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I feel crazzyyy!!!!

the relationship is been for 9 months, now

I got involved in a relationship which was sweet ealrier but now all ruined. The guys stays overseas and suspects me. He has numerous doubts but wants to marry me. He came and beat me black n blue one day when he thought I was lying and suspects me of having an affair with someone!

I am processing my Visa to go and marry this guy and will get it soon as early as next month. The guy says he loves me but treats me like Sh#t, is this because of distance and will get alright with time? or will this never chyange>? I am in a fix, trapped in a relationship, everyone in the family n frens know that I am marrying him and if I back off now I will be in a big social emabbarrassment.

I am independant, good looking, smart girl but he doesn't seem to treat me well.  I dunno what to do,, I can't go away and stay around!!! He never makes an eye contact or even lets me walk out of the relationship!!! Says he loves me a lottt, n can't let me go. He needs our family, he is 35 and I am 28, this is the peak age we should get married! I am in a experinecing a great emotional instability right now.

Tell  me what do I do? I am very badly getting affected by the whole thing