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smsshola:
Shoro niyen...

speak English jor . u think everybody in NL is Yoruba

who has time for Yoruba movies anyway? abeg I dey busy with Hollywood.

jakiedudu:
Like op am introvert facing similar challenge but mine is a bit severe.
My case is not just the ladies, people of all ages and size find it hard to look me in the eye. At first it goes smooth from the beginning but after few seconds, they start looking away. Dont know if its due to my looks. I ask myself; why are people not making eye contact with me during conversation despite my handsomeness? (not braging). Am I intimidating and fearful for eye contact like Thomas Gibson? Even Gibson gets eye contact from people during conversation, why is my case different? These are the questions I ask myself. First I thought maybe they were shy. But how on earth can everybody be shy at me? Probably the way I look them in the eye is making them uneasy. So i refrain from making eye contact with people for the sole purpose of making them feel a bit more comfortable.
But Alas! The problem got worse. Not only are people not making eye contact with me, I started finding it difficult looking people in the eye as well. A ripple site effect.
Till today I dont look people in the eye. Most times when I go out, I wear shades to feel at ease when moving around town.

I started looking at people in the eyes of recent cos the complain and begin to think am timid and intimidated. but now if u look my eyes I look ur eyes o. face no dey face.

ABJDOT:
what do you mean by CROSSED EYES?

to put it in a layman's way,crossed eyes or strabismus is called half past 4 eyes.
the two eyes are looking different ways. the may be looking at u but there eyes show the are looking at another thing.

mandax:
Ok, certificate is not everything, so next election, a certificateless almajiri can even win Nigeria's presidential election, abi?

Perhaps you don't see the clearer picture: for an almajiri to win to become president of Nigeria may be possible given Nigeria's skewed political structure.

buhari is not just anybody. look that he don't have certificate doesn't mean he don't have charismatic qualities. u see wat oga jona with all the certificate in the world couldn't rule this nation and make things better. rather he made things worst.

mandax:
But Dr. Ngige became analogue when, as a doctor, he lined behind a certificateless man to be president of Nigeria in this 21st century, Tufiakwa!!!

dry joke. certificate is not everything

Uncletony:
U will lose ur mum very soon, so u can understand the horror of losing one most valuable human. Anyway am not sure u have a mother..mayb a product of motherless babies home.

hey that was harsh. everyone is entitled to his or her opinions. don't say such. and don't wish such.

YerYer:
Is he wearing eye contacts?

no

Gejpresident:
Ibo-----Biafra

kkk

it means she is shy. unless u av crossed eyes

agarawu23:
as if you are better

Shebi he is tall, rich, handsome which his the main issues of you ladies in a guy? Did you fall In love with him or his appearance? So are you telling us you don't have your own disadvantage?

I know God Himself can't satisfy you ladies even if He comes down to marry one of you.

we are talking about his eyes. hello! eyes is something u notice immediately in a person. cos wen u talk to then u look in their eyes.

all4naija:
This is a person I suspect can't even date out of her tribe complaining about something of this nature.

who? me?

PunkyVeer:
On what?

me. I believe in sharing my problems.I created this post cos it's a problem. I didn't just create it for creating sake

PunkyVeer:
What solution can I provide to this nonsense? And NO, he doesn't need corrective surgery just to appease her. Who is she? Maybe he is fine with how he looks & if Ms Thang over there doesn't like it then she can agitate the gravel. It's that simple. You accept people as they are or do them a huge favour & leave them alone. Problem solved.

babe arnt u being too harsh.

starlingslimnet:
Maybe,but if there is none you can visit a church. You know what I mean

deliverance? haba

donTbone:


sincerely answer these questions...
1. did you love him cos of the eyes?
2. wont you be proud to go out with him in such a condition?
3. if u leave him for another, more handsome than him, will
you leave that too if he had accident and lose a leg, after
being married to him?




My suggestion! Strabismus is treatable, so I see no reason you should leave him!

thankyou so much

all4naija:
He can go for a surgical correction.

is it possible to have the surgical correction in Nigeria?

midehi2:
if the eye is not too obvious i dnt think the children will inherit it


but are you sure hes on marriage terms with you?

yes. he is very serious about marriage. that is why am worried. the guy is nice n caring. has all the nice qualities a guy could have but the eyes....

oh Lord how I wish he doesn't have those crossed eyes. tho is not too bad. but its still there. u can still notice it.

kellyJames5:
If you love him,go on!
I don't think its hereditary.

thankyou

midehi2:
his pics of the eye or...

if not you cant get the right advice

but i dont think you really love him

i do. but I don't want my children to inherit the eyes. it kinda awkward.

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sandrajazmin:
Is it jst me, or are dere ppl who read comments on d frst page nd ignore the rest?


Secondly.....
Hv u eva read a comment on nairaland u like and jst bfr u click like, u notice d person messed d whole comment up wt sth he/she attached below it.
And ur like OMG wtf i all ds, u jst cnt help dan ignore d coment.

yes. when I was studying mass communication in fed poly nekede,I was taught that in a news,people tend to read the first page and get the quick information leaving the rest. it is also applied in NL. most guest read first page only. that is why people that comment on first page have more likes than other pages and that is why people tend to rush to comment on first page.

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ceejay4real:
Shut up! Deluded fool!

monkey

Vikkiboi:
Ahn ahn
Be nice and serious jor

give him eba

keep the good work going. God bless u

realmindz:
so u still pretend u are virgin at home.... ur parents wud ve seen signs

signs and wonders

JoeCutie:
So you didn't tell them yours?

this guy leave me na

its pay back time bitchess in lucious voice