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bukatyne:
Hmmmmmm

The wife who is really the wronged party has moved on.

Others should follow the man's will and do same.

Apparently, a child was the man's utmost reason for marrying that's why he valued his child he met last year over a marriage of 10 years. It is possible he would have left the child if he had kids in his marriage.

@Baby mama: sofry sofry.

P. S.: Is the man a Yoruba man?

chatinent:
I'm more interested in how the child happened.



If he died in his early 40s and the child is 24 now, does it mean the lady got pregnant when he was 16? ...and she was 16 too?


He left his sweet sixteen and married another?


The theme of your story might be more realistic if the man was in his 60s. He's too young to be painted experienced and aged.


More so, another thought indicates that such are prone to happen. It still remains quite dramatic to me.



You are welcome.

I never said he was aged. He was around 43 years old. He slipped and fell in the bathroom.

I think he married the other lady because of close family ties

I don't know if he denied her alone or it was his entire family that denied her..

Bottom line = SHE WAS DENIED

Davash222:
What’s the name of the movie?

It's not a movie. It happened live in my estate today.
At first I thought it was #endsars protesters.

Early this morning, we heard shouts from a particular house in our estate. They were quarrelling and screaming on top of their voices, drawing the attention of the security and other neighbors (peacemakers and amebos)


THE FULL GIST

The owner of the house died few months ago. (Early 40's) The argument was between the brothers of the late man and his baby mama.

She had the baby when she was 16 and the man denied her. According to her, she suffered shame and humiliation among her peers and couldn't continue with her education until much later.

He later got married to someone else but they couldn't have any children for over 10 years despite both being medically okay.

The man (unknown to his wife) decided to go and claim back his child (last year) and ask for forgiveness.. he was eventually forgiven.
Unfortunately the man died this year and the lawyer contacted the man's family.

To their surprise, the man willed 80% of his property to his son, including his business and the house he currently lives in.

The wife got angry and left (she was willed another house) (she is a peaceful woman)


THE PROBLEM

The son (24) went and brought back his mother to the house. This did not go down well with the family. But he said that he will never let his mother suffer again because of everything she went through for him..

He travelled recently for his master's abroad and put his mother in charge of the business. This further enraged the man's family.

The argument is that she doesn't send money back home to the benefactors of the late man, including his aged parents. (He is the first son). All attempts to reach the son abroad had failed.

She insists that she doesn't owe them anything and called the security on them.
They had no choice but to leave the premises.

Some people supported her...
Some criticized her...

For me, I think people should take responsibility for their actions and what they do to others.


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#Admin please hide my identity.


My name is Rose (not real name). I am 22(f), from Igbo and a university undergraduate.


My family recently moved to Port Harcourt. That same month, a guy asked me out. (He's 27) We got along really well and I fell in love with him. We would call often and chat late into the night. I have never visited him, we only hang out in public. He said he's from Rivers State (he was lying), I later found out he's from a state in the Middle Belt region. He apologized


I noticed he is obsessed about me and always wants to know where I am or who I'm with. When I discovered that he's from the North, I completely lost my trust in him and he apologized.


I know that we would not end up together because my parents will never agree, so I started withdrawing and ghosting him.


Yesterday, he called and told me not to leave him that he can't bear it, and I'm the best thing that has ever happened to him. And he would marry me etc.


I told him I wasn't planning on leaving him that I was just busy. He said "Better, because if I leave him, he would come to my house and create a scene. And any day he calls and I don't pick, he will come to my mother to ask for his wife. He said I shouldn't do anything silly that would make him do that.

I was scared because from the way he sounds, he wasn't bluffing. He sounded so violent. I never noticed such character in him.


He called me today to apologise. Saying he loves me and I should never leave him. And he would do anything to make me happy.


Please advise me. How do I end this toxic relationship. Please Ignore my typo. I'm getting depressed


Modified:

Someone asked me for advice. I am the admin of a Facebook relationship group. Your suggestions is what I will give to her.

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