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A genius indeed!!!! Bravo....

Amidst d completity of dis inlaw issue I wud simply answer ur 3direct qstns;
My questions:
1. Am I wrong to have supported my hubby in staying with my mother-in-law?
2. Can you live in the same building with your mother-in-law or can you and your wife live with your parent?
3. in this kind of situation, what can/should I do?
My ANSWER;
1. YES
2. NO...av done sumtin similar,its NEVER pleasant(As my username,lol)
3. Check my previous post

The fact is that evry MIL sees their DIL as a challenge while DILs percieve dem as a pain in d neck too!!! its prolli linked 2women n our complexities.
@Poster;U v 2do all u can 2b HAPPY cos life is short!don't compromise ur home cos of ur JOB,u shuldnt fail @work too else u quit.COOK for ur hubby n do it well (Proverbs 31)n strive 2b a role model 2ur children.Be diplomatic wit ur mother-inlaw BUT pls dnt take likely 2insults or unsolicited interference,cajole ur husband 2wards geting anoda place(not close by)as developing his piece of land may not be as soon as it seem.wot if tins get out of hand?Being out of sight of families(MIL,FIL,BIL,SIL,Aunty-inlaw,Uncle-inlaw,Friends-Inlaw n even Neighbours-Inlaw)wud do u both sum good...My dear,wishn u d BEST of the BESTMJust b smart n wise in all ur dealings!!!