad or else I'm not renewing my rent.

Being treated like a child irritates the hell out of me, I'm not dependent on anybody so why the hawk eye on ne. I'm thinking of moving away from this place, there is always this look I'm given whenever I attend estate meetings like I'm a criminal or something. Should I move? Should I just use this chance to go to a Nigerian university though I see it has a waste of time, I'm learning coding on my own and it's damn easy.

As to my topic: I want a kid too badly,I have a girlfriend, she works in a multinational company at Ikoyi, she's a bit older,she wants a kid with me too.

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Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls