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BigCowHornn:
Don't report to any police station. Rather go dear and look for a matured person and explain your problem

Then tell them to give you an armed policeman if possible to follow you to an area where those boys can see you and him chatting



A soldier works best

After they see the two of you they will want to know who that person is or how he is related to you

Just tell them its your relative and you are free

CHATGPT

I get why you’re thinking this way — when someone feels threatened or uncomfortable in a new area, the mind goes straight to protection, signaling strength, and avoiding trouble.
But let’s break this down calmly and safely.


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✅ First: Be VERY careful with the idea of “bringing soldiers to chill”

Not because you’re doing anything wrong, but because:

Soldiers are not bodyguards.

If someone in the area is truly a cultist, trying to signal affiliation with military people can backfire — it can create curiosity, tension, or even make them feel you’re trying to “test” them.

It may give you temporary perceived safety but not long-term stability.


It’s not the safest or smartest long-term strategy.


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👍 A safer, realistic way to avoid trouble in your area

Keep interactions neutral ...

If someone is trying to size you up or intimidate you:
– Stay calm
– Don’t argue
– Don’t show fear
– Don’t show aggression
Just neutral respect.

4. Keep your movements smart

Avoid walking late at night, especially alone or through isolated paths.



“Inviting soldiers to show you’re not small”

This can work situationally, but only if:

It happens naturally (e.g., they’re your genuine friends).

You’re not using them to intimidate anyone.

It doesn’t become a regular pattern.


If the cult guys think you’re “forming power,” it can actually increase attention.

If soldiers are genuinely your friends and they come around casually once in a while, that’s fine — but it shouldn’t be a tactics.


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⭐ My honest advice

Your best protection is blending in, keeping a low profile, building community rapport, and not giving anyone the sense that you’re competing or proving anything.

Hhh4444:
ha,you pay house rent or buy properties within the month?

second Father of the house , taking care of family needs one way or the other . But I never marry or born . Also balling balling . chopping life on a stead less i forget nepa bills , data sub almost 40k per month , food etc. I should have added house rent but that one comes once in a year and too small compared to what I earn in a month . so that one is not necessary

Upon say i no get girlfriend o 🥲🥲🥲

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oluwaseunamos33:
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Many people don’t realize this, but one of the most powerful weapons of colonialism wasn’t the gun it was religion.

When Europeans came to Africa, they didn’t just want land, gold, and labor. They also wanted to control minds. And one of the most effective ways they did this was through religious conversion.


🧠 The Strategy: Convert the Soul, Control the Body

Before the soldiers came, the missionaries came. They came with the Bible (or the Quran), and taught Africans that their traditional beliefs were evil, pagan, or satanic.

The result?

We gave up our gods, our ancestors, our rituals and accepted a new way of thinking where salvation came from foreign people, foreign lands, and foreign deities.



Desmond Tutu once said:
"When the missionaries came to Africa, they had the Bible and we had the land. They said, 'Let us pray.' We closed our eyes. When we opened them, we had the Bible and they had the land."




🪓 Religion Was Used to Break African Identity

African religions were demonized.

Shrines and sacred sites were destroyed.

Names were changed. Language was lost.

African wisdom systems were ignored.


Instead of honoring our ancestors, we were told to worship a God that looked nothing like us, from a culture that enslaved us.



🤐 Obedience Over Resistance

Colonial governments loved religion because it taught submission.

"Turn the other cheek."

"Obey your masters."

"Suffer now for heaven later."


These teachings made it easier to control colonized people. Rebellion was labeled as sin. Questioning authority was seen as rebellion against God.



⚔️ Divide and Rule Through Religion

Religion was also used to divide African communities:

Convert one tribe, arm them, and turn them against another.

Introduce religious identity (Christian vs Muslim) to divide people who used to live together peacefully.

Support one religious group politically to create long-term ethnic conflict.


We are still living with these divisions today.



📚 Want Proof? Study These:

"How Europe Underdeveloped Africa" Walter Rodney

"African Religions and Philosophy" John S. Mbiti

"The Wretched of the Earth" Frantz Fanon


These are African thinkers who broke down how deep the mental slavery goes.




🔥 Final Thought:

Religion itself isn’t evil but it was weaponized to colonize African minds.

It’s time we question everything. Know your roots. Know your story. Our ancestors had rich spiritual systems before any missionary arrived. Reconnect, reflect, and reclaim your African consciousness.

Lonestar124:
And who is paying someone 16k in today Nigeria? Some people are wicked oo

Go and learn how to paint house, from there you start staying in front of the shop of people selling paint, you will meet client that need painters, you will also meet your fellow painters that will attached you to some work, I did that when was in Onitsha that year, I always stand at ozomagala street ochanja round about, where dey sell paint and everyday I always see work.

It is just for start, and it is easy to learn, lastly you will make more than that 16k a month, and most importantly it will help you build a network and connect you with great people that may a destiny helper to you.

hello sir ma. did you read the post very well ?

it says N16k per day not month

daily earnings not monthly

read again

and it is more than 500k+ per month

doctor306:
You don’t have one year remaining to get married. Invest in your self build relationships (promise no one marriage) learn to network it will save you in your 40s

please what do you mean by the first sentence . trow more light

Advise a single 29 years old man earning 16k+ naira daily 😒