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chatinent:
This comment can make people beat you for no reason. Just take it back before I come out of the toilet.

Hahaha.. Advice the OP all you want.

Newsflash! He is going to send that money because he really wants her, and there's nothing you guys can do about it..

OP, if you like her that much, give her the money
100% of ladies love men who can take care of them.

Awww.. How cute
Redpillers over to you

She has the right to want whoever she wants.. don't you know there is POWER in spoken words?

She didn't choose her father. But she can definitely choose her Husband. That's not anybody's business, so why the rants?

Wow.. this is commendable
God bless Her
God bless every Nigerian Woman
You are the best

heniford2:
madam gold digger >:waiting dem call you face front stop been a fool

You are the fool here
The person she made the cake for loved it so much that he married her. Read the post.
Your own is bad Belle that is worrying you asif you can bake this her "nursery" stage baking.. mtcheew
You'll be fine at last

Men and their Wahala

Because UBUNJA said we should not contribute anything #Durrh

heniford2:
she's still a learner but will go far she should go to youtube and watch what others are doing she will know na nursery she dey if not lower than that

I know Nigeria is hard, but channel this your jealousy elsewhere.
Learner ko, Learned ni.
As if you can do it... Tufia

ifytrik:
not all men please, stop condemning an entire Orange tree because it has one rotten orange

Where is the lie?

FirstSon01:
dear pinkpill,

you should actually buy him a gift considering the fact that he spends on you and is an alpha simp so he'll definitely get tired of you if he feels his acts (of giving in this instance) are not reciprocated.

p.s when giving him the gift let him know that you bought it from the money he gave you just to appreciate him. buy him a gift that he can always see daily. it'll make him remember you.

Thanks a lot.

tobechi74:
Pinkpill, simps love kindness. He is kind to you because he loves those that are naturally kind.
He is gentle and peaceful because he values them too.

Ubunja advice is for Alpha male who love power, to be in charge.
Simp is not Interested in control. The way to his heart is via gifts and that is why he is doing it for you. So you are in the right path, buy gifts for him.

What should you buy for hi

What does he value? Is he a nerd? Bookish type? Buy him a book.

Does he like arts, get an artist to draw a painting of him and present it on new year.

Is he Into music, a CD of his favorite artist is ok.
Is he an arsenal fan, an Arsenal jersey will do.

Gift denotes that you are atentive to his likes .

Wow.. thanks a lot. I appreciate.

virginprincess:
Babe, no fall your hand o, this a festive season, buy him something special with a x-mas card attached to it.

True talk. Thanks babe.

My fiance is the best man in the world. He always makes sure that I'm happy and I don't lack anything.
He even placed me on monthly allowance.

Now the problem is this;

I have NEVER bought him anything tangible since we've been together. Only edible stuff like cookies, fruits and drinks. And he doesn't complain.

Some Nairaland guys have asked me many times what I've contributed to his life and I realized that the answer is NOTHING.
I think it's just PEACE OF MIND that I give him. He says it all the time.

I really want to get him something wonderful this Xmas.

But I remember that Ubunja warned ladies about this: Not to buy anything for a man who spends on you, no matter how small it may be. Because I think it will make him stop spending on you with time.

He has already sent me money for my Christmas shopping.

So please Nairaland guys advice me. Should I buy this gift or I should just continue the way we are. I can't risk this.

PS: I'm not a FEMINIST. I believe in my man being in charge and taking care of me
My boyfriend is an Alpha male but not a Redpiller. He is a SIMP. And I love him that way!

Ubunja
Martinez
Illegend

ubunja:
buy him a simple Christmas card.

Okay. Thanks

After The Hubbub

This is the most illogical and selfish post I have seen and I'll speak from experience.

My fiance is the one sponsoring me in school. I am a final year student.
He pays my tuition, rent and monthly allowance. He is a M.Sc graduate by the way.

Such people are rare. He must love you so much to sacrifice all that.
He's not being selfish. He's securing your future.
He's not securing you for someone else who didn't notice when you were in need.

Only an evil minded person will take advantage of such kind hearted people by deceiving and leading them on just for your own selfish reason.

I think the solution is to make it clear from the start, define the relationship and work towards it.

Please ladies, be wise and hold him tight. Because he only wants the best for you. EDUCATED OR NOT. He loves and cares for you. What else do you desire?

I have said it before;

"I AM NOT A FEMINIST"
I believe in equal rights and respect for everyone.
A man's duty is to LOVE and CARE for his woman.
A woman's duty is to RESPECT and CARE for her man.

Redpillers and MGTOW.. KEEP OFF!!
We know you hate women.
This is a thread for MEN who LOVE WOMEN.

Cc: PinkPill
Cc: Tobechi74

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heniford2:
behind her throne is her pussy served to men behind her stories lays hidden untold pains, abused, torn apart which she can't tell you believe what am telling you nobody rise so fast like that in a lady case without her using her woman power served to men

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SHUT UP! MUMU..

lkillbrokehoes:
It's only a lazy woman that will be a full house wife, thank God for blessing me with a wonderful woman

Ah ah REDPILLAR !!
Are you not Going-Your-Own-Way again?
See how you're gushing over a Woman

Because some women can't keep eating the same soup everyday

[quote author=navzla post=96917703][/quote]Wow.. Great advice for HouseWives

Bigggloadofcum:
I'd rather die than be at the mercy of a WOMAN. Not even my wife.

Who's giving these women this kinda courage to even have this idea?

House husband? There is only something called 'house wife'. Anyway, I know there'll be one weak guy who'll fall into that booby trap.

Wow.. great advice for HouseWives
Thank you Sir.

G

Congrats Mama

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Fahdiga1:
Olosho work pays

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Common sense is indeed not common

demmymoney:
No marriage in sight

But he's always getting ur ALMIGHTY PUSSY! ON A STEADY!!!

WAT A CHAMP!!!!

Okay I've noticed you..

How many times did you quote me?

Sorry to burst your bubble. We're getting married once I graduated..

Why am I so sure?

Because he invested a huge sum of money for me in FOREX during this lockdown.

That's how you know a REAL MAN who has your interest at heart..

He's securing my future bro...

That's why I'm so sure..

I hope there's no sniper around you Sha . I'll miss having you around NL

hashtagged:
But tell me the truth you don't love him, at least you don't love him enough to marry him. People don't love those who care for them

Opps! Wrong answer

I love him with all my heart...

Why do I love him?

Because he's a SIMP

SIMP = A man who knows how to treat his woman right.

demmymoney:
Exactly if she's decent then she will be in ur friendzone but if she'd loose then use her for fwb

Abundance mentality is key

Exactly if he's rich then he will be in ur husbandzone but if he's poor then use him for FWB

Abundance mentality is key

Antiochus:
Naija ladies would only call the guy "the best man in the world" because they get monthly allowance from him. You are even happy a guy placed you on monthly salary, are you disabled? Cant you work? You should be ashamed of this.

And the truth is you would leave that your "best man in the world" if you meet another guy who can pay you more or even double date and have two streams of relationship allowance. That's the life of an average Nigerian girl.

Now dem go dey talk say they can survive without men. Gdiggers

Nah.. that's not true..
I'm a Final year student with excellent grades..
And he doesn't want me getting distracted from my studies or being stranded because of money

He doesn't want anything to affect my grades..